The aftermath is included. We all remember our first time (except those who haven't had one yet). His future will be tainted by knowing that his first time was with a woman who technically raped him. Every future girlfriend will ask "So how many woman have you slept with" (they all do it) and, even if he doesn't recount the story out loud, it'll be there in his head.
We can all have "bad" sexual experiences, but we could do without remembering that we were raped.
Agreed.
According to dictionary.com:
Rape:
To force (another person) to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse; commit rape on.
I don't see how does this qualify as a rape.
So far I think we all agree that what she did was wrong. A teacher should never sleep with his/her students. (this is a
"very toroughly applied" rule in university and colleges by adults, though...) She exposed the teenager to adultery, in a very bad way. (We never, ever let them see such things in movies and sitcoms, or let them see real life occurences of this... ok, perhaps you mean in an explicite way? Both may have the same results IMO, and at that age, the boy's education and background will influence their reaction after being exposed to that.) Also they did this in presence of his friend, and that's obviously not an picture you want to have with your teenager in... and, as I said, worst of all, they didn't wore any protection while doing it. So yes, that's a pretty dumb thing for her to do, and I'd be pretty pissed about this girl if I was the father.
Concerning the aftermath, if I was in his shoes, I wouldn't feel like I've been "raped". But my memories of the event would have been tainted by the fact that for something I accepted and enjoyed, or would have been doing anyway with a girl of my age, a women lost her job, her marriage, (to this point I agree it's deserved), then she was ashamed in the media nationwide (and worldwide) before being put behind bars. And, thanks to clever use of the media, anyone on the internet have access to the whole story in all of its detail. My name is not displayed in there, but everyone who knows me, family, friends, classmates knows every single detail out of it where, how and when. How cool is that, uh?
I guess the goal would be reached; I wouldn't want to have sex for a long time, and you're right that my sexual life would be tainted by these memories for a while.
But if I felt used, forced, abused against my will or misled into something I'd never would have done, I'd feel more justified in going through all this, in front of the court and the public, to prevent a sexual predator to strike again. But not for that, as wrong as it may have been.
And, on a sidenote, for those who say that wouldn't be a discussion about this if the teenager was a girl, well... how many times have you heard a boy say that he accepted to do it because of pressure from his girlfriend, even if he didn't feel he was ready? Now how many times have you heard the opposite?
geez... the way your talkin reminds me of that movie KIDS. I had to see it for school why I have no freakin clue.
