@Woodybobs , great thread, and impressed with your modesty.
Yes, it is his own fault for sliding, but,
if he had a chance to save it... it was spoiled by your decision to risk it and "see what happens".
I'll give you credit, you did not get into the gas and simply drive through him... on the other hand you released the brake... what to do what to do?
Heat of the moment deal... see it all the time in real racing... and hindsight is always 20/20 so it's easy for me to sit here and say you should have been on the brake in an effort to avoid, but, I'll not sit here and tell you i would have 100% made the right decision either. It's a tough one.
Interesting how you ended up loosing both positions anyways... is that karma at work? Ha?
Anyways, if I put myself in the other drivers seat...
I take responsibility for loosing control of my car, and going into a slide... I have faith that my fellow racer will avoid me, but, hey, I realize I'm sideways on a track with cars racing for position close behind... yep, it's their responsibility to get around me, but, I've not put them in a position to do so without risk and uncertainty on their side.
I'm not happy that you tapped me, but, it was me that put you in that position.
In the heat of the moment I kick my own butt for loosing the car, forcing others to try and avoid me and the inevitable.
Watching the replay, I wish you would have dragged the brake a little longer, but, am certain I would have still lost all 3 positions anyways.
I think he is totally out of line for being upset with you, he lost control of his car and deals with the consequences.
On the other hand, a little more brake, maybe there would have been no contact. maybe he would not have fully spun, maybe he would not have lost all 3 spots... maybe... maybe if he'd kept control of his car we'd not be talking, and maybe if he was mature enough to take responsibility for his own mistakes he'd see he put you in a rough spot, and you lost 2 positions as a result, and would be apologizing to you rather than being a child and shaming you for something he initiated.
He should not have lost control of his car.
You should not have hit him.
At least you didn't gas it through him.
You both lost a bunch of spots as a result.
Stuff happens.
Racing incident.
Getting out the soapbox.../
I'm betting you both ghosted for those other 2 cars to pounce so quickly...
Maybe if ghosting was removed there would have been more carnage...
Maybe if ghosting was removed we'd have all learned to not charge into these situations and there would have been no carnage...
Maybe the uncertainty and inconsistent ghosting system has trained us to "game" these situations...
Now I'm not blaming ghosting, but it does little to teach people to watch what's going one well ahead, and build proper accident avoidance awareness/techniques.