Okay, let's dumb this down for you.
First of all, forget the ****ing transformers. I don't even know why you've brought them up. To be honest I assumed you didn't know what the **** you were talking about (I still question it), and I figured you just meant a simple set of coils (which is really what a transformer is, just a differing amounts of wires in the coils, depending on whether it's a step-up or step-down transformer).
Take a look at my lovely little illustration. You see how the motor looks? The coils are held within a housing. Make a mark on the housing. Make another on the rotor. Every time the mark on the rotor passes the mark on the housing the motor itself has made a revolution. The total number of revolutions in a minute will give you revolutions per minute.
Okay?