Big Papa Rumple

Yes I am replying to a whole bunch of posts all in a row, and if you don't like it then don't read this thread. People were kind enough to take time to write me, and I will write them back.
Der Alta
I'd like to add in that I've watched my little brother go through a similar situation. He was 15 when he had to tell our parents that his girlfriend was pregnant. It was the hardest thing I saw my family go through.

He had to do it again when he was 17. Same girl. he was 17 when he got married. Now, 12+ years later, they're still married. It's not easy, but they live for each other and the two boys.

What I can tell you from this, is that you've got a lot of hard work ahead of you. An amazing amount. From knowing you on this site, and reading some of the things you've gone through, I can see theres a desire to give everything you have to you kid.

Andrew, you've stepped up to a big plate. There are plenty of us here that would listen via PM, post or other. Don't hesitate to ask if you feel the need.

Good luck,

AO
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These kinda stories make me very hopefull for a happy and fulfilling future. I can only pray that me and my girl are together 10+ years in the future. I'm willing to do whatever it takes for it to happen, ... even if she is not.

Even if I didn't want to step up to the plate I still would. It takes two to tango and to knock a girl up and then split is just the lowest of lows. I'm a man and I will act like one. I'm a firm believer in the "You make your bed you sleep in it" way of life.
 
All I can say is Damn. There are no words of wisdom I can give you. All I can say to you is Good luck and treat 'em right. You've had a hard time. A lot harder than I've ever seen. We've all had the urges to just give up. I have. It's good to see that you are well invincible. I hope you don't try it again though.

Good to see you back man 👍
 
First off, glad to see you're relatively alright. I am, as always, late to every thread, so everything I want to tell you has already been said...

Still, I can't believe how mentally strong you and your girlfriend are. My hat's off to both of you.
 
PunkRock
First off, glad to see you're relatively alright. I am, as always, late to every thread, so everything I want to tell you has already been said...
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Better late then never though... unless you're going to a gangbang. :scared:

Still, I can't believe how mentally strong you and your girlfriend are. My hat's off to both of you.
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Mentally strong, or mentally retarded? Probably a little bit of column A, probably a little bit of column B eh? :D

Nah, she is a great girl who has had her share of problems the same way I have, or anyone else for that matter.

Thanks for the words you Quebec bastige. 👍 :D
 
You should just blame Canada for all of your problems. That's what I would do if I lived in Canada. You do live in Canada, right?

If I can give a word of advice: don't name your child something stupid like Slipknot, Rumple Jr., or Demonspawn. Other than that, "I hope you choke and die."

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Wow man, that must have been a real emotional rollercoaster. I hope everything works out for you, congrats:tup:

P.S. I hope the baby will stop you from trying to end your life again, it's a real waste if you did -- but I understand what made you do it. Anyway good luck with the rest of your life.
 
Yeah sometimes everyone just snaps when something horribly wrong goes wrong to them, you and your gf must've been closer to each other then a pack of cars at Tally. I have never had such an experience. And don't think that way, everyone chokes up a bit and that's how accidents like that happen. I wish ya the best of luck again :)
 
Good to hear you're still alive Rumple !.....

Sounds like you've hopefully found your spot in life ....
 
Andrew, your life is interesting.

I know from all you've written here on gtp that it has not been easy at all. You end up in one disaster after another. And it never seems to end. (does anything end in life except life itself?) And that is the interesting part, put as rollasian, your life is like a movie. Glad to see though that you are evolving rapidly through all events and is able to stay alive. (with the help from angels or pure luck, I have no clue..) I don't know how you see it yourself but to me what you send out have changed much in the past year. You are not the same person that posted here a year ago.

Good luck with the upcoming fatherhood. I think it will change you in positive ways you can never imagine.
 
wow. that is one heck of a story. all I can do with my 15 year old (un)wisdomness is wish the best of luck to both you and your girlfriend and the child to be. 👍 👍

(i can't think of anything else to say.)

💡 Good luck! wait... I already said that...
 
Hey Rumple, good to see you back.

It sounds like you know what you need to do. Now I wish you the best of luck and the strongest of fortitude in the coming times.

I've just become a father myself, and I have to say that it's amazing. My own father was less than great when I was a child (I have a good relationship with him as an adult), and he's been an inspiration to me in a reverse-way. I know that if he wouldn't have done it with me, then it's a good thing to do with Emma.

I don't want to say to you how yo're going to find being a father. But for me it's been a case that doing the best thing for Emma has always seemed to be the right thing. It's always seemed natural that I give up my own time for her.

One thing I will say though is that your girl will need a lot of support. I think you may find strength in having to be strong for others. You've never been (and I mean this in the nicest possible way, of course!!), particularly good at looking after yourself. I have an inkling that you might be good at looking after your girl and your kid.

I add my name to the list of people you can PM should you feel the need.
 
Wow. You're really stepping big right now. That job at the Chrysler factory looks like a good one! Glad to see you're still alive.

My advice: Work your arse off for the next few months or so. You got a long road ahead. Hope you have a healthy baby when the time comes.

-Adam
 
Ouch.

Glad to hear from you. You're a better man than I am, and most of the population of the world. You keep on going through the toughest of times. If your girlfriend does miscarriage again, please don't try anything stupid again (hint: if you've tried at least twice, it doesn't work). You're jobless, car-less and injured, with a family to support, and you still find it in you to keep going. Still, no worries, eh?

You'll always have the GTP community, even if we are all just names on a computer screen.

Good luck, congratulations and good to have you back. Hope it all works out for you, your girlfriend and the baby. We want to hear good news in May about the healthy delivery of mini-Rumple.

All my best.

Nathan
 

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