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This is a genuine question about reporting Moderators... you may discern a hint of complaint, of course.
In the Incest Thread (straight face) I got into an off-topic discussion with @Famine about drink-driving.
In fairness I misunderstood one of his comments that I quoted, in mitigation I stand by some of his later facts being wrong.
I believe I argued the point fairly and demonstrated that by being perfectly willing to apologise when I was wrong.
I did however take issue with some of Famine's comments and wondered if a "normal" user might have got away with that in "normal" forum conversation.
The first, not aimed at me but, I infer, an attempt at a joke was;
I thought that was unnecessary and, while @Famine rightly corrected me that "racist" was the wrong term, I felt that it was unacceptable behaviour for a forum member.
I made that point (and several others).
@Famine then came out with
If that's genuinely the case then I'd have a lot more infractions, messages, warnings or otherwise, surely? There are plenty of people here whose line I disagree with, I try to do it respectfully and with a notably weak joke.
So I reported @Famine's comments. I expected that to be the end of it, that was fine. Report made, matter closed, I wasn't going to discuss it any more. I note that @LeMansAid also said that he'd reported a post in that thread although I'm unsure of it was the same one.
But this morning @Famine posted
I'm not too upset or offended but I'm rather struck that making posts like this makes a mockery of the idea of reporting posts in the first place.
How does one report behaviour that one genuinely feels is unacceptable if the self-same report can be mocked by the reportee in the same thread?
@Jordan, I'd be interested in your comments.
As far as I'm concerned the matter is closed, I'll virtually shake hands with @Famine and mumble one of those schoolboy "sorries"... but the Moderation Report question remains.
Thank you all
In the Incest Thread (straight face) I got into an off-topic discussion with @Famine about drink-driving.
In fairness I misunderstood one of his comments that I quoted, in mitigation I stand by some of his later facts being wrong.
I believe I argued the point fairly and demonstrated that by being perfectly willing to apologise when I was wrong.
I did however take issue with some of Famine's comments and wondered if a "normal" user might have got away with that in "normal" forum conversation.
The first, not aimed at me but, I infer, an attempt at a joke was;
If you have consumed so much alcohol that the only way you can still be conscious is to be Polish...
I thought that was unnecessary and, while @Famine rightly corrected me that "racist" was the wrong term, I felt that it was unacceptable behaviour for a forum member.
I made that point (and several others).
@Famine then came out with
This is why I can't be bothered with your crap half the time. Lots of words, no substance and self-contradiction. Go away and troll some other site.
If that's genuinely the case then I'd have a lot more infractions, messages, warnings or otherwise, surely? There are plenty of people here whose line I disagree with, I try to do it respectfully and with a notably weak joke.
So I reported @Famine's comments. I expected that to be the end of it, that was fine. Report made, matter closed, I wasn't going to discuss it any more. I note that @LeMansAid also said that he'd reported a post in that thread although I'm unsure of it was the same one.
But this morning @Famine posted
I'm going to take the fact that @TenEightyOne reported my last-ditch explanatory post rather than responding to it as an indication that he doesn't get it.
I'm not too upset or offended but I'm rather struck that making posts like this makes a mockery of the idea of reporting posts in the first place.
How does one report behaviour that one genuinely feels is unacceptable if the self-same report can be mocked by the reportee in the same thread?
@Jordan, I'd be interested in your comments.
As far as I'm concerned the matter is closed, I'll virtually shake hands with @Famine and mumble one of those schoolboy "sorries"... but the Moderation Report question remains.
Thank you all
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