Have you been in this same situation...?

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...in which you go somewhere else to see somebody, or hope that person to be there, just to know that she is not there.

TodayI went to my graphic design class as normal, hoping this really nice girl to be there, and she wasn't. Man, this day is pointless!:irked:
 
What really sucks is talking to her asking her out, she tells you she will be right back takes off without even looking back or even calling after you give her your phone number before she say i will be right back and never comes back..........................
am i repeating my self here...............................................:D
and to make it even worse, my friend just friend not best fried owns a liquor store i pass by to say hi to him he asks me to drop off a girl who is drunk, and this girl is ugly looking if you know what i mean, she was drunk and could barely speak and i got harrased by her:confused:
how she asked if i like to get nasty then she came on to me, rubbing my thigh, my right one, that's when i lost it, istopped opened the door got her out and just took off.........
man that did my day yesterday:banghead: :mad:
 
I know the feeling...

Don't worry, she will be there tommorow.
 
Originally posted by milefile
Yes. Many times. You also have countless pointless days in your future so get used to it. :)
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Yes, but pointless days are better than bad days. It means something's working after all. Except for the girl. She'll be back; as long as it's not RallyF1's favorite liquor store.
 
don't worry yourself about it Tercel, Get your stuff together and make things happen for yourself, eventually things with women workout. If not this one, then the next one, but don't work yourself up over this minor curve in your road ahead. Take it one day at a time. oh yeah, I bet every guy here has done this once or twice, don't center your day around one person, you'll get burnt that way.
 
I guess.

Now that I am here, I might as well tell the little story.

You see, I met this girl since first class. She arrived late to class, and sat next to me. She was really nice. We began to chat , short conversation.

Then, a couple of weeks later, I found her on the library, and from there we went to class. We sat next to each other once we got there, and began again with the short conversations. Nothing special.

Then this guy comes up there and asks her what is she doing there without them. She said she will sat next to them, the next class which she did. Fine with me.

A week after, after finishing some drawing I had to do, I was about to leave when I found her in the back. She was still putting the last touches to it. So, I went and talk to her. I knew a lil bit more, like she grew up in a hispanic family. She is adopted, thats what I understood. Anyways, she finished her project and I escorted her to the door. Bye, bye, and that was the last time I saw her.

As you see the big thing I am trying to pass through is this barrier between her, this guy and me. Still it is not such a hard thing though to do. I think.
 
From the one thing you have said about this guy I can infer that he is not as thoughtful or smart as you. If this girl is worth your time she will see this and choose to hang out with you.

One of the greatest things I ever proved to myself was with an ex girlfriend from years back. I was absolutely infatuated. I had her up on the highest pedestal. We worked together. She was a lot older than me (mature and sophisticated) but I went for it anyway (she didn't look that old). I asked her out for coffee, but she would only meet me there, and didn't want me to pick her up. I got the hint and went along with it. Throughout our psuedo dates over the following couple weeks I learned that I was not her only suitor, which freaked me out bad because I was in love. This was the critical moment when I could've blown it. But I kept my emotions in check without extinguishing them. It was soooo hard at times when I didn't know if she would end up prefering this other guy to me. But my patience and unconditional acceptance of her paid off in spades.... and I got the girl. We lived happily ever after, for two years.

So stay patient and cool and be the thoughtful, accepting person you are and if she is worth it, you shall prevail.
 
It is actually funny. There was this guy at work that basically was doing the same thing this chach is doing to you with this one girl. So basically one day she calls me out of the blue and we talk for like 3 hours. At the end of the conversation she says she needs to see me the next day because she needs to talk to me about something. We meet up on one break the next day and she is telling me how she needs to get away from that one chach because he is trying to push her into something that she verbally stated to him she doesn't want. He kept pushing. I gave her the advice of just being brutally truthful to him and tell it to him bluntly. Then she went into saying something else. She stated that she felt horrible about what she was feeling. She started to state exactly what I was feeling about her. So before she could really say anything about it, I was like, ok take care of one issue first then move onto the next, I gotta get back upstairs to work. So I basically walked away from her when she was trying to tell me she has feelings for me. That I guess got her hooked. especially with the 5 day rule I use with women. I did not call her or anything and three days into it she called and came over and the rest has been fun so far. Still with the girl now going on 6 months. :)
 
Originally posted by miata13B
she needs to get away from that one chach because he is trying to push her into something that she verbally stated to him she doesn't want.
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Congratulations. But what is a chach?
 
chach, kinda like a slang term for sayiing dude, or guy or loser you know?
 
chachs - lol
I don't really think I'm a kid though. Got 23 years experience, but grew up at the age of 18 living on my own providing for myself. Not one single bit of help and put myself through school. I guess at heart I'm a kid but I feel like a 30 year old stuck in the body of a 23 year old.
 

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