Some Stuff I want To Say.

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Are you kidding?
I just feel like I need to get some stuff off my chest, and I'm going to speak straight from the heart. I feel like I need to say this and release it.

For the past 5 years I have been inseperable from my best friend, Jessie B. (Below, centre, before the prom)


In August she moved down to Northhampton to live with her mum (her parents split up and she's been living with her dad) and her nieces and aunties.
She's now at a College down there, and she's staying there for good now.

I haven't seen her in over a month. I tried so hard to pretend I don't, but God I miss her so much!
I hope you can relate, readers. It's the feeling of wanting someone/something so bad it makes you feel sick to dwell on it for too long.

Unfortunately, there's no easy way for us to meet up, and since I don't know her new address and I've lost her number (dead phone).

Jess was the best mate you could ask for. She was smart, polite, really funny and she always had a dirty joke to make you laugh. She was also always there for me.

Jessie, if for some reason you ever read this, baby I miss you so much.

Thankyou for your time, GTPlanet.
 
I understand how you feel, man. I haven't seen the girl I liked in 6 years since moving to Canada. But things happen for a reason, and for me, it was time to move on. Maybe you'll run into her one day unexpectedly 💡
 
You know ultrabeat, things like this happen in life A LOT, and everytime it happens, you don't realize that it happened for a reason...the only thing you do is to desperately find a solution...and that won't help.

You will be fine, and like GT4_rule says, you have to move on and despite it may look like I don't know how you feel, I truly do.

A similar thing happened to me, my friend kept calling me for a while but our relationship faded away as time went by; and I started to realize that maybe she had a better life now, maybe she didn't feel so alone like she did at the beggining, and I started to feel better, because I wanted her to be happy and that's more than enough for me.

It's hard. Specially when you can't find anybodyelse like her. But the only thing you can do is, try a little bit more, if you can't contact her, then just stop for a second and think about how she feels right now; maybe she misses you too, maybe she doesn't misses you as you do. And maybe, she has decided to accept the fact that it's gonna be hard to keep in touch with you and maybe it's better to move on. Maybe, it will help her not talking to you...because the more you talk to eachother and laugh and stuff, the more you'll miss eachother, and she might want to avoid that.

Trust me...these kind of experiences are the ones that make you stronger, you understand the setbacks of life a bit more, and you also build character.
You'll be fine and she so she will.

Go out, spend more time with your other friends, make THEM think you are a great friend to have. And even if you just don't find the type of friend you're looking for...just be yourself and people will love you because of that, maybe you'll find a friend like her..u never know buddy.

Try to focus on other things. It may sound silly, but remember that we're still here. And eventhough we can't see eachother, we're here to support you man. 👍





Ciao!
 
Is that the Jess that I've been talking to on MSN for the last year or so for no apparent reason?

I've had a similair thing happen this year. My best mate and next door neighbour, who I've known since I was 3, was given a scholarship to Clifton College, Bristol. He's back every few weekends but he spends half that time goin to see family. Plus, I miss havin a mate I can just drop in on without feeling like I'm invading.

I just have to remember that over the next 5 years especially I'm going to be making and losing alot of friends.
 
Damn, I lost a friend permanently in June and I've known him since I was 5, and I'm 14. He went back to Israel.

I know what you feel, its really sad and sometimes you get your eyes in tears. Try to travel there as its probably your best bet.
 
Surely you know some of her other friends that might have her number or email or something, right? You must know a relative or something.

I once met a girl in Florida that I liked. She was from Texas and it was over 5 years ago. She and another girl I met in Daytona 5 years ago, Ashley from Chicago, are two of very few girls I've ever really been eager to see again. I'll never see them again, but 5 years later I still don't quite know that. I'd bet she has a MySpace though.
Since I met Ashley--whom I still think of on a pathetically daily basis--I've never really come across any other girls that I have any desire for. Seriously, I'd rather have some rims for my car, and I don't know why. I guess I'm not your average 18 year old guy. When I find something I really like I don't change easily, and I'll always be that way. I found a new routine since I met those girls, and I can't see myself having any close female friends in ther near future. I just have no interest. Maybe my brain decided it disliked leaving a girl so much that it just turned off the girl-digging section?
 
It was a year yesterday that I lost two close girlfriends in a car accident. It can be rough buddy.

Is there any way you can get into contact with either of her parents and let them know you'd like to keep in contact with their daughter? They'd probably think it was real cool of you to go out of your way like that.
 
Man that sucks, I know how you feel, happened to me a couple years ago. You do move on, but if you want to try to find this girl, then I wish you the very best of luck. Could her dad help in any way? An email address? Perhaps even a college email? I can point some friends of mine to this thread, and see if they know anything, but I can't promise anything obviously.

Godd luck mate, and kudos for putting this in public, more balls than I got, I must say.
 
Well, it's really up to her, assuming that she has your number, address, and/or knows your friends.

I hope she gets in touch with you soon, Danny. :)
 
I feel your pain man.

Leaving for college cost me the relationship I was in. Haven't found a girl yet and it's been a year.... damn engineering school! haha
 
If you can, find the resolve to ask her dad what her new address is. I'd hate to see a friendship disappear becasue she's waiting for you to call and you can't. So see if you can track her down via other means. Good luck!
 
Thanks for all the kind words guys.
I have contacted Jessie! She was on MSN tonight.

She gave me her new contact details and we chatted for aaages!
She's doing great so I'm pleased.
I'm just so relieved!
 
Now take her to dinner and rent a hotel room.
 
Omnis
Now take her to dinner and rent a hotel room.
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lol i found the hotel room thing funny. But on a more serious note, yea i had one of those. I chose my high school cuz a girl i was "close":) with said she was going there. I passed the test and went there and she didnt and now im stcuk here.:indiff: But on the bright side i met alot of new girls and its better than ever. So dont fret:sly:
 
Ozzy.
You know ultrabeat, things like this happen in life A LOT
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Very true, I can't count the number of people that have come into my life and left, be it as good friends or as more than that. You just don't always have the means to keep in touch.
 
Theres a hotel in Withington that's only £12 a night. As you can imagine it's really really classy.
 
ExigeExcel
Real classy, when was the last time you had a girlfriend? :p
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Come on Exige, have a little "humour" as you Britons say. At least he specified hotel, instead of motel.


Whooooaaaa, beaten to it. See how us Americans think?:lol:
 
keef
Come on Exige, have a little "humour" as you Britons say. At least he specified hotel, instead of motel.


Whooooaaaa, beaten to it. See how us Americans think?:lol:
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Us Americans think good. :dopey:
 

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