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This video may be several minutes long but... this explains ALOT about personalities, and the way people meet. Without physical attraction but mental, and situational attraction. Just watch. :nervous::nervous:



Seriously it felt good watching that, not knowing what was going on at the beginning, confused from the title; to the whole point and story falling together.
 
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That story sucked. Why didn't he just say screw it and hang with that girl instead? At least get her number to contact her later and tell her how bad the actual date sucked.
 
The massive plot hole didn't help at all. A date isn't going to bail for an entire day and then text to say that she's there (she would have assumed that you've gone off somewhere by that point). Also, a young man isn't going to ditch a smoking hot girl with whom he has a good rapport with so quickly. His date must have had a hell of a reason for her absenteeism or he's a spineless fool.
 
I Peter the Fool !


 
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It's a funny paradox since the only girl I click with at school right now is the one who tells me she's "asexual" right now. We both think relationships are stupid-- just headaches and distractions. :lol: She's a super-motivated person though. Med school incoming.

Is there such a thing as happily being in the friend zone?
 
Omnis
Is there such a thing as happily being in the friend zone?
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Only if it's friends with benefits. ;)

If you only want to be friends with the person then obviously you can be happy.
 
What made this boring to me was that the guy and girl had very cliche, predictable personalities. Only thing good about this was the camera work and editing, story was just bland.
 
Keef
That story sucked. Why didn't he just say screw it and hang with that girl instead? At least get her number to contact her later and tell her how bad the actual date sucked.
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Yeah, that's how it should be done, like a man. 👍 :sly:

But I think I can explain why. The time which both of them spent together, although short, is something unplanned for but it still turned out good. A perfect moment one would see it as. To keep it that way, he doesn't get her number because that would open up future possibilities. Possibilities for improving the relationship, but also possibilities for ruining it. So, it's better to just leave it at that, say goodbye and keep the memory of the perfect moment. I guess perfectionists can understand the concept but I know to most people, it just ain't logical! :dopey:

Also, I think the guy acted like a girl when she told him to get in her car. He was like, "Well, I could be dangerous. *pulls some female k-pop looking cute face*". I mean come on, seriously?! :scared: You're a dude, man up! BTW, I'm Asian as well, so not trying to offend anyone :)

And what happened to the guy's blind date? Why was she late? :grumpy:
 
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Omnis
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It's possible, if you've known the person in question for a long time and the desire to be in a relationship is small or non-existent. The question then becomes, are you happy? If this question was rhetorical, then I have missed something.
 
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