SO how to do it with any problems!
1. create playlist in your PS3 with songs you want!
2.then change play settings, Shuffle ON and Repeat OFF
3.select your created playlist (not seperate tracks) and select one of the songs (not the first one)
4. delete all RACING or MENU default playlists! so the list is 100% empty!
it works for me now.. I had these problems before!
AND wery important.. check your songs one by one in your PS3 do playstation player recodnize them.. sometimes song cannot be played.. you must delete them! (PS calls them corrupted data, or something, but only after you try to play them)
PS.. but sometimes still it feels like There are some songs that I never hear.. but they are in the playlist.. but this is issue I still cant change!