Official "Worst day of my life"

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The worst day of my life.

Yes, it happened yesterday. For the most part, the day went smooth. The usual hiccups at the office, and the usual stumbling blocks. Nothing out of the ordinary.

On the ride home, I called the director of the rescue to check in. All I got on the phone through his tears was "I've got 8 birds dying, and I can't get a vet" then he hung up.

A quick call to the wife, cancelled dinner plans, picked her up and officially "flew" in a Nissan pickup down to Cape Cod. The usual 1:15 trip took 40 minutes. I figured when I hit the Borne bridge, and was upwards of 80mph, I should slow down. However Rte 6 was open and I violated just a few motor vehicle laws the rest of the way.

We arrive at the rescue, and find the director cuddling the 9th parrot that had died.

By this time the fire department had left, the animal control officer had left, and the police had left. Air Quality was fine, the rest of the birds were fine.

What we narrowed it down to was the 9 birds had eaten a half of a grape, that was given as a treat. Nothing out of the ordinary, and in fact they had washed and rinsed all of the grapes like we normally do. The grapes are from Chile, and this isn't the first outbreak the Cape has had with grapes.

These were parrots that I have held, played with, been bitten by, and loved. I've got scars from Marly that are almost like a going away present.

Marmalade, a Mollucan Cockatoo
Lita, a Greater Sulphur Cockatoo (51 years old)
Sunny, an Umbrella Cockatoo
Joe, another Umbrella
Abigail, a Medium Sulphur Crested cockatoo,
Marly, an Umbrella Cockatoo (and one of the mascots of the rescue)
Tasha, another Umbrella Cockatoo
Marcy, a Noble Macaw (our first rescued bird)
Squally, a Pionus

The grapes are being tested by the Health Department, as the daughter of the Director (she's 18) had three grapes and became violently ill.

It happened so fast. The Parrots ate the grape, and in 15 minutes started showing signs of being sick. Swaying and regurgitation, by minute 16-17 they had lost muscle control and couldn't stand or hold a perch. Within minutes from then, they were dead. Unlike a dog or cat that simply falls asleep, the parrots fight it with every ounce of strength in their body. The owners mother and future son-in-law both had to get stitches from bites incurred while the bird they were holding died in their hands. Having seen these bird easily shred 2x4 chunks of wood, I know that 1lb body has more fight in it than any dog I've met (And I've been attacked by dogs twice in my life).

Look down at that cat or dog or rat you call a pet, and think what would happen if they died in your arms in less than 20 minutes. Now think about having them talk to you while they die. Multiply that by 9. Factor in that these birds came to the rescue because of abuse, neglect and other physical problems that the previous owners didn't want to deal with. Open your heart to give them the best they deserve and then watch it get taken away in less than 20 minutes.

We didn't get home last night until after 1 am, and I hardly slept. I'm at work now and can barely keep it together. Add this on top of I'm now on 10 hours sleep since Tuesday morning, and I've logged 50+ hours in the office, with a full Saturday here as well. So I'm a basket case now.

Sunday I was planning on working, but now it looks like I'm driving to the Cape for a funeral service for 9 very dear parrots.

Since All Cape Parrot Rescue is a Non-profit Organization funded by donations, we're paying for the testing and Necropsies out of our pocket. If anyone would like to help with the cost they can click the link in my signature and then the Donate button.

Over the weekend, I'll be putting together a Memorial Page on the ACPR website (In addition to being the director of buildings, I'm also the web designer, marketing guru, volunteer and strong back to carry stuff). You'll be able to see the birds that passed away and what your donations go to.

Thanks all for listening, it's helped me to type this all up, and get some of the emotions out.

AO
 
I'm sorry to hear what happened DA. I've got two budgies which are dear to me. They are both completely different to each other. One of them bit me so hard it made me bleed and it didn't help that he was on my hand at the time and I couldn't get him off! The other one makes so much noise I can't hear myself think!

Again I'm sorry for what happened. Shows that you shouldn't trust forigen food.
 
:indiff: That is beyond sad, Der Alta. Eight birds in 20 minutes from grapes? On the plus side, there will be other birds. They can't replace the ones that are gone, but they will help to fill the void.
 
Sorry to hear that, Der Alta.

Hope everything is OK with the daughter of the Director.

Hang in there. 👍
 
Wow, whatever it was that killed them is some of the fastest acting stuff I've ever heard of. They all died within 30 minutes of eating a handful of these grapes? I'm totally stunned.

