Ask a girl...

[Belethdolien]

I have noticed that almost everyone on this site is boys.. And i have also noticed that many of they boys got questions about girls. So now, because of plain boredomness, i decided to make an "ask a girl" thread. Simply bacause i have 16 years of experience with being a girl. So go ahead and ask! But have in mind that i will not answer all kind of questions..

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
But have in mind that i will not answer all kind of questions..

well, there goes my question

 

[Belethdolien]

and what was your question?

 

[the_cobbinator]

I need advice on a Christams present. Just something that would make her smile.

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by the_cobbinator
I need advice on a Christams present. Just something that would make her smile.

How long have you known her? and are you married? dating? long-term? living together? you need to elaborate a little.

 

[Bahbo]

The first time some of the geeks here will talk to a girl without having to give their credit card number.

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Bahbo
The first time some of the geeks here will talk to a girl without having to give their credit card number.

No offense, but what point are you trying to get across and why such a worthless post? it really has nothing to do with the topic except the fact that you feel we are all geeks here that will piss in our pants before we could talk to a girl. If you don't have anything significant to add, keep it to yourself Chaach.

 

[Belethdolien]

the cobbinator, what miata said... its not easy to come up with christmas presents if i dont know her age, and your relationship to her..

 

[Concept]

Does it feel like you're wetting the bed when you have your period?

 

[Jugend]

Why do girls focus more on personal relationships whereas boys hang out in bigger groups and seldom talks about feelings? (at least in the teens?)

 

[Giancarlo]

Haha. This is actually kind of brilliant. We look like a bunch of clods, but still kind of brilliant.

 

[Belethdolien]

concept: no, not really.....

gtjugend: i dont know really.. its just the way we are. we have to talk about our feelings and such.

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
concept: no, not really.....

Well then what does it feel like? Why the hell can't I have a period!?

 

[Jugend]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
gtjugend: i dont know really.. its just the way we are. we have to talk about our feelings and such.

Dammit I thought you had the answer.

 

[Jpec07]

You see, most of the time advice isn't necessary, if you sit down and think. With cobb's gift dilemma, think about times when you were with here and she smiled; what was it that made her smile? That should help you alot...

@ Concept, you seriously need to get a life...
@ GTJ, the reason we guys tend not to think about feelings as much is the fact of hormones; we have alot more testosterone in us, which makes us attracted to girls because they look good (based on what we see), whereas girls don't have this (to the same degree) and so are free to focus their thoughts onto higher levels of thinking; meaning involving the feelings and thoughts, attempts to understand the human Psyche, etc.

 

[Belethdolien]

concept, belive me, you dont want to. and why you cant have one.. well, of naturall reasons you cant...

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by the_cobbinator
I need advice on a Christams present. Just something that would make her smile.

Well, since there is no response, This is how I would put it after my experiences with the opposite sex.

If she is a friend, get her something that is thought . . . look around her room see what she is interested in and don't go overboard at all.

If she is a short-time girlfriend (less then a year) . . . Also depending on the situation and how things are looking. . . Don't go over-board at all. You are still in the getting to know each other phase. Get her something that will remnd her of you, but something that she would not expect. Remember a surprise is a surprise. Also watch the expenses, you don't know if your marrying the lady

Over a one year commitment - Now you should know her decently. You'll never truly know her until you can put on her shoes in the morning and that will never happen until we can somehow we can switch bodies. . . Time for a special occasion gift of the sorts. You should also know at this point if you are going to continue or leave. This is a transistion phase of the relationship to tell the truth. important If this is your first love then don't go overboard because odds are you are not going to marry the lady and then deal with repercussions of the relationship 2 fold the time you were together, trust me here. She would also at this point be dropping you obvisous hints about what she wants, but us guys never get hints, we need it in writing. Listen to her a little more closely and you should have the perfect idea

Serious Commitment - practically married or engaged. . . Jewelery all the way. Put down that credit card at the car shop and lay off buying that 454 engine or turbo system for you car for another day. It is all about her at this point. You should now at this stage be able to pick out what she likes and dislikes and have a good taste of presents that she likes. If not, your doomed, run away

Hope this helped you dude

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
concept, belive me, you dont want to. and why you cant have one.. well, of naturall reasons you cant...

