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Ok. Here's a story.


There is this girl I know who is innocent as anything. She's the kindest, most beautiful, sweetest girl ever. Not a bad bone in her and she's just the perfect person. Someone everyone wants to be friends with. She starts going out with this guy and after 9 months of dating, he convinces her to do something heavily sexual. She doesn't want to and he is begging her to let him do something to her. She thinks she loves him and and just wants to make him happy. The guy just wants some. She doesn't know that though. So, heavily reluctant, she lets him do what he's been wanting to do. Afterward, he leaves. As soon as he's out the door, she starts crying. A day or two later, he dumps her.

What should everyone that knows this guy do? What should his best friend do? What do you think about it?

Keep in mind that this is the sweetest girl. Innocent. Straight A student. Christian. Not a bad bone in her, a truly wonderful person. Now, more than ever, she's very sensitive. She cries even thinking about it.

I just need some help or advice, or just your words on the whole thing.
 
well, unfortunately I am going to be the dic here and say, that is life my friend, get use to many disappointments. . .

but she is your friend so the best you can do is comfort her and let her know there are good people and bad people in life. . .
 
you or somebody needs to let this guy know that hes a real bastard.....oh yeah and comfort the girl too
 
Originally posted by Concept
Not a bad bone in her.
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Except the one, obviously...

The guy's a dick. Let him know that.
 
Well.. I might say that.. Just be there for the girl? Help her through.. lend a shoulder to cry on if you need to...

To the guy.. He's just an ass.. People like that shouldn't even live.. If you love someone not for them but their body or whatever.. it's not right.

If I were you.. and you were the guy's best friend... Good luck.. All I can say is.. try to convince the guy that he's hurt the girl's feelings alot. If he tries to do it again, I'd suggest you stop him.
 
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But IM Blind!

Ok, fisrt off, whoever this is, you should go kick him in the nuts and say " Ha Try Usin Those again, Punk!", then tell this girl what he really wanted to do,and that she shouldnt be with someonne like that.

( and if you didnt like this one bit, i Dont Care)
 
Originally posted by halfracedrift
Well.. I might say that.. Just be there for the girl? Help her through.. lend a shoulder to cry on if you need to...

To the guy.. He's just an ass.. People like that shouldn't even live.. If you love someone not for them but their body or whatever.. it's not right.

If I were you.. and you were the guy's best friend... Good luck.. All I can say is.. try to convince the guy that he's hurt the girl's feelings alot. If he tries to do it again, I'd suggest you stop him.
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again? stop his ass right now because thats wrong
 
Not from experience but some guys are just plain bastards...that's life. I would never do anything I didn't want to do.
 
Something about that story stinks to high heaven..... More later... Perhaps...
 
Tell him that he is an asshole. Is the person you or your brother? And tell the girl to only do what she wants.

Famine stole my joke. Oh well, I'll just go drive my Aston Martin Vanquish. Bye.
 
Originally posted by Concept
Ok. Here's a story.


There is this girl I know who is innocent as anything. She's the kindest, most beautiful, sweetest girl ever. Not a bad bone in her and she's just the perfect person. Someone everyone wants to be friends with. She starts going out with this guy and after 9 months of dating, he convinces her to do something heavily sexual. She doesn't want to and he is begging her to let him do something to her. She thinks she loves him and and just wants to make him happy. The guy just wants some. She doesn't know that though. So, heavily reluctant, she lets him do what he's been wanting to do. Afterward, he leaves. As soon as he's out the door, she starts crying. A day or two later, he dumps her.

What should everyone that knows this guy do? What should his best friend do? What do you think about it?

Keep in mind that this is the sweetest girl. Innocent. Straight A student. Christian. Not a bad bone in her, a truly wonderful person. Now, more than ever, she's very sensitive. She cries even thinking about it.

I just need some help or advice, or just your words on the whole thing.
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I would kick the living **** out of that ****er for doing that enough said. But try to make it look like something he did to himself if and when you do it.
 
Well now, Concept...

I'd just say to comfort her. Supprot her in everyway you can. To the fullest.

And also, if you want to, make sure everyone knows he's the biggest a**hole.
 
i.. would kill him......

things similar to that has happend to many of my friends. them being with assholes that pretends to really like them, but only want them for sex. it happends everywhere. and i dont understand what makes a guy do such things.

talk to him about it
 
HOLY CRAP!!! She made him wait 9 months! I'm surprised that guy waited that long. I'd have been gone long before that. This kid is a frickin saint for holding out that long.

And what the hell does "heavily sexual" mean anyway? I can't even begin to imagine what that means to a high school kid.

You seem to tell only the side of the story, that's the side you want us to hear. Do you know the reason this guy broke up with her? Did he tell you personally? If he did, please tell us then.

Maybe this chic freaked out on him and he left her because of it. Who the hell knows cus you sure didn't tell us his side of the story.
Sounds like you just want us all here to bad mouth this guy and tell you to go kick his ass. Well tell ya what, this kind of stuff happens all the time so you, that guy and that girl, better chalk this one up to 'experiendce', because this isn't the last time you will ever encounter this scenario.

