Girl question..

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My advice:

Don't get involved with that kind of relationship. If you really like her, and you think it can last then go ahead. I remember that there was this one girl that I really liked, I asked her out and it was great for about a year. When we broke up, we never talked and we didn't even look at eachother. It was the worst. If you really like her, your taking a big risk in a relationship other than being friends.
 
Become her friend...learn things about her, tell jokes, flirt, then ask her out. Not in the same day, though...

I have a lot of luck with the ladies. Actually, I'm a pimp. :D
 
Mate, she's only nervous because she's into you, so just go for it. Chat with her, just talk about stuff like what happened in the first two periods - you were both there, so you should connect instantly - or maybe a movie that you have both recently seen. That should show her that you are "in the know", and want to become more involved with you.

Should. I'm not making any promises, but that is how the chicks in my town work.
 
Well, i dont have much talk time with her between the teacher getting pissed at us and the 30 steps to the next class... I only caught her after school once... :\
 
I was going to try and get her phone # today so i could call her over the weekend, but like i stated earlier i didnt catch her after school ><...
 
Find one of her friends and get them to give it to her...I used to be nervous around the poeple I liked but now very openminded and dont shutup...
 
Originally posted by Sk8rKiD
Find one of her friends and get them to give it to her...
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That's SUCH a bad idea. Never involve her friends.

Her friends = your enemies.

Never trust her friends, because as soon as things get difficult they will close ranks, and will say anything about you to make her feel better. You cannot give any form of political capital to her friends. They are not to be trusted. If it came to a choice between a pack of lions or a pack of girlfriends, I'd take the pack of lions any day.
 
Originally posted by GilesGuthrie


That's SUCH a bad idea. Never involve her friends.

Her friends = your enemies.

Never trust her friends, because as soon as things get difficult they will close ranks, and will say anything about you to make her feel better. You cannot give any form of political capital to her friends. They are not to be trusted. If it came to a choice between a pack of lions or a pack of girlfriends, I'd take the pack of lions any day.
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So so true!

With the exception of Birds mates who are all very nice people. :)

With affairs of the heart don't trust anyone, listen to advice but when it comes down to it you're on your own.

If you still want advice, i'd consider just being yourself, walk up to her, be honest, tell her you like her but you're nervous as hell and if she can handle the idea you'd like to see if you could become friends maybe hang out together?
 
walk up to her, be honest, tell her you like her
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Dont do that!, at least right now, you barely know her. But if want to, take the risk if you are really sure that she likes you. Too bad you dont see each other from far distances, then I would school you a lil bit about indirects. If she is constantly joking and talking a lot to you, then she doesnt like you. If she talks, but not so much, behaves shy, or smiles when you are talking, then she likes you.
 
Advice from the all-knowing sister of mine:
"Umm, be her friend.. yeh. Umm, heh, don't get too involved yet, and ust be nice to her; flowers are optional..."
(that was a direct quote as she was standing over my shoulder)
 
Originally posted by Jpec07
Umm, be her friend.. yeh.
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Don't ever be friends with a girl you like! If she says you should only be friends, refuse! Otherwise you will end up becoming the poor old chum who'll never be romantic with her.
 
Originally posted by GCstyle


Don't ever be friends with a girl you like! If she says you should only be friends, refuse! Otherwise you will end up becoming the poor old chum who'll never be romantic with her.
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That is true, unless, you are her BEST friend. I met my best friend 20+ years ago. Married her 19 years ago. Yeah, we have problems sometimes. But, we always get it solved.

If you are not her best friend. You will be the unlucky fool that gets to hear about her (s)exploits, guy problems, etc. You will become her walking hanky.
Make your intentions known. If she's girlfriend material, let her know. If you're looking for a friend, let her know.
Women are always looking for communication. You will do well if you "have a little depth", and can say what's on your mind.
Plus with good communication, you can avoid the axe-murderesses, and the nuts.
 
Originally posted by 93SHO
I'm not seeing any relations to al-Qaeda in that.

Unless of course she's an Islamic fundamentalist.
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:lol: Well, I think that she's talking to guys would pretty much rule that out!
 
Originally posted by Gil

That is true, unless, you are her BEST friend. I met my best friend 20+ years ago. Married her 19 years ago. Yeah, we have problems sometimes. But, we always get it solved.

:cheerful: nicely put gil.
Slip is my best friend as well as my partner. I can tell him anything (although he may not want to hear it! lol) Thats how it should be. :cool:
:couple:
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Being friends with a girl you like is no bad thing. You get to know her, and the friendship has a possibility of escalating into something more (it happened to one of my friends).
 
Originally posted by Jpec07
Being friends with a girl you like is no bad thing. You get to know her, and the friendship has a possibility of escalating into something more (it happened to one of my friends).
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I agree. If you're friends first, you'll know her a lot better and maybe you'll see that she's not even someone you'd want to have for a girlfriend. If you guys do get together and things don't work out, there's more of a chance that you can be friends afterwards, assuming you want that and that the breakup was amicable.
 
Well, the cats out of the bag ...

Today in 1st period me and her were talking as we usually do, then from out of the blue she asks me if i want to go to her friends b-day party with her tomorrow after school. Ofcourse, i accepted. In second period, me, her and her friend were all sittin around talking and her friend asked if i liked someone, so i answered back saying yes. When lorena (the girl im after) wasnt looking her friend pointed at her quickly and said "her?", so i nodded. She basically just said cool and nodded and asked how much i liked her, a little or alot. I said alot, since i do. After a few minutes of interrogating me asking what i would do for her and how i would treat her, etc., she asked if she could tell lorena, so i said yes, but not when i was around. I planned to see lorena after school at her locker, but sadly i didnt. So i have a good feeling she knows i like her now and that we might get together if all goes well and she feels the same way i do. So i'll see her tomorrow to see if she talks to me (unless she thinks im a dumbass now for liking her), and see how she feels and hopefull still be able to go with her to her friends b-day party...

Well, im kind of nervous about tomorrow to see what she says, but hopefully its all good.

I'll update you all again tomorrow, hopefully. Ta ta.. :)
 

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