Danoff
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The lady won't drive a stick, and it's one of the things I definitely want this time around. The DSG in the GTI is sweet, but kinda boring. I take the dog about half the time, the other days I usually get to redline once or twice, and there's an autocross once a month, so something sporty is still "needed". Otherwise I'd just get a base fit or fiesta or something.
So basically you're getting a hatckback stick instead of an automatic S2000. I would definitely take the S2000 and drive the forester when the dog is coming along. But I recognize that that's purely personal preference.
I think you have an over constrained problem. You want something with a hatch that outperforms a GTI, and probably stays under a reasonable budget. The best I can offer is along the lines of an E46 330Ti or S4 Avant. Maybe a quattro A3. The WRX isn't a terrible option.
What I would do in your situation (assuming a stick was an absolute requirement) is get a used honda civic AND an S2000. That way you can switch between the forester and the S2000 and your wife can switch between the forrester and the civic. That solves the problem without compromise on anything but price.