Thank you all. I feel a bit reckless that yesterday I attended my niece's wedding with about 300 people but for the most part, I was masked except when eating (and for the most part other than ceremonies requiring me to be unmasked) and I feel nervous that I may contract it but at the same time, as I am boosted and any illness will be mild.
The rapid tests are relatively cheap and easy. Maybe two or three days after your exposure you can test to see if you got it.
Consider, for example, my situation. I have a trip coming up with my kids. Currently there is an airborne pandemic that is spreading like crazy in my region, with a new variant that bypasses some of the protection offered by vaccines. I'd like to balance my exposure to the pandemic with the risk that I will be killing my trip plans for my family. Pre-pandemic, I might be able to hop on a plane with a kid that had a fever 2 days ago. But I can't very well hop on a plane with a kid that tested positive for covid 2 days ago can I? I'm in the window where if anyone in my household gets covid, the trip is off. We can isolate like crazy to make sure that doesn't happen, but we're all fully vaccinated (and boosted where available), so perhaps that's more than what is needed.
I agree that it's not a life or death scenario here (specifically for my household, if we spread it, that's different). But I think it's important to continue to remember that the pandemic is very much NOT what we had before, and it can't be fairly analogized to it. Covid remains deadly to certain vulnerable groups, and it remains extremely disruptive to daily life (like school, work, and travel) if you catch it. I'm willing to avoid a few high risk activities if it means that I can keep my travel plans and minimize the spread. But I'm looking to understand what the risks really are so that I can hit that balance right. Hunkering down comes with a big price, catching covid does too.
So the trip happened!
Right in the middle of that huge spike in omicron I flew to Florida with the whole family, stayed at a hotel, did a theme park, got on a cruise, and didn't get omicron (confirmed via test). Cruising during the pandemic was a bit weird. A covid test was required to board (and vaccination), and masks were required indoors except while eating. The ship was only about half full because a fair number of people tested positive in the week leading up to boarding (or literally at the gate and were turned away). But a half full cruise ship is a decent place to be! On this particular boat, the theater shows had every other row blocked off, so my kids could actually see the show for once.
As far as I know, there were no outbreaks on board the ship. I googled the boat upon returning and it looks like there weren't enough cases on board for it to be considered worthy of investigation. Meaning, I think, only a handful of cases could have occurred. I'm not under the illusion that there was no covid on the ship, but whatever there might have been, it didn't manage to spread in that group.
All of it was totally foreign to me at this point. Dining indoors, seeing a movie or a theater performance indoors, being around lots of people, all of it was extremely odd and uncomfortable at first. But having a group that had been prescreened was helpful. It was strange to return to something so... normal... right when things are so abnormal.
I think, at least for me, the trip kicked off the end of the pandemic mindset, at least until something changes. My whole family is vaccinated, and everyone that can be is boosted. I'm totally prepared to get omicron if that's what happens. We're not dropping all safety measures, and we have rapid tests on hand for any symptoms, but I'm not going to extraordinary lengths to shelter at this point - and that feels pretty good. I'm glad we avoided delta and made it to vaccination.