I HATE my EFFIN situation

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well... here I am, without a ****ing life, even more so than I have ever been... why? because I am working FULL TIME ( read 9 am - 11 pm) @ my parents restaurant... heh... without getting paid. only income are the fekken tips. why? well, family economy is very bad, and the dude that worked for them flee off, so now that Im on "vacation" they were like "you wanna (gonna!) help us?" -__- "yeah, of course (I dont want -__-)"
SOOOO, well, things suck. the place isnt working. its exhausting. and even the relationship with my girl's been REALLY affected. Now that shee needs me more I cant be with her, because im like "good afternoon, ma'am". Main reason of why I aint in GTP as often as before, too. agh. and I wanted to do so many things these vacations. look for a job... a real, good job, because I just HAVE to get out of my parents house (read control) as soon as ****ing possible. this was going to be my first step, and now they are only 2 months of my life, and counting, thrown to the garbage can. I just dont want to be there anymore, but I dont know how to tell my parents (mother, really, I know my father understands me) that I dont want to keep loosing my time on that ****.

sucks, doesnt it?

Cano

what would you do?
 
Originally posted by Cano

what would you do?
Buy M5Power a Leon Cupra R.

Actually, Cano, I think you're a great member and you're a valuable asset in that you're the only regular, competent poster (as in, you use periods and capital letters usually) who resides in Mexico.

I'm unsure of what I'd do if faced with your situation, but it'd probably involve going out on my own, no matter what it costs (not only monetary).
 
yeah, EVEN saturdays. (:
as for buying you a leon cupra... well, first Ill have to buy one for me. I see them frequently. hell they ROCK. I love seat, they are making incredibly cool cars. the toledo turbo rules too. and I cant wait for the Ibiza cupra R to go on sale in here in a few months :drool:

Cano

well, yeah, that is really my plan. the hell with everything. with the things I really want to do, hell is gonna break loose anyway, but I just dont want it to be THAT agressive. I need to find work first, dammit.
and thank you for all that :P
 
Even on Saturdays!! Your parents expect to much of you!

Don't get aggressive and doing things too rash. Weekends are for free time that is when you should be doing what you want to do.
 
Theres always the option of giving your parents the stiff middle finger and a square **** you, but then you'd more then be kicked out.


Other then that, I have no suggestions.
 
No, Im not gonna do things harsh because of the work, it will be a more, WAY WAY WAAAY more DEEP reason that will make all hell break loose and actually break up with probably my entire family. but for this... well, I just want to be able to find work so I can make myself out of my parents house!!! hey, Id be out of there if I had either a job, or someone who would receive me in his/her/their house and hold me there until I find a decent job so I can go out and live by myself. unfortunately I canT even continue with my drawing portfolio because of the clients that get in and eat -_- or because "you have to do this/that" and stuff. I tought these months would be a good oportunity to actually make some progress on my car art portfolio, but it has been impossible. so far I have only finished one and rendered three... in two months!! AGH!!! but no, I couldnt look for a stupid job because I have to be in "las campanas" (the bells, for all you non spanish speaking dudes... named like that because my mom collects bells...) all fekken day, some times sitting there watching TV for 3 hours because, well, place isnt working as we want... so, you can see the reason of my frustration...

Cano

I really need to go -__-
 
Oh yeah, a fat $396.68 paycheck. Doug's wealth pails in comparision to mine. If you want to be successful, work at Popeyes.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
Buy M5Power a Leon Cupra R.

Actually, Cano, I think you're a great member and you're a valuable asset in that you're the only regular, competent poster (as in, you use periods and capital letters usually) who resides in Mexico.

I'm unsure of what I'd do if faced with your situation, but it'd probably involve going out on my own, no matter what it costs (not only monetary).

What Doug is trying to say...

You should go and kart your ass off, and everything will be just fine!

It's his solution for everything.
 
Originally posted by sn00pie
What Doug is trying to say...

You should go and kart your ass off, and everything will be just fine!

It's his solution for everything.

Hmm, I interpreted it as "I'm a rich stupid bastard and you shouldn't listen to anything I say".

:odd:
 
Originally posted by Cobraboy
Hmm, I interpreted it as "I'm a rich stupid bastard and you shouldn't listen to anything I say".

:odd:

Yep, that's what I got.
 
Oh, you guys...

Doug isn't rich, he drives a Ford and he only has - like - three houses.
 
Originally posted by Cobraboy
Hmm, I interpreted it as "I'm a rich stupid bastard and you shouldn't listen to anything I say".

:odd:
Hmmm, I interpreted this as "I'm childish and jealous of people who can make posts with more than one sentence in them."

Cano, buck up a little. I'm sure you're eager to get out and get moving, but think of this as supporting your family like they supported you these years. Pitch in and try to help as much as you can. If things aren't working out for the restaurant, maybe it will end soon, or maybe it will pick up and get better. Either way, stick with it for a little while in honor of your parents and supporting something they are trying to do.

