I bought GT5 shortly after release, and spent maybe 3 hours with it before I took it out and never touched it again until about a week ago. I felt the SAME exact way. Maybe even more so since I am a Shift2 junky. People raved to me about how great this game to the point of making it seem you will pretty much just DIE if you dont play it lol. I still feel its overatted, and the GT name alone makes diehards and fanboys defend it with blind faith.
I found the B-Spec part to be quite fun. The collection of cars to be decent, but rather upset at the standard vs premium crap (I like cockpit view only!!!). And I can only play it in short bursts or I just feel like I am "grinding". I have only done a few online races with random people so I cant really comment on how the online is...but I hear thats where it shines. But...I still play it.
if you want realistic, buy shift 2 and turn damage on
I agree here. S2 gets hated on a lot, but as far as a "racing" sim on console it is tops. I like the tuning, upgrading, and visual customization that it offers, it is very deep in that respect. Also when you make a mistake...you do get tense because you are not going to "bounce" off a wall or car....you are going to pay for the mistake, and you will hear and see the carnage in a big way.
Realistic handling/driving physics (to an extent), massive car list, strong track list with the best version of the Nordschleife in any game, best photomode of any game.
This game is about collecting cars and enjoying driving them, if you're looking for a hardcore and realistic racing simulation you will not find it. If you want a realistic driving simulation with a lot of cars and some really high quality real world tracks then this is what GT5 gives.
GT5 is for the car lovers and enthusiasts. Playing with a wheel does make a big difference in enjoyment though.
There is damage in GT5, though it takes a lot more abuse to really damage your cars. But yeah it's not realistic damage wise. If you want to crash cars though, GT5 is the wrong game.
And this is my conclusion as well. Its like the pokemon of car games. You keep coming back because you getta get em all. Also there seems to be so much to do, from karting, the NASCAR, the drifting, and the special challenges, it seems there is plenty of game time you will get with GT5. Its good and bad. I dont like drifting or NASCAR, and after playing Dirt series the rally portion seems tacked on.
It seems to me GT5 is a jack of all trades master of none. Sooooooo much content yet each section seems incomplete. You wonder "what if" they cut all the bells and whistles and focused only on driving, damage modeling, 300 premium cars, and more real world tracks what would the response have been? Would people have missed the VW bus challenge?
My advice is to have GT5, but also pick up a few "racing" games as well. F1 2010 is fun, Shift2 is a must have in my book, and the Dirt series is fun as well.