thank-you for the infor. sorry it took so long for me to get back on but i ended up in the doctors office. That was fun, but anyway i got this worked out and ended up setting up my own room. I call it girl's nite out, funny thing all boys came in but it is so nice to be able to kick them out for the way they talk and treat me! I ask them not to hit on me and to be nice. some said ooh the pussy is going to cry; no i am not going to dry but you may that you are out of here. he kept sends me message on PS3 with a lot of crap in them. Finally he ask for me to set him as a friend but I wasn't sure that was a good idea. he needs "Scotty" to beam him up and my name is not Scotty! thank you for your help!