Unless you plan on turbo'ing it, its not worth the money/effort bro. I'd say look into getting a CA18DET or SR20 like myself.
Things to remember:
1) Your car is older than dogcrap if its an S13 (like mine), which means your bushings + balljoints + anything else rubber is SHOT. Get it replaced NOW.
2) Your suspension is dog crap, its 10+ years old, time to think about that, unless you have changed it. In that case, good on you.
3) I have no idea why you painted it first, you're going to mess that paint up a bit with dings/scratches/dents from doing motor work on it
4) Your clutch/flywheel, they're done. Time for a new oem/aftermarket one.
5) Always remember, replace essentials BEFORE you do engine mods, if this is your daily driver. My S13 is just a fun car, my project, so I didnt worry about essentials when I did my SR20 swap.
6) Easy bolt on, which everyone from my grandma to ricers, a CAI.
7) If you dont plan on turbo'ing your car, DONT get any larger than 2.5 pipe. You dont need 3 inch, it will only hurt you.
Go here:
http://www.clan-syn.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=190 for a good list of performance parts stores in the states you can order from.