So, tell me one thing. It is about having a girlfriend.

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You can flame me all you want, but up to this point in my life, I have never had a girlfriend. The reason? I think it is all because I have never really tried to get one. All the pretty girls I have seen were just mere pretty girls. Or maybe there were not enough reasons for me to go and ask her.

Yep, its true. I also have never asked a girl to be my girlfriend. Why? I dont know. But there have been periods in my life which I have asked myself "Will it really happen"

So, am just asking you guys, how does it feel to have a pretty girl, the one you like (or love) being close to you, sharing everything you do. Like for example; videogaming with your girlfriend (if she is the kind that likes videogames). Wouldnt it feel great?

I think having a girlfriend, is not just having a girl close to your side. In fact, I am trying to avoid that. The material kind of girl, the one that you are , just because she is the prettiest one. I would actually want to have a relationship. Something to share, to have fun.

So what do you think. How does it feel to have a girlfriend.

And no, I am not begging to have one. I just took a minute in my life and began to think about it.
 
for me, doesn't matter how pretty she is...if there is no personality, what's the point? rite now, i don't have a gf...i'd like to go out with some1, but school is also important.
 
Tercel, your 21 right? You know, I did not fall in love with a women until I turned 19. She was the greatest, everything that she did for me. That was 5 years ago, actually to be exact we met on 9/11/98. Should have been a notion of what was going to occur huh?. Now to let you into the situation I was the same way. I never let a women penetrate my outer shell. It was not that I didn't want someone close to me, or a solid realationship with another person. It was more because I did not want hassle in my life. I did not want dependency. Boy was I wrong. The relationship had nothing to do with that. In turn I ended up giving it my all and everything to her I could. She received and returned all of that to me. At this point it sounds like this was a perfect relationship, but let me tell you, it was a rollercoaster ride and a half. When it ended, I was happy about it. I still love her today and will also wake up when I am 50 and married every once in a while having a dream about her.
Having a girlfriend brings more then just having someone by your side, or to have fun with. You will have a lot more responsibility with a girl. Remember good always comes with bad. A few buddies I hang with we have this notion. If it wears a skirt or has tires, you can't afford it. Just a little joke, but sometimes it is so true.
I wish you good luck in searching for a girlfriend, but remember it does not happen over-night all the time. You will however have one of those love at first sight once in your life, but don't rely on it. To get into a commitment (yes you heard me Commitment) it takes a lot of effort on both parts. Not everyone is willing to jump into a relationship.
The last thing, Take time to smell the roses in your life. Meaning, don't run around talking to every women you see Bsings with them. Look around you see what you got. What you want is probably right in front of you and you don't even realize it.
 
Originally posted by miata13B
Tercel, your 21 right? You know, I did not fall in love with a women until I turned 19. She was the greatest, everything that she did for me. That was 5 years ago, actually to be exact we met on 9/11/98. Should have been a notion of what was going to occur huh?. Now to let you into the situation I was the same way. I never let a women penetrate my outer shell. It was not that I didn't want someone close to me, or a solid realationship with another person. It was more because I did not want hassle in my life. I did not want dependency. Boy was I wrong. The relationship had nothing to do with that. In turn I ended up giving it my all and everything to her I could. She received and returned all of that to me. At this point it sounds like this was a perfect relationship, but let me tell you, it was a rollercoaster ride and a half. When it ended, I was happy about it. I still love her today and will also wake up when I am 50 and married every once in a while having a dream about her.
Having a girlfriend brings more then just having someone by your side, or to have fun with. You will have a lot more responsibility with a girl. Remember good always comes with bad. A few buddies I hang with we have this notion. If it wears a skirt or has tires, you can't afford it. Just a little joke, but sometimes it is so true.
I wish you good luck in searching for a girlfriend, but remember it does not happen over-night all the time. You will however have one of those love at first sight once in your life, but don't rely on it. To get into a commitment (yes you heard me Commitment) it takes a lot of effort on both parts. Not everyone is willing to jump into a relationship.
The last thing, Take time to smell the roses in your life. Meaning, don't run around talking to every women you see Bsings with them. Look around you see what you got. What you want is probably right in front of you and you don't even realize it.
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True. I also felt that hazzle need. Having another responsability. To take care of her. Well, not take care, but listen to her, make her feel important. Pay attention to her.