Like miata13b said, "that is life my friend, get use to many disappointments. . ."
 
Originally posted by boombexus
And what the hell does "heavily sexual" mean anyway? I can't even begin to imagine what that means to a high school kid.
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I don't know, but I doubt it has anything to do with saran wrap and feces.

Nine months is a long time. I don't think I could date someone that long period. I've had an off and on relationship with my hand for about 4 years. Nothing too serious, though.
 
1) "What should everyone that knows this guy do?"

Tell him to sod off.

2) "What should his best friend do?"

Same answer as the first question.

3) "What do you think about it?"

I think the guy sounds like a real ass, though a persistent one if he truly waited 9 months.
The girl will need some time alone for a while then probably won't approach relationships the way she did at first. She could use a true friend I guess.
 
Originally posted by boombexus
And what the hell does "heavily sexual" mean anyway? I can't even begin to imagine what that means to a high school kid.
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best question so far:tup:

Originally posted by Klostrophobic
I've had an off and on relationship with my hand for about 4 years.
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havent we all?:lol:
 
Is there anyway you could release some info. on his whereabouts? If he's anywhere near Des Moines, IA, I'd love to meet him. :trouble: :mad:

Yeah, life will treat you badly, but that's just crap. I'd like to take a chunk out of him with a bat. That kind of crap shouldn't happen.
 
Boom's right, we can't fairly judge this on your testimony. Whenever the right time is it should be understood than people naturally want a greater intimacy (or just sex) with their partner. He may be a bastard, but 9 months is a failry long time, and if he's not happy, she can't expect him to change for the sake of her dignity, as important as that is.

Assuming your story is accurate, I'd threaten to ruin his life until he tries to atone and she accepts it.
 
Originally posted by boombexus
HOLY CRAP!!! She made him wait 9 months! I'm surprised that guy waited that long. I'd have been gone long before that. This kid is a frickin saint for holding out that long.

And what the hell does "heavily sexual" mean anyway? I can't even begin to imagine what that means to a high school kid.

You seem to tell only the side of the story, that's the side you want us to hear. Do you know the reason this guy broke up with her? Did he tell you personally? If he did, please tell us then.

Maybe this chic freaked out on him and he left her because of it. Who the hell knows cus you sure didn't tell us his side of the story.
Sounds like you just want us all here to bad mouth this guy and tell you to go kick his ass. Well tell ya what, this kind of stuff happens all the time so you, that guy and that girl, better chalk this one up to 'experiendce', because this isn't the last time you will ever encounter this scenario.

Like miata13b said, "that is life my friend, get use to many disappointments. . ."
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you... just.. pissed.. me .. off.....

if you think a relationship is just for sex, you have seriously misunderstood a couple of things... this girl is christian. her beliefs says that she shall not have sex before marrige. and the guy makes her have sex with him. it dont matter what kind of sex it was, only the fact that he made her do something she didnt want, is enough. so, maybe it happends to lots of girls. but that dont make it any better. since you are a guy, you have no idea how it feels to be treated that way. in many ways, its the same as being raped. and do you really think the guy broke up for other reasons? how naive can a person be? if he loved her, he wouldnt broke up with her right after they had sex. because he knew that to ask her to have sex with him was a lot to ask from her. and if he were a "nice guy" he wouldnt do it, if he knew that he was gonna break up with her later.

i have a lot more to say, but i dont have time to say it now..
 
Originally posted by Belethdolien
this girl is christian. her beliefs says that she shall not have sex before marrige.
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Well, that all went flying out the window when she bumped uglies with the "bad guy" in question.

Originally posted by Belethdolien
and the guy makes her have sex with him. it dont matter what kind of sex it was, only the fact that he made her do something she didnt want, is enough.
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Typical feminazi ****.:rolleyes: He didn't make her do anything. He supposedly begged her to have sex, and she agreed to it and let him. If begging chicks to give it up equals rape then millions of chicks are getting raped everynight.👍

Originally posted by Belethdolien
and do you really think the guy broke up for other reasons?
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I'm going to have to go with a huge YES. If he just wanted some, he would've given up, and left her, waaay before 9 months had passed. If a guy just wants some ass he's not going to stick around for more than a few weeks. And god dayumn, if he has to wait 9 months for it he sure as **** isn't going to leave after only hitting it once.

Originally posted by Belethdolien
if he loved her, he wouldnt broke up with her right after they had sex.
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It wasn't right after they had sex. It was 2-3 days afterwards. God only knows what could have gone on in those days. She could have gone psycho on him. She could have cried like a little ***** to him non-stop for those days. She could've found out she was pregnant.:eek:
 
I'm thinking it was a bet. Why else would an asshole date a straight A pupil that does nothing wrong? And then to wait 9 months for sex just to dump her after.
 
Why would you call him an asshole? You only know one side of the story - not a very clear one at that. You have no idea why he broke up with her.
 

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