In Memory of Beau

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Each summer I play baseball for parks and rec. This year my team got first.
This is a few weeks afterwards.



I just got the ominous call from my coach...one of our better players, beau, was driving home from work late in the night, and got t-boned right in the driver side by a drunk driver.

I didn't really know the guy, he went to a different school than me, but he was a cool guy, the type you'd want to hang out with. He was really good at baseball. I often asked for is advice.

I've seen his car before, its just a little old honda accord.I don't know what the other driver was in, but he stood no chance.


He died instantly on impact.

I will attend his service, and my thoughts and prayers are with his family.


I wanted to dedicate this thread in the memory of Beau.
 
so sad to hear the news.... i offer my condolences to you blitz_69. i hope things go well afterwards for you
 
so sad to hear the news.... i offer my condolences to you blitz_69. i hope things go well afterwards for you

Thank you, and like i said, I hardly knew the poor guy. I just played baseball with him. I think his service is on wednesday, I will go with my team to pay our respects.





Thanks guys, this means a lot. that's what I love about you guys here at GTP,
something happens and everybody cares for ya.
 
Wow that's sad, I hate it when I hear about someone getting killed or even injured by a drunk driver. I offer my condolences and prayers as well.
 
My condolences! The whole world needs to really step up the consequences of driving drunk or under any other influences. I really hate drunk drivers with a passion because I too have been a victim of drunk driving. I was lucky to be alive. My prayers are with your teammate's family!
 
I have my own ideas of how to stop drunk driving, but it will only happen in bars, it does not include the household drinkers.

Thank you again, all of you.
 
Sorry to sound a little harsh here, and let me preclude this my saying I am truly sorry and upset to hear of your teamate's untimely demise in such awful circumstances. :( R.I.P. Beau.

Solving drunk driving has nothing to do with the Bars though. They responsibly serve drinks to paying patrons. They cannot be responsible for the hundreds of customers that come to them, nor how they choose to leave, unless laws are passed that permit bar owners to detain inebriated clientele if they attempt to drive, which I believe most people would view as impinging on their civil rights.

The problem with drunk drivers in the USA is that the system is too lenient on them. First offense here seems to carry very little penalty unless you actually kill or maim someone. 3 month ban (in serious cases) with the option to reduce this by AA classes, and driving school, very little jail time and minimal (i.e. $1000-ish fines) is not a sufficient deterrent to stop people doing it, and certainly not enough to keep people from reoffending. I recall a prominent WRS member here who was seriously injured by a drunk driver, not on his first offence, but his third!!! :scared: There is no reason at all that a person previously convicted of drunk driving once, should be allowed not only a second, but a third chance, no matter if you've Paris Hilton's money or not.
Have a search for drink driving penalties around the world, and ask yourself if this country has a sufficient deterrent to stop people from doing it?
If I recall correctly, Bolivia & Poland are 2 of the world's strictest anti-drink driving sentences for first offenders. Imagine their penalties here! Would that make you think twice, rather than the lenient "slap on the wrist" in the US?
Even in my home country, first offence for drink drivers is an automatic, no-questions-asked 12 month ban + fines & possible jail time. And thus people are much more careful about what they drink before they drive, even in the liberal and much more widespread pub & drinking culture in Britain. I'm not saying folks never drink & drive, but compared to here it's a lot less prevalent, and most people with either opt to not drink at all or have 1 beer, wine or shot and no more if they know they have to drive home afterwards. It's just not worth the risk! :ouch:

from 80mg.org.uk website
Penalties

For any offence of driving or attempting to drive while over the prescribed alcohol limit, there is a mandatory minimum sentence of one year's disqualification. This can only be waived in very exceptional circumstances, such as if the offence was committed in response to a medical emergency, or if the offender would be completely unable to earn a living. A first offender will also receive a fine, typically around £300 - £400, although fines can be below £100 for offenders of limited means.

Magistrates have the power to impose longer periods of disqualification and are increasingly making use of this - in some cases 18-month bans have been imposed for BACs below 120 mg. The maximum sentence that can be imposed for driving with excess alcohol is a fine of £5,000, and a 6-month prison sentence, something that is not as widely appreciated as it should be.

If an offender has committed a second offence within a ten-year period, or has a BAC over 2.5 times the legal limit (i.e. 200 mg or above), they will be classed as a "high-risk offender". They will receive a three-year minimum mandatory period of disqualification, and before they can drive again will be required to satisfy a doctor - at their own expense - that they do not have an ongoing alcohol problem.

