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The guy is an asshole. He spends his days now smoking weed and hot railing ice. He's a nobody.

Whenever the guy did this to her, he came to my house and was bummed. He knew what he did was wrong. He straight up just told me, "I ****ed up." I asked about what happened and he told me. Pretty much he begged and pleaded to let him eat her out. She reluctantly let him and after he had done this, he left. Over the next two days, she was really upset. She was hurt that he would actually persist on asking after she had already said no. She didn't go all crazy on him she was just really hurt. He just decided to break up with her.

I'm sorry, but that was jerk ass move on his part. You just don't date a girl for nine months and love her, do something, then call it off two days later because she's upset with you.

I'm not making this thread so you guys can badmouth the guy. No way. I mean, it wasn't all his fault. She did let him and that's that. I just see it as the guy pretty much tricked her into it. This dude isn't to great of a guy anyway. Now, he doesn't feel badly about it at all. I've asked him.

I'm a guy and I feel horribly for the girl. What he did was wrong, totally. He should of at least stuck with her through what she was going through and he should have made things better.
 
Perhaps you should tell him to talk to her.

High school kids shouldn't be dating anyway. They have wreckless control of their own emotions - no telling what they're going to do with someone else's. And besides, after high school people change a lot. It's called 'growing up'. Then, if you so choose college, you'll change again when you enter the work force.

You young guys should do yourselves a favor. Don't get serious with anyone until you're both old enough to know better. Then it's honest and if anyone gets hurt it's their own fault.
 
Why is the sweetest, most beautiful, Christian, straight A, innocent blah blah blah girl going out with a pot smoking meth user(or whatever the **** "ice" is nowadays)?

I can't believe all he did, though, was a lil' Colonel Angus(cunnilingus, I love SNL), and she's acting all hurt.:rolleyes: It's not like he stuck it in teh pooper.:lol:

In a month she'll be over it - he'll have brought out her inner ho, and she'll be bangin' 'em left and right.


High School drama.:rolleyes: I'm glad I don't encounter that crap anymore.
 
They are not together anymore. They split this past March. He wasn't a pot smoking druggie back then. He's gotten into it since.

I would say though, maybe he did bring out a part in her that she didn't have before. She knows now that she enjoys sexual stuff. She's not a whore by any means, but she is in a relationship now and the guy is great, and cares for her deeply, and she's the same. They have done sexual things but not to the extent of what she's previously done.
 
I'm glad I was smart enough to avoid it.

Well that's my excuse anyway. Other people would say I was just too much of a dork to date in high school. That was just my cover, see. I was intentionally avoiding girls ... yeah ...
 
Originally posted by Concept
They are not together anymore. They split this past March. He wasn't a pot smoking druggie back then. He's gotten into it since.

I would say though, maybe he did bring out a part in her that she didn't have before. She knows now that she enjoys sexual stuff. She's not a whore by any means, but she is in a relationship now and the guy is great, and cares for her deeply, and she's the same. They have done sexual things but not to the extent of what she's previously done.
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LAST MARCH!?! Dude, time to move on. I was thinking this happened over Christmas or something. Don't say anything to anyone about this ever again. It's her business, she should deal with it. If she asked you for support or opinions or advice, just tell her everything is ok and that she needs to enjoy the new boyfriend.
 
Originally posted by LoudMusic
Perhaps you should tell him to talk to her.

High school kids shouldn't be dating anyway. They have wreckless control of their own emotions - no telling what they're going to do with someone else's. And besides, after high school people change a lot. It's called 'growing up'. Then, if you so choose college, you'll change again when you enter the work force.

You young guys should do yourselves a favor. Don't get serious with anyone until you're both old enough to know better. Then it's honest and if anyone gets hurt it's their own fault.
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eh ?? I know you are a respected member of gtp Loud Music so I'll tread carefully !!

What age should kids (people) start "dating"
 
Well, it's more than just age. I don't like to put defined regulations based on age alone. I think it's stupid that drivers licenses are 16, tobacco is 18 (?) and alcohol is 21. There should be some way of proving your mature enough. I have friends that have been drinking responsibly since they were 14. I also have friends who are completely irrisponsible at 35.

But certain things do happen at certain times. It's not exactly related to age, but events that happen at certain ages. Like leaving high school and entering the real world. You see a whole new place with a LOT more going on. It will change you. It's changed nearly everyone I've met.

