So, tell me one thing. It is about having a girlfriend.

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Originally posted by Acidman
Ugh, I've heard that too many times it's not even funny.
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ya. i know that one. i asked this one girl out. i didnt know she had a bf, even though we were pretty good friends. she always gave me all kinds of hints. so i figured i'd go for it. i asked her out and her response was

"well i have a bf and we're pretty serious. but ill be your best friend"

havent really talked to her since. her and her bf have gotten engaged. then broke up. then got together. then broke up for good. i dont know what i saw in her. she was such a whore she didnt know which way was loose. the girl im with now is definately better.
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver


But, seriously, worse than a no, is not asking. At least you got your answer.
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Well, I cried for about a day, Couldn't sleep. That's about it.


Sometimes, it isn't. You always have a feeling in your mind that you have a chance.

But when you get a No, it hurts. It hurts alot.
 
Originally posted by Acidman
Oh man, only if that were true. All of the girls in my town do not play video games at all, and if they do, they play something along the lines of tetris.
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I know a girl whose favorite game is Vice City. She's awesome.
 
Originally posted by Sony
Well, I cried for about a day, Couldn't sleep. That's about it.


Sometimes, it isn't. You always have a feeling in your mind that you have a chance.

But when you get a No, it hurts. It hurts alot.
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Then comes the bastard emotions again, go out and screw as many girls you can in a short period of time. Wait a bit and try again at a relationship.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
I have a girlfriend.

Rumoredly.

It's just like not having a girlfriend since she lives in New York.

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That's perfect!

The only thing that would make a girl even better is if they left after you had sex with them. As a matter of fact, Friday night. Yep.
 
Originally posted by Sony
Well, I cried for about a day, Couldn't sleep. That's about it.


Sometimes, it isn't. You always have a feeling in your mind that you have a chance.

But when you get a No, it hurts. It hurts alot.
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I havent cried for a girl, yet , but when I left my country, and realized that I was gonna lose this girl, the day I arrived here, I felt so depressed, I was in bed all the day. Didnt get out of it but for eating. Then that was it. I have slept like 5 times in that day. Waking up from dreams to see my damn truth.
 
Originally posted by Timmotheus
I know a girl whose favorite game is Vice City. She's awesome.
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I really hope you aren't kidding.
 
You know acidman,

Remember you said you were so jealous of my girl? In that PM?

Anyway my girl dont like video games.

She just likes cuddling with me.:D
 
Originally posted by LoudMusic
Dude, you're missing out. Most of the girls I know love to play video games. They're not necassarily good, nor to they play the games that the guys play, but at least they're accepting of the games we play because they play games too.
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And my wife's better at Vice City than I am. Except for the driving part. She winced at the sight of the Terminal Speed race, let alone the V.C. Enduro. That said, she has no patience for GT, but understands the time required for a good 15-lap race, with setup and qualifying. She thinks I'm goofing off with that save-reload thing, though!

You know, part of a healthy relationship is that you share interests. Now, there's few of my own interests that she doens't care for, like playing GT3 and surfing the net...but others like drawing and webdesign and watching racing on TV that we share. I play with our dogs; 7 years ago I wouldn't have allowed such an animal in my house. I go to a horse ranch and clean and ride horses with her once a month. We go to museums, beaches, drive to the middle of nowhere for a kick.

Compromise...that's the answer to any type of relationship. It's tough to do so when you're young, because you're still ego-driven until you've matured. You also aren't as sure of your interests, you think you have impress others, fit in, et cetera. Once you grow up and out of the world you reject, you're ready for compromise. Want something? Work for it. Need something? Suffer for it. Want something for nothing? Be nice about it.

Pick a life partner who's strong where you're weak. And vice-versa.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
I have a girlfriend.

Rumoredly.

It's just like not having a girlfriend since she lives in New York.

We see each other on weekends, it's why I'm not on very much on weekends.

She left today for New York. That makes me a sad panda. But I'm going out there Thursday night to see her.

That'll be nice.

New York's fun.

Yep.
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Anna Del Amico lives in Boston! :confused:
 
Originally posted by sn00pie
Anna Del Amico lives in Boston! :confused:
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He said she lives in New York!

Donkey.

Anyway, back to topic:

It's better to be happy in yourself than to crave happiness from others. As a well-known Rabbi said "If you can't love yourself, nobody else will love you."

It's best just to be relaxed around girls, rather than charging around like a horny dog.
 
To me, Tercel, it sounds like you have the right attitude. So often people are in a relationship because they are too scared to be by themselves. I am probably like you. I refuse to go out with a girl, just to say "i have a gf". I am happy with my company, and when that right person comes along, it will feel right and happen naturally (altho my post the other day showed what happens when someone does get the pulse racing)

I agree with what was said on page 1 by someone (:O ) You cant force these things. Is sorta like having quicksilver in your hand. The tighter you grab, the more goes thru the fingers. Trying to hard = asking any piece of tail out = back to the "i have a gf for the sake of it" story.

Listen to me :lol: was this the same guy of last friday? :lol:
 
Originally posted by M5Power
I'm not dating, nor will I ever date, Anna Del Amico. You are a Donkey. Donkey.
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Whoa there, buddy! Don't take your sexual Anna Del Amico frustration out on me!
 
Been with Aura is the greatest thing that has happened to me. I met her over the internet (on a really weird story) and we ended up loving each other to death. we have been tgether for two and a half years and its a life left for the two of us. You really dont stop learning from your girl, and of your girl, about her and about you. like someone said, if you reallly love your girl, youll always want her to be well and happy. and you'll do everything to do so. attention to her is VERY important, because in that way you can make her feel good, feel happy. the other part is just being iwith her, always, never leave her, never. be there for her, always. also, commitment is a big part of it all. but first you need to be sure that the girl is the person with wich you want to share your life. for us, it has been like that since the begining, it was like magic. the most difficult part of it all was there from the begining, so it has been heaven for us two to be together. we have the very same interests, and she beats me in GT3.
You will know when you have found the right person. you will feel it, trust me. there wont be nothing you wont do for her, but she will have the same attitude about you. its all reciproque. its a two piece thing, and you will know when its right because the same attitude and the same caring and the same love will show up in both of you. if that is the case, all those things wont do nothing but grow, and all that will become a fantastic relationship.

Cano
 
I'm a sophomore in high school, and have been single my whole life. I have about 12 girls that I am good friends with, but have only gone to one movie, and it wasn't really a date. I've been trying to get close to one of them, but it is a gradual process. I love being with Kalie because we can play videogames, football, baseball, everything together. The only problem is that because we are such good friends she doesn't want to push it farther and possibly screw it up.
 
Originally posted by Tercel_driver
You can flame me all you want, but up to this point in my life, I have never had a girlfriend. The reason? I think it is all because I have never really tried to get one. All the pretty girls I have seen were just mere pretty girls. Or maybe there were not enough reasons for me to go and ask her.

Yep, its true. I also have never asked a girl to be my girlfriend. Why? I dont know. But there have been periods in my life which I have asked myself "Will it really happen"

So what do you think. How does it feel to have a girlfriend.
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I'm 20 and in the exact same situation as you. In fact if i made a topic about it, like you have here, then i would have typed just about the same words you have. :eek:
 

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