The penalties for refusing a breath or blood test at the police station are identical to those for a "standard" offence. However, the courts are likely to impose penalties well above the minimum for this offence - often a ban of eighteen months or two years - as refusal can clearly be used to conceal a very high blood-alcohol level.

There are also various charges relating to being "in charge" of a vehicle, but not driving or attempting to drive it. These do not carry mandatory disqualification, although the penalties can still be severe, typically 10 penalty points. The police often take a very broad view of attempting to drive - for example a man who had left his car in a pub car park, had too much to drink, and decided to retrieve his briefcase from the boot before phoning for a cab home, was convicted of attempting to drive, and disqualified.

You should be aware that if your car is parked in the street, you are committing an offence if you even so much as touch it while over the drink-drive limit. You should certainly not, for example, help to push it away from blocking a driveway.

There's no ambiguity, such as walking a line or reciting the alphabet backwards, in most other countries. You blow in the machine if you're pulled over and 30s later there's a verdict. Fail and you're off to the police station to do a confirmatory test, and if you refuse, well, it's described in the quote above.

Which in essence is a great thing! 👍

Again, I'm sorry if this seems harsh, but you owe it to Beau, to make sure that this drunk driver (if he survived the accident too) never drives again. 💡
Make it known that it won't be tolerated, by harsher sentencing, and that "one for the road" mentality :dunce: will have to become a thing of the past. 👍
And in doing so the roads become safer for everybody. :)
 
^^^I agree with what you said. That's what I meant by stepping up the consequences for drunk drivers. I don't know about other countries but the US is too lenient on drunk drivers. They need to realize how serious this is so they'll greatly increase the penalty of driving under the influences of either alcohol or drugs.

Sorry Blitz, I just had to get that off my chest. I didn't mean to go off topic in your thread. If you guys want to discuss this further, PM me.
 
Things like this make me mad...drunk drivers who get behind the wheel and take an innocent person's life....

R.I.P Beau
 
My condolences to Beau, his family, and to you.

I agree that stiffer penalties for impaired driving are a must. Even though I have a serious problem with it from a civil liberties standpoint, I support sobriety checkpoints and I think that there should be fewer opportunities for leniency in enforcement. Personally, I phone 911 any time I see ad river that looks impaired.

Again, sorry about this tragedy.
 
I feel so sorry for you friend :( My condolences to your friend and his family.Its just sad to hear this,i have lost someone in my life too a few days ago.... :( (read the thread below my signature to find out)
 
I am not an overly religious person, but in times like this i do pray, I pray for his family, and my other teammates. There were about 4 of us that went to a different school than all the others, so we didn't really know him that well. I'm not sure about the others, but I do now that the coach and his son are taking it preety hard, I pray for them to. One thing is for sure, he will be greatly missed.

And about the drunk driving, all my idea was is that when you leave the bar that a bouncer gives you a breathalysers test, and if you have a BAC of .08 or higher than the bar calls you a taxi, nothing complicated, but it gets the job done because not only are the not driving home, but their car is still at the bar, so they don't go out at midnight or something.
 
I've heard of a similar accident like this with a whole family from our school involved. There was the mother, father and daughter in the car. The car was hit head on from a semi driven by a drunk driver. As if that wasn't enough, it fell off the overpass it was on. Both parents died and the daughter is in critical condition.

I'm very sorry to hear about the accident. I am a Christian and will offer my prayers to the family.

:(
 
I'm more mad than anything else, he had a good life ahead of him. What pisses me off more than anything is that I learned the drunk was also under aged.
 
Today I attended Beau's service. According to all the people that spoke, he was all I knew him to be and much, much more.


"Whatever your hand decides to do, do it with all your might" That was his favorite quote from the bible. He led his life by it, he was very passionate in everything that he did.

He inspired me and I hope that by his example he will inspire many others. Maybe you will read this and be inspired, who knows.

He was only 19.
I will never forget Beau Bockmann.
 
It's too bad that this happened, My Great Grandfather died last week... He didn't seem quite old enough IMHO. There were no services, he just got cremated.
I send my condolences to you, and the bockmann fammily.
 
EDIT my great aunt died last week as well, i idint know her super well though, death comes in 3's :(
sorry for the double post.
 
Rest in Peace Beau, my condolences are with you Blitz and his friends & family
 
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