And I'm not saying 'don't date!', I'm just saying don't let it become a serious relationship. Just have fun and know that the person is going to change. It could be better or it could be worse.
 
My last post is a bit short - :scared:

what I meant was that kids are always going to date and mess around etc at school - I dunno how to write what I mean but ...
When I was at shcool my experiences with girls wre good and bad - stuff happens and you've got to deal with it.

I'm struggling to write down what I mean but given it my best shot !!!
 
Originally posted by LoudMusic
Well, it's more than just age. I don't like to put defined regulations based on age alone. I think it's stupid that drivers licenses are 16, tobacco is 18 (?) and alcohol is 21. There should be some way of proving your mature enough. I have friends that have been drinking responsibly since they were 14. I also have friends who are completely irrisponsible at 35.

But certain things do happen at certain times. It's not exactly related to age, but events that happen at certain ages. Like leaving high school and entering the real world. You see a whole new place with a LOT more going on. It will change you. It's changed nearly everyone I've met.

And I'm not saying 'don't date!', I'm just saying don't let it become a serious relationship. Just have fun and know that the person is going to change. It could be better or it could be worse.
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I know what you mean - its like if you met sum1 and you knew exactly what they were going to be like after school etc and grown up then it'd be OK but its just not knowing.

But sometimes I suppse you cant help it getting serious at a young age.
 
Its always going to happen though, with most people. I had quite a serious relationship in my school life but fizzled out and I cant remember why now. That was 7 (nearly 8) years ago and it still affects me a tiny bit when I think of it but you've just to accept that stuff doesnt go how you always want it to all the time !!!
 
Originally posted by Belethdolien
you... just.. pissed.. me .. off.....
this girl is christian. her beliefs says that she shall not have sex before marrige. and the guy makes her have sex with him. it dont matter what kind of sex it was, only the fact that he made her do something she didnt want, is enough.
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I hate to burst your bubble, but unless she's willing to press rape charges, he didn't make her have sex.

From the half we've heard, the guy is a jerk. But there are a few things I question: if the guy was always planning to dump her as soon as he got her pants off, there's no way he would have waited that long for it.

And it still doesn't excuse her error of judgement.
 
Originally posted by Famine
Except the one, obviously...

The guy's a dick. Let him know that.
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I was waiting for that, damn i wanted thr pleasure of saying it, Im surprised the guy bothered goin out with her for 9 mnths without getting board, unless of cause they'd done "stuff" but not gone the whole way. IMO theres 2 kinds of girls the ones who's friend you are and the ones you get with, these 2 groups should never cross unless you were getting with them and became friends, in which case you can get all cliched and whatever. With any luck this wont happen until im 30. or more...
 
Originally posted by Belethdolien
you... just.. pissed.. me .. off.....

if you think a relationship is just for sex, you have seriously misunderstood a couple of things... this girl is christian. her beliefs says that she shall not have sex before marrige. and the guy makes her have sex with him. it dont matter what kind of sex it was, only the fact that he made her do something she didnt want, is enough. so, maybe it happends to lots of girls. but that dont make it any better. since you are a guy, you have no idea how it feels to be treated that way. in many ways, its the same as being raped. and do you really think the guy broke up for other reasons? how naive can a person be? if he loved her, he wouldnt broke up with her right after they had sex. because he knew that to ask her to have sex with him was a lot to ask from her. and if he were a "nice guy" he wouldnt do it, if he knew that he was gonna break up with her later.

i have a lot more to say, but i dont have time to say it now..
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1) he never said it was just for sex.
2) The girl could have saids no, the fact he pressured her doesnt matter
3) He waited 9 months Im sure it wasnt just for sex, possibly a bet but I really cant see why he'd wait that long if he just wanted to get some.
4) Its nothing like being raped, she was blinded by her love for him, so she said yes, if she said no it would have been rape.
5) Is it really so bad that she got used? FFS get over it, she has to learn from her mistakes and Im sure shell never fall victim to a similar guy again.
6) I got used and it was fun.
 
Originally posted by Josh
It's not like he stuck it in teh pooper.:lol:
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:lol: I don't know why, but this was hilarious as hell. It's like 3 am and it made be bust up laughing.

Jeeze, Josh. You're one funny bastard.
 

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