I need MORE girl advice...

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Well, haha.. Yes im back again. (Girls, girls, girls eh?)

Anywho, i met this girl Brittany today when i went with a friend and a bunch of other people to go bowling. She was one of those people...

...To make the story short, so i dont blabber, all i have is a question.

Question: If i was able to go out with this girl, i would only be able to see her every tuesday, and maybe some time in between when my friend can get us together, as i cant drive. So would it be worth it to go out with her if i only saw her every couple of days and talk to her on the phone, or should i just move on and forget about her?

Thanks. Again.
 
ah go for it what have you got to lose?..many relationships are based on a couple of days a week as people have busy lifestyles..

And anyway make sure she does some travelling your way, if she really likes you then she'll want to see you right? Or your friend is soon going to get sick of travelling you about, unless you start paying for his fuel :lol:

And in the early stages of seeing her it's a good thing to only meet up a couple of times a week as it doesn't make you look desperate (Like if you were banging on her door everyday)

Plus you'll have far more to talk about if there's gaps between seeing eachother?

Always look for the positives in these situations not the negatives :D
 
My best relationships were the ones where I chose to only see them 1 or 2 times a week. They seem to see you as not needing them and for some reason many are drawn to that. My wife was that way. I only saw her on Friday night for about a year and then I would only meet her places and never pick her up. Of course I was working full time and trying to go full time to College too so I didn't have a lot of time.
 
Its like I said on aim, every couple of days is better than nothing. Just go for it. You'll most likely regret it if you dont.
 
Take the chances you get, just don't look desperate. How long until you can drive? For me, it's 6 long months... Last year i dremt of it being the last week of school I'd get my license, but now school's extended a week(AND MY CITY ALREADY HAS THE LONGEST SCHOOL YEAR OUT THAN ANY OTHER CITY IN THE FREAKING STATE!!!) so I'm kinda pissed, but hey...

Oh, and Alex_gt, when you said
Like if you were banging on her door everyday
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, the first three words I saw when I was reading the line above were
Like if you were banging on her door everyday
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...
 
For some reason I thought the same thing. :odd: It doesnt surprise me though. I usually have dirty thoughts runnin through my head all day. :lol:
 
Haha, i thought that too.

Ok, so i will go for it. Its probably a long shot (because i remember her saying that her mom said she couldnt have boyfriends,) but hell, ill try. :)
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
but hell, ill try.
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At a boy! :p

Go for it 110% man. If you see something in her that you can't find in any other person, go for it. Besides, you're still young....you've got nothing to lose. If things don't work out, it'll be alright.
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Haha, i thought that too.

Ok, so i will go for it. Its probably a long shot (because i remember her saying that her mom said she couldnt have boyfriends,) but hell, ill try. :)
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Ok,
You have your work specially cut out for you.
You not only have to get the girl interested. If you want to have a good relationship, you have to convert mom too. Because "sneaking around" sucks!! And it shows disrespect for Britanny's parents.
If you're the organizer type set up a "movie nite" or "Skate nite" where there is a big group of y'all where you can see her. But in a "safe" setting.
Invite her mom to stay, get to know her. BE ON YOUR ABSOLUTE BEST BEHAVIOR!!!
Eventually, you can broach the subject of dating her daughter. Plus, if you start at mom, you will come off as being more mature AND respecting what you have heard about the "not dating" rule.

Now, get busy.:D
 
Hmm. Well it wouldnt be that hard to sneak around.. Id see her every tuesday in youth group and any time my friend can hook us up. :p
 
But if you get caught, she's busted and in trouble. Because of you. That could be a major turnoff.
Get her parents in your corner and You get easy access. Plus you don't have to worry about running into her parents somewhere whilst sneaking around. Or one of her friends offhandedly mentioning seeing you two together while her mom is within earshot.

As a parent, I can tell you if I caught you sneaking around with my child, You would both be in deep sh**.:irked:
 
Me again,
You mention youth group. Is that a church youth group?
That will also give you a bit more credibility with Brit's parents.
But I will stand by what I said earlier.
I broke up with a girl in high school 'cause we had to "sneak around" to see each other. I SHOULD have called her dad, and asked his permission to see his daughter.
After you establish a pattern of avoiding her parents it may become difficult to get comfortable hanging around them. So, if you can START out in the open. The relationship has a much better chance of being a good one.
 
Originally posted by rjensen11
Take the chances you get, just don't look desperate. How long until you can drive? For me, it's 6 long months... Last year i dremt of it being the last week of school I'd get my license, but now school's extended a week(AND MY CITY ALREADY HAS THE LONGEST SCHOOL YEAR OUT THAN ANY OTHER CITY IN THE FREAKING STATE!!!) so I'm kinda pissed, but hey...

Oh, and Alex_gt, when you said
, the first three words I saw when I was reading the line above were ...
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:lol:
 
I cant meet her parents.. I dont even remotely know her Gil. Maybe if i find some way to be able to see her more, then i can meet her parents. But if its an every other day basis, that doesnt leave much time to actually go get to know her parents.

Her parents say she cant have boyfriends, but she doesnt care and she gets them anyway.. (Shes single right now, so yea)
 
Wooh! Tonights the night. Though, im afraid i might have a little trouble tonight with another guy.

My friend Carolyn at school says that someone told shirley (a girl that was flirting with me at the bowling alley) - They told her boyfriend that i liked her. I do like her, and i think she likes me back, but she has a boyfriend and i never told ANYBODY that i liked her. I dont know who told her, but i might end up getting in a fight with Scott (her boyfriend) tonight.

From what i hear, he wont try to fight with me because my friend Johnathan is there, and if he does, Johnathan wont let him at me. If he does come at me, im going to have to kick his ass (they also say he cant fight for crap.)

I hate to fight, and ive never been in a fight before, but if he comes at me im going to have to.

Anyway.. I stressed over that enough at 6th period (after i heard,) so im just going to relax. Their coming to pick me up in about 1 hr, so ill be gone then.

Anywho, just the update. I'll tell you all what happens when i get back tonight.
 
Unless you have ABSOLUTELY no choice, Do not haul off and jack somebodies jaw.
If you can see a way out, take it. Too many people are crazy enough nowadays to hurt you badly later if they don't win in a "fair" fight.
If the girl EXPECTS you to fight over her...trust me, you do not need this kind of trouble in your life.
If you can bow out gracefully, you impress the girl with your intelligence. And her boyfriend looks like a hot-tempered ass that may turn on her and hit her someday.
 
First off, i wont fight unless i have to. Second, its not over Shirley, its to protect myself. Hell, i wouldnt fight over a girl even if i was forced to.

Brittany is the girl im after.
 
Just talk to the guy. But show a little bit of agression, because if you show none he'll pound on you anyway.
 
I have returned from the youth group thing, and i have some good results.

Shirleys boyfriend didnt care, neither did she. Shirley came up and asked if i liked her when i first got there, i said no, then she asked if i liked brittany, i said no (I lied. so sue me.) - Anywho, whole thing started and at first i was all nervous and evrything.. Eventually we started talking a bit then we kinda gave "flirt" nudges to each other every once n a while. We basically talked a bit, and i got her phone #.

Not from her, but from a friend of mine Brandon (whom she gave it to, trusting him not to give it to me, but lo and behold i got it.)

Anywho, she didnt want him to give me her number i guess because shes shy and not very good at these types of things. Tats what he says, but theres some definite signs of like-age showing.

I'm really happy and i cant wait to go back next week so i can see her again. :)
 

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