First sight love. I dont think I have had one of those. It really pisses me off though, seeing pretty girls passing right by my side.
 
It's good,... and bad. But more good than bad :lol:

There are days that I wonder why the hell I would get hitched up for life with the same woman,... then I look at the always magically diminishing pile of laundry and remember why :D :lol:
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver

First sight love. I dont think I have had one of those. It really pisses me off though, seeing pretty girls passing right by my side.
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Those are not the ones you want dude. I use to spend a ton of time in the bar after that love. Actually 2 years of drinking myself to death. I just sat there and watched women and men socialize. It is amazing some of the things you see. Since then I have sobered up pretty well. I was never a "alcoholic" but I saw tendencies of me becoming one. I have carved it down to twice a week now. The one you want is not going to be in a bar first hand. It would be nice to have that bumping heads in the Grocery store, dropping a few items, hitting heads again, laughing and then the eye stare, but that is also ideal. I can't tell you how you are going to meet her, but you can't actively search for her because she won't show up then.
 
Originally posted by Red Eye Racer
Actually, I'm in charge of the finances,.. so, when the wallet is depleated,.. it's my own fault ;)
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D'oh. Now for the unnecessary picture of an evil bunny
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My girlfriend is the greatest living organism Earth has yet to house. Ask Jesus, he'll agree. She likes videogames and computers just as much as I do, and I'll say it is absolutely great to just chill and have fun with her. Being romantic is just as cool, actually. When you find the right one, you want to take care of her and make her feel important - all that stuff. She was a good friend of mine for a couple years before we started dating. I think that's the best way to start. I'm 16, and this is the best one I've ever had.

And for all that euphoria, there's only one problem:
Originally posted by miata13B
the diminshing pile of money in the wallet
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i think its great having a gf. im like u, i didnt have a gf till the one im with now. shes like my best friend. i can talk to her about anything and she wont laugh at me or something like my other friends. and i know shes really the only one i can trust and count on. plus its nice to know that theres actually someone that loves you. not someone that says they do just to take advantage of you. but thats if u get the right gf. it could be good waiting then again it couldnt. if u wait and u get the right one u dont have to go through all the pain of rejection and break ups. but if u do then u dont actually know what it is to be in a relationship. but its not that hard. i think its best to wait till u think u have the right one. but either way is good.
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver
Like for example; videogaming with your girlfriend (if she is the kind that likes videogames). Wouldnt it feel great?
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Oh man, only if that were true. All of the girls in my town do not play video games at all, and if they do, they play something along the lines of tetris.
 
I just turned 25 and have had my first and only girlfriend for about four months. There's no need to rush into things, in my opinion. In highschool most of the girls seemed like nitwits. They were a bunch of dingbat girls that had no real life concerns and very little personality. Sure I thought they were hot, but that didn't mean I wanted anything more than day dreams to do with them.

My lady is my best friend. We share a lot of interests and care very much about eachother. I've known her for about a year and a half and we spent lots of time together one on one before she and I even seriously thought about a greater relationship. Of course, she had to break up with her boyfriend first ... (:

I say, find a girl that'll play GT3 with you, cares about cars, and you can just sit around and make fun of eachother before you think about getting serious with anyone. The friendship comes first. If you don't have that then you're just faking at love.
 
Originally posted by Acidman
Oh man, only if that were true. All of the girls in my town do not play video games at all, and if they do, they play something along the lines of tetris.
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Dude, you're missing out. Most of the girls I know love to play video games. They're not necassarily good, nor to they play the games that the guys play, but at least they're accepting of the games we play because they play games too.
 
heh, laugh at me to, i have never had one eather. ALL the girls i know are eather a. toooooo shallow or b. are already going out with someone
 
I think having a girlfriend is great. But I don't think it's good having a girlfriend that switches through boys quickly. I recently have been noticing feelings for a girl. One of my friends told her and she said

Ohh, that ugly short kid?
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Yet I'm tall as the others. :p It can be heartbreaking.
 
