How do I tell her im moving to Europe?

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I've been talking to this girl for about 2-3 months on this one Romanian site :) , and i posted a thread that im new to the city and all, and she IM'd me saying she lives about 10 mins away. And im here in france for about one more week but ive decided to move here in about a year or so after I finish school. So when I get back to AZ I have to tell her somehow. I travel to france quite a bit so paris is kinda like my second home. Her cousins n friends told me to just go ahead and tell her so she wouldnt be mad that ive waited. I dont know how though, i dont want her upset and all. Also her cousin said it shouldnt be that hard since i just tell her on aim but its still hard you know. I hope you fellow GTP members can shed some light and help me with this matter, thanks.
 
You have two options, really...

a) "Baby, roses are red, violets are blue, I'm moving to France."
b) (Walk into the room dazed.) "Eff this! I'm moving to France!"
BONUS! c) Ask strangers on a videogame internet forum.

The best approach takes a little preparation, it's similar to option b). Basically it goes like this... you intentionally get into a fight with her (just pick a random fight over apples, or preferably tomatoes). It will have to go something like this, you: "Tomatoes rule!" -- she: "No! They suck!" -- you: "No! Rule!" -- she: "Suck!" Then, after a while you just say "Eff you! I'm moving to France!" then you get your bags (you've already packed them and put them in a tactical spot) and walk out angry. Get in a cab, in a bus, in a plane, on a train, under a tunnel in a train, whatever it takes really, until you're in France. Succes guaranteed.
 
omg i think thats the fourth time i have laughed out loud from a forum lol. Ill just wait and see what you other people think :)
 
Speaking of that poem sn00pie said a girl in my school got dumped and this was what the dump'er said.

"Roses are red, violets are blue, garbage is dumped, and so are you".
 
Give her the best night of her life and then leave in the mornng!? :dopey:

She'll be mad and happy at the same time and you'll just be happy. Easy as Pie.
 
Perhaps the best break-up line I've ever seen used.

My younger brother was talking on the phone with his girl, while I was sitting nearby playing a video game.

All of a sudden he says to his girl "Hey, you know what? You and my Ex have something in common." His girl says sweetly "Really? what?" Little brother says "Well, you're both now my Ex-girlfriends." Then hangs up.

Now, I think that sp74supra is saying that he currently is in france, talking with a girl via the internet (10 miles? start walking) who is nearby. His student visa (? year abroad?) expires soon and he returns to Arizona. But he pretty much has decided that he wants to move to back France :odd: So how does he tell this girl that he wants to move 6000 miles to be near her, without her freaking out?

Am I close?

AO
 
Um no need to question your supreme understanding but why would she be upset?
Her cousins n friends told me to just go ahead and tell her so she wouldnt be mad that ive waited. I dont know how though, i dont want her upset and all, her friend said im her first bf so its even worse when i tell her *sigh*.
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Freaked, confused, pressurized maybe, but upset?

I dunno you could be right, needs to be re-typed IMO.
 
I still don't understand how you can seriously call her your girlfriend, when you've never met her for gods sakes.

That's completely mental.
 
hmm not really.And yes i currently am in france for about one more week. I travel to France often to see my relatives. I live in Arizona, but I have decided to live in France since I like it and am used to the locations and can go on my own. I know a couple of girls here but im not moving just because of them lol. So yeah, any nice way to tell her? I know its just that she puts all these i <3 rafy all over forums but i havent even met her! She just all of a sudden started calling me her bf. She would get upset because her friends tell me she thinks about me nonstop so if i leave, it wont be a pretty sight.
 
no she doesnt know my address. Im just going to tell her, who cares. I mean shes not even my gf just a friend. I think i'll post the conversation
 
So you've never even met her?

Just stop using the internet for a while and maybe she'll think you died.
 
yeah ive seen it lol, im talking with her this very second n she keeps on saying ill change ur mind n all, hmm what else to say?


**edit** k shes happy now because shes all its ok i will come with u.

OMG i feel like im the guy from swimfan!!!!
 
Dude, you've never met her and she wants to go half way round teh world with you?

I'd start telling her plane horror stories.
 
She sounds like a psycho if you ask me. I mean, most girls are extremely skeptical of online dating, most are afraid to meet people they've met online, and 99.99% of them never think of calling someone their bf...considering they've never met before.
 
ExigeExcel
Dude, you've never met her and she wants to go half way round teh world with you?

I'd start telling her plane horror stories.
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I KNOW!!! I'll just do as my friend says just let it go, dont talk as much n stuff ha, thats where I wanna live then I should go there and be happy 👍
 
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She sounds like a psycho if you ask me. I mean, most girls are extremely skeptical of online dating, most are afraid to meet people they've met online, and 99.99% of them never think of calling someone their bf...considering they've never met before.
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very true man, im just gonna let it go.
 
i dont know who's more naive....you or her.

you haven't even met... as far as you should be concerned, she is just an IP address. :P

i think internet dating is totally retarded.
 
sideslider
well we've been chating back and forth for like two weeks now...so I'd say things are getting pretty serious....

lol...j/k

good luck
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lol. i havent talked to her for a few days so i guess things r how i want them to be :) . Ah time to go hang out with some of my French buddies 👍
 

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