Alex,
IF you believe the Bible...
Woman was taken from man's side to walk beside him and aid him.
Not from his head to lead him or his foot to be walked on.
Adjust your attitude or marry Amish, otherwise you will not find a woman who will want to put up with your s***.
Women need to be treated with respect and a little awe.
IF, you can give as good as you get, you will be happy with your woman, and she with you.
Truth of the matter is that if both parties in a relationship focus on the happiness of the other party both will end up happy and appreciated.
Take neon-duke for example: In another thread he asked for $60k so he could buy his wife a bimmer convertible and then a matching one for himself. Notice what his first priority was?
I could name others that have the same mindset around here, Rumple Foreskin, was ready to rearrange his whole life to be with the woman he loves...I could go on, but hopefully you see the point I'm trying to make.
If we did this from the start, If we treated women with the respect they are due in the first place, we wouldn't be fighting the "equality wars."
Sometimes the easiest way to end a conflict is to see your "enemy's" point of view.
The "house-wife" role was given to the woman because they tend to be nurturers. I was a "house husband" while I was in school and I'm here to tell you if you think it's easy, and you can sit around and eat bon-bons all day, try it! It's a full time job, without monetary reimbursment.