Originally posted by spock
heh, laugh at me to, i have never had one eather. ALL the girls i know are eather a. toooooo shallow or b. are already going out with someone
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To quote my friend and I from years ago ...

"Why are all the good girls taken?" -- "Because they're the good girls ..."
 
Originally posted by LoudMusic
To quote my friend and I from years ago ...

"Why are all the good girls taken?" -- "Because they're the good girls ..."
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In my school all the good girls are taken for about a week or more. Then there single again.
 
Originally posted by LoudMusic
Dude, you're missing out. Most of the girls I know love to play video games. They're not necassarily good, nor to they play the games that the guys play, but at least they're accepting of the games we play because they play games too.
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Yeah, but i live in a small town (about 1700 people) so there isn't really much to "pick" from, so hopefully when i move away to university hopefully i can find someone who enjoys what i enjoy.
 
Originally posted by Acidman
Yeah, but i live in a small town (about 1700 people) so there isn't really much to "pick" from, so hopefully when i move away to university hopefully i can find someone who enjoys what i enjoy.
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1700? I live in a area full of people. Hot Chicks too/
 
Originally posted by Sony
1700? I live in a area full of people. Hot Chicks too/
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Yeah, when i move away to university i'll problably be attending the U of S in Saskatoon, which is most likely the 1st or 2nd biggest city in saskatchewan.
 
I have a girlfriend.

Rumoredly.

It's just like not having a girlfriend since she lives in New York.

We see each other on weekends, it's why I'm not on very much on weekends.

She left today for New York. That makes me a sad panda. But I'm going out there Thursday night to see her.

That'll be nice.

New York's fun.

Yep.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
I have a girlfriend.

Rumoredly.

It's just like not having a girlfriend since she lives in New York.

We see each other on weekends, it's why I'm not on very much on weekends.

She left today for New York. That makes me a sad panda. But I'm going out there Thursday night to see her.

That'll be nice.

New York's fun.

Yep.
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That's gotta be tough.
 
Originally posted by Sony
I think having a girlfriend is great. But I don't think it's good having a girlfriend that switches through boys quickly. I recently have been noticing feelings for a girl. One of my friends told her and she said

Yet I'm tall as the others. :p It can be heartbreaking.
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Ouch. That definately gotta suck. Well, the worse are "I dont want to give you any hope" and the dreaded;

"Let's be friends"

or

You remind me of my brother.
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver
Ouch. That definately gotta suck. Well, the worse are "I dont want to give you any hope" and the dreaded;

"Let's be friends"

or

You remind me of my brother.
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I also got a NO.

I finally after about 2 weeks got the courage to ask, and Bang! Bang! Like a gunshot, she said no. I had actually fallen in love with her for a year and a half. She dated several guys in that time period.

But I'm over her. 👍 Thank God!

NOTE: This is a story about my first ever love, It's different than the girl I have feelings for at the moment.
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver
Ouch. That definately gotta suck. Well, the worse are "I dont want to give you any hope" and the dreaded;

"Let's be friends"

or

You remind me of my brother.
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Why not just strike first with that. You should be able to tell when a girl likes you or not. Strike them first with, you remind me or your sister, or let's be bed buddies or whatever :lol:

Why do women get to make the all important decision whether or not the two of whomever date?
 
Tercel_driver,

The absolute last thing you wanna do is think for too long of a time. By the time you have the courage, shes going to be taken or have feelings for someone else.

I have experience. You learn from your mistakes, but it's best of you know.
 
God only knows what do we want to do with ourselves when we get a "no".

All I want would be to dissapear off the earth.

But, seriously, worse than a no, is not asking. At least you got your answer.
 

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