Well, does it hurt putting a tampon inside of you? If you're a virgin and all and you haven't already...yeah.

 

[Jpec07]

Originally posted by Concept
Well, does it hurt putting a tampon inside of you? If you're a virgin and all and you haven't already...yeah.

What don't you do all day that gives you time to think about that stuff? Seriously, try to get a life, as I feel this to be borderline behavior (not that I could do much about it, but still...)

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Concept
Does it feel like you're wetting the bed when you have your period?

Dude, you had to ask the one question about the reproductive cycle truly did not want to know. . .

Originally posted by GTJugend
Why do girls focus more on personal relationships whereas boys hang out in bigger groups and seldom talks about feelings? (at least in the teens?)

Teens are in a transition stage of life where you start to expore boundaries. You get your first car so you start driving everywhere. You are not old enough yet to hit thebar or club scene the way it should, but you do hang out with friends. Women are quite bitter with each other at the stage (generalization in that comment). Women are actually doing the right thing at this age by focusing on themselves and the all wonder self-discovery. Us guys just really would do anything to get off at this point. . . and laid for that fact. If you truly break it down. . . Any guy who thinks back to their teens is probably going to say, a. If I knew what I know now it would have all been different. b. why did I waste my time with bs. c. It was great hanging with the group and not having to get attached to anything.

As for the feelings aspect it is a sign of self pride. As the male species, we must be dominant. . . Feelings in general are a sign of weakness, or at least the standard says that. You are too into Labels of everything at this stage and you truly don't know "what" is going on. Best advice I can give at my age is taste every flavor of ice cream out there. Especially when your young and can do so

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Jpec07
What don't you do all day that gives you time to think about that stuff? Seriously, try to get a life, as I feel this to be borderline behavior (not that I could do much about it, but still...)

Nah he is just curious, maybe Concept truly should have been born a lady instead of a ma... er. . . Concept what are you???


Just playing Concept btw

 

[911_Carrera]

Can we change the title of the thread to "Ask miata13B"?

 

[Jpec07]

Originally posted by miata13B
Nah he is just curious, maybe Concept truly should have been born a lady instead of a ma... er. . . Concept what are you???


Just playing Concept btw

My one thing that I will never understand about girls is how when you tell something to one of them all of the sudden they all know it...

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by 911_Carrera
Can we change the title of the thread to "Ask miata13B"?

just remember one's point of view is anothers lack of perception

 

[Belethdolien]

concept. the first times it hurts yes...... and im a virgin yes... or atleast halfways..

(im doing homework right now, thats why im so slow in answering.. )

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Jpec07
What don't you do all day that gives you time to think about that stuff? Seriously, try to get a life, as I feel this to be borderline behavior (not that I could do much about it, but still...)

Jpec07, you're ****ing stupid. I hope you fall over and die. You're so stupid. That's all I can say. I'd defend myself and say that I have a life and that I work and all that stuff but I don't think it's worth it. You're just stupid. So very very stupid. I pity you.

Don't worry about reporting this post to the moderators, I already have.

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Jpec07


My one thing that I will never understand about girls is how when you tell something to one of them all of the sudden they all know it...

The bathroom my friend, the secret lays in the bathroom

 

[Jpec07]

Originally posted by miata13B
The bathroom my friend, the secret lays in the bathroom

Saywha?

 

[miata13B]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
cxonceft. the first times it hurts yes...... and im a virgin yes... or atleast halfways..

Define halfway, because last time I checked you either are a virgin or not. Oral doesn't not count. Penatration is the defining point of losing virginity.

Originally posted by Concept
Jpec07, you're ****ing stupid. I hope you fall over and die. You're so stupid. That's all I can say. I'd defend myself and say that I have a life and that I work and all that stuff but I don't think it's worth it. You're just stupid. So very very stupid. I pity you.

Ever see Anger Management, that sounds like "I Feel Pretty" if you say that to the same beat

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
concept. the first times it hurts yes...... and im a virgin yes... or atleast halfways..

Dude, you rule Belethdolien. Thanks for answering my questions. I'm sure I'll have more later. I didn't need to know that last part though. Ah.

Ooh. One more question for right now. When a girl starts growing breasts, does it hurt?