Perhaps not the worst day of my life, but one rather horrible day in the history of LoudMusic I was returning a friend home after a day of play when his dog ran out of the house into the road and I could not stop nor swerve. Not a pleasent experience.

I feel bad for your loss. I hope some knowledge comes from the Necropsies.
 
Alex,
I don't know what to say.
I hope that all goes well in the coming days.
 
theGTfreak
Shows that you shouldn't trust forigen food.
What an idiotic remark....

I'm terribly sorry to hear about your loss AO... And imagining a beloved pets dying in 20 minutes.. I don't even have the guts to try...

Sorry man - It's all I can say....
 
Talk about hearbreaking! :( Those poor birds...I had one budgie die a few years ago, and it was terrible. All of her old favorite toys, her favorite perch, everything reminded you of her - including that tiny little scar on my nose! It's similar in many ways to losing a good friend. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose so many at once. I'm very sorry, Alex.

You know, I'd say your local television stations and newspapers would be very interested in the story. If so, there could be a large outpouring of support for All Cape. You never know, if even one new bird is admitted to All Cape because of this, it may prove that every cloud has a silver lining.
 
Thanks guys, it's been a rough day. Been having trouble concentrating all day.

As some of you have noted, there will be other birds. In fact, there are always other birds. There are 9 empty cages in the cockatoo room now. In two weeks, we'll have enough calls from people getting rid of their birds, to fill them all back up. That's why we have a rescue, and why we're planning on building many large ones. There is an unfortunate need for Rescues.

One thing that made me lose it last night and end up sitting on the floor in tears, was as I checked the rest of the Cockatoos, I bumped a cage door that was open. My first reaction was to close the door so Sunny didn't get out. My brain kicked in and said I'll no longer have to close that cage door. Took me a long time to get up off the floor.

As soon as we find out what the results are of the test on the grapes, we're making phone calls to newspapers and news stations. The results of the Necropsy today showed the bird was in excellent health. Brain Tissue was fine, Skin was fine, muscles were fine, lungs and crop were fine. Which means it was a Neurotoxin. The Vet called and talked with a few doctors he knew and the results at the end of the day, was that the doctors were scared. The neurotoxin was a naturally grown in the grape due to a combination of, apparently, the pesticides and a mold that grew in the meat of the grape.

LM, the birds had a 1/2 grape each, and it killed them within 20 minutes. Ashley (daughter or the Director) had 3 and they made her violently ill. 15 minutes after eating it, she was throwing up in the bathroom.

The grapes were locally purchased from a Stop and Shop. The Health Department confirmed the results from the necropsy, and then walked into the store and said, "either pull all these grapes, or we shut you down now."

We're all doing better and recovering, but it's been a tough night.

Thanks again everyone.

AO
 
The Board of Health has told us to expect it in about 2 weeks. At that point, the lawyers get involved and go nuts.

I'm sure that when the news breaks, other people that bought, ate and got sick from the grapes will notice.

AO
 
That's terrible, I'm sorry for the loss and I hope Ashley gets better soon. Good luck with everything 👍

Blake
 
Wow, really sorry to hear that. :( (Almost had me in tears – Knowing the hardship of losing four rats over the years, I can't imagine losing eight in a few minutes.) Can't really say anything other than that's such a terrible incident.
 
Just when you think things aren't going well in you own life, you hear about stuff like this and it brings you right back down to earth.

I can't imagine what this sort of loss could do to a person. Best wishes to you Der Alta, I hope you can come to terms with your loss soon, and move on from this.
 
That's truly sad to hear, especially when foul play could be suspected too. I can't imagine the kind of agony they went through, so I won't remind you any more. I know how valuable a bird can be, and how life-like they are...all I can do is give you my condolonces and wish luck with your efforts.
 
Very sorry to hear that DA, hope you recover soon. Id hate to have that happen to me, i have a cat that I love dearly, i cant imagine losing her :(.

Keep us updated on the grapes, and the memory of 8 birds will live on at GTP.
 
Flerbizky
What an idiotic remark....
I didn't mean it in a horrible way. It's just horrible to know forigne food is contaminated like that. I meant that I dont trust them.
 
theGTfreak
I didn't mean it in a horrible way. It's just horrible to know forigne food is contaminated like that. I meant that I dont trust them.

If you don't trust foreign food, you might as well starve, pal. Where do you think 90% of your food comes from? Good ol' England? I can tell you one thing, cocoa beans are sure rare over there in Europe.
 
