Originally posted by milefile
But when she smiles does that mean she is happy or does she think I am a joke?
Does it matter? If she's hanging out with you, that's half the battle... you'll look better than the rest of your geeky friends who don't have girls hanging out with them.
Look, guys, believe it or not, girls are in the same boat. They're even almost as uptight about it as you are. So just relax and try a few things, and see what happens. The point is if you're relaxed, it will help her be relaxed, and that's a good thing. Can I sit down and explain to you how to do a frontside overcrook? Nope. You gotta try it and see what happens, then try again.
Trust me on this. I was fat, middle class, wore glasses, played Dungeons & Dragons, and lived miles from anybody else in my school. Nonetheless, I managed to have a girlfriend or two, get a little kissing in, and lose my virginty well before I could legally drink.
It will happen to you, too. So quit worrying about it and let nature take its course.
Just relax and observe. Then put those observations to good use.