I don't mean you need to keep doing it forever, but sticking with it for a few months more will mean a lot to your parents. In the meantime, do what you can to find a differnt job and work on your stuff.

Good luck to you. I agree with M5power that you're a valuable member here and hang out here when you can!
 
Start walking north. Keep going. Jump the fence. Look for the water we left out for you. Watch out for the rancher militia. And you're home free.
 
Cano, are you Asian?

No, dont take it as some racist comment.

It is just that I knew somebody, from China. He has a sister, and they both work for their family. They own a restaurant. The thing is that their parents dont pay them, and even her brother had to quit a school year to help on the restaurant. I dont know why it is like that.

Btw, I am more or like in your situation. My family is waiting for the residence status to come. Once I get it, I am going to quit college, and make my life. For the moment, I am just ****ed up, here in the house, having to listen all my parents ****, yells and that. But I just have to wait. But word, though, once I get the papers, I am outta here.


EDIT: I just read you reside in Mexico?, New Mexico? Are you hispanic, or what. Anyways, my parents are not like that , but I still need to get the hell out of this house, and begin my life. Hell, I have already lost 3 years of my life coming here, restarting the last two years of high school, and studying a career that I like, but for ****'s sake, my life is miserable. I dont have a car, I need to take the damn city trasnport to go to college, and forget about saturday's man. It is all about staying in the house and continue listening to my parents whining.
 
Originally posted by ALPHA
Good for you Concept you must be in more cash that Doug could ever dream of ;)

Probably, considering I worked 0 hours and 0 minutes this week, with a healthy 0 minutes of overtime.

Unless you call driving work.

What Doug is trying to say...

You should go and kart your ass off, and everything will be just fine!

It's his solution for everything.

It's my solution when it applies, weenie.

Hmm, I interpreted it as "I'm a rich stupid bastard and you shouldn't listen to anything I say".

I'm definitely a stupid bastard, and you clearly shouldn't listen to anything I say. Have you learned nothing over your year of hating me? You need practice.
I see them frequently.

Don't tell me that! I'm drooling in jealousy; I've never seen a Seat product in North America.
 
Probably, considering I worked 0 hours and 0 minutes this week, with a healthy 0 minutes of overtime.

Unless you call driving work.

Boy Doug, you sure work hard for your money...;)

Hmmm, I interpreted this as "I'm childish and jealous of people who can make posts with more than one sentence in them."

Yeah, Duke, I wasn't talking about the part where he mentioned that Cano was a valuable member (which he is), I was just talking about Doug's first sentence...;)
 
just think.. this is what was common 100 years ago.. working to help support the family.. im in no position to knowwhat your going through.. but i think you should help your family.. they brought you up through the the thick and thin... why abandon them when they are in need of help? just a thought..:rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by DODGE the VIPER
Boy Doug, you sure work hard for your money...;)


I'm on vacation! I'm actually working much more than I wanted to on my vacation - how many people do you know who would do that!?
 
helping my family, suppoerting them. well, I might have left something unmentioned. My parents have been supporting, yes, in some relatively important aspectsof my life, they have maintained me, but they thin that this is enough. last year, I made a thorough decision for me and my life. and for my future life, wich involved of course my girl and even my laboral future... not mentioning some very deep stuff... and well... they were just like... "ok, go do it, but outside our house" and... well, to this very day, they are totally unsuppotive on that. I understand they dont agreed with it, but it was just the first decision I have made... and, they just cut it off. like that. they prohibited me to take decisions. to get MY life, not the life THEY WANT ME TO HAVE, going. so, its a LIIIITLE difficult for me to even LIVE with them. yeah, I love them very much, they are the best parent I could have had... and all... but, its not like that before. Im not their little child any more. I want a life for myself. they wont allow me to. I want, and need to make decisions. my way of life and theirs is different now. if I screw up my life, it will be because I decided it would be like that, and Ill live with such responsibility. I prefer that, thann living unhapily because, well... Im still daddy and mommy little kid, wich will do everything they want. I wanted to get a job because I wanted to get my life going. and now.. look at me -___-

Cano

toughts on dat?
 
All right, well, it's a different story then. I don't know the details obviously, but it probably is time to move on. Still, give them a month or two so you can make sure you're prepared as well as giving them a chance to get prepared. Tell them you need to cut back your hours by like 2-3 per day, and spend that time on your stuff and on finding a job or even two jobs. Line up a place you can share with somebody.

See Tercel_driver's thread for some good suggestions on living for cheap.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
I worked 0 hours and 0 minutes this week, with a healthy 0 minutes of overtime.



My life story right there ^ ...
 
have you talked it over with your parents? I don't know, I see what your saying though, I'd kinda be optid to leave also. Dude, just get your girlfriend to work there too... You'd be all set then. :) just trying to lighten it all up... I dont know what to tell you. Good luck i guess, but talk it over with your parents. Tell them the way you feel. Tell them you want to start your life, maybe have a family when the time is right etc etc. Good Luck!
 
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