TB
On the plus side, there will be other birds. They can't replace the ones that are gone, but they will help to fill the void.

Until they eat deadly grapes as well?

No, seriously, that is really sad - 8 birds in 20 mins is not very nice...
 
Crikey DA, thats miserable. The worst part is the helplessness at not knowing what the cause was (i.e fungus on grape?). Its bad enough when one losses one pet, but losing 9 at once. Thats just mortifying.

:chinup:
 
Sorry to hear about the loss, Der Alta. I sure hope we hear what happens to the grapes in the news. I bet a lot of people are getting sick.

Here, in the LA area, most people wont touch fruit from Chile. There have been several deadly outbreaks of posinous fruit coming from Chile in the past 10 years, so SoCalers wont touch the stuff. It's gotten so bad that it has to be advertised on TV and radio. But we wont buy produce grown in Chile and Mexico. Both countries have had horrible records of bad produce here in SoCal.
 
Hey Alex,

I hate to bring this up once again, but I'm curious to find out exactly how this all turned out?
 
Actually, I shoudl apologize for not coming back to this. There was considerably more that happened after this.

The short story is that we finally found the cause and we can't do anything about it. During the winter, a large percentage of the fresh food in the US is shipped in from other nations. The grapes in particular were from Chile. It's been long known that questionable pesticides are often used to keep the bugs off the food and keep it as fresh as possible when shipped. The pesticide used was a fairly toxic pesticide, but acceptable by human standards. The FDA tested the grapes and they didn't set any alarms off when coming into the country. Hence, safe for Human consumption.

This is why we couldn't find out what the toxic was. Nobody was testing for it, because the FDA had already tested it for it. They had approved it for human consumption, but the levels were so high it was deadly within 30 minutes of the burds eating it.

This is also why we're can't do anything about it. The FDA had approved it and it was under acceptable guidelines.

Now, more of the back story. On another website, a member questioned what happened. Then a day later outright accused the director of poisoning the birds to generate donations. We then posted a scan of the necropsy and the Veterinarians report. The toxicology report was still pending. The Parrot was in perfect health and there was no reason found for the death. The member then began cross posting on many different parrot forums that Sterling (the director) had killed the birds for attention.

The toxicology report came back as negative. Nothing found, because they were testing at a human consumption level. The member then began mounting other people and asking the Sterling return any donations.

At that point after a short posting war as we tried to explain what happend and being subsequently strung up for it, we both ceased posting on the site in particular. The owner of that site knows Sterling and called him up. They talked on the phone and the site owner then called the Vet and the lab to independently verify the results.

The problematic member then accused the site owner of colluding with Sterling and being part of the conspiracy to gain attention.

While all this was going on, the Vet had been talking with other doctors about this (gotta love the fear of bio terrorism) and they hit upon the idea of retesting the grapes for any level of pesticide. Voila! the toxin showed up.

The truth was posted and Sterling was vindicated. The problematic member accused Everyone of plotting against her and covering up the truth. Sterling and I politely instructed her how to procreate (in not so nice words) and were both banned. There still rages a flame war and discussion about it, as some people feed the grapes and don't have a problem, others have had their bird get sick but not die.

After all this, 2 months later, the cages are full again from people dropping of birds. Sterling and his wife have moved their bedroom into the basement, and changed their master bedroom over to a large free flying small bird room.

:(

AO
 
I think that probnlem member need phyciatric help.
The problematic member accused Everyone of plotting against her and covering up the truth.
Does she see space ships and has she been abducted recentley?

Well it sucks that nothing can be done about it but what are the alternates now in terms of feeding? I understand that they can be fed other things but are you going to have to start checking all winter foods for toxins?
 
ExigeExcel
I think that probnlem member need phyciatric help.

Does she see space ships and has she been abducted recentley?
I was thinking a little more down to earth. Like her head between my foot and the earth.
Well it sucks that nothing can be done about it but what are the alternates now in terms of feeding? I understand that they can be fed other things but are you going to have to start checking all winter foods for toxins?
Basically, we don't feed fresh food during the winter. In the works though, is a greenhouse and growing our own fruits and Veggies. If we grow it ourselves, we know it's fresh and toxin free.

AO
 
Basically, we don't feed fresh food during the winter. In the works though, is a greenhouse and growing our own fruits and Veggies. If we grow it ourselves, we know it's fresh and toxin free.
Hope you have you have plenty of vitamin supplies though. Good idea 👍
 
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