Girl question..

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posted by gt2
Well she probably does want to break up with me.. I thought she was absent today and yesterday since she didnt show up for the 1 class we had in common.. Well her friend talked to her both days saying she was here and everything. So i think shes avoiding me for some reason, and i think that reason is because she wants to break up with me and just doesnt want to tell me.. Her friend also said that lorena said something about me that she didnt think she should tell me because i might get all "weird" on her...

So yeah, i feel like **** right now.
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don't worry that is completly normal,sometimes you win,sometimes you don't.

but if you don't keep trying yo never will get what you want (love or whatever you want)


posted by jpeco7
Don't worry about it man, even if she breaks up with you, you can still be friends. And Bsides, I don't think she is going to break up with you. Talk to her at school, and if she wants to break up, let her. But whatever you do, do not be mad at her; that is not the way to go.
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listen to him,that is the better thing you can do.(imo)
 
Hmm, i dont think saying somethign that meaningful would be wise this early into a relationship..
 
i was thinking the same thing a few seconds ago.

you're right is too early to say that.

btw i delete the post. (ok just edit it)
 
Well, some good news today.. Seems she finally decided to show up for class and everythigns cool.. She was just skipping first period for an extra hour of sleep, lol.. What her friend said just kind of scared me..

But yeah were alright and were thinking about doing something on friday.. Sorry about the confusion. :(
 
Haha, yes.. Im sure she would have thought i was a weirdo or somethign and broke up with me immediately. :thatsodd:
 
No oppology necessary. If you faced the confusion, thta's all you can relay to us. But no matter what, we'll be here for you.
 
Welp. Might as well just lock this thread now...

I got dumped. Thats all.. I feel like **** but oh well.. We're still friends..
 
sorry to hear that dude. don't let it bring you down though, it makes you turn into a homicidal maniac that loses his mind. (it does sometimes)
 
Were still friends, im sure ill have a chance to get back with her..

The last thing i said before i had to go was "If you ever need anything im here." And she smiled and we hugged and went our seperate ways.. Shes just been under alot of stress lately and doesnt want to bring me down i guess... But it still hurts, ya know? :(
 
Dude, be glad you've got the friendship. She could've just said no to the friendship, but this shows that she enjoys being with you. This is a very good thing (I'm an optimist...). You don't have a girl, but you've still got a friend who will be glad to hang out with you and talk to you.
 
Well im sure we will end up getting back together.. I mean after all her friend says that she was happy with me and the only reason she broke up with me is because of her big birthday thing...

Mexicans have a big thing for girls 15 birthdays called a Ceceniera (or something) and its really stressfull because they have to show up they have to do certain things, and they cant do it wrong.. For the last few weeks we havent even been able to go out on a date because of it, and thats what the problem was. I think..

Her friend said today that she never even liked me when we got together.. I believed her, but after the way ive treated her im sure she likes me now, even if she didnt before.

So keep fingers crossed and hope that everything goes well and we can get back together after all this is over..
 
Quinceanera (at least that's what the girl who's turning 15 is called). I learned about it from school. It's like a batmitzvah.
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Well im sure we will end up getting back together.. I mean after all her friend says that she was happy with me and the only reason she broke up with me is because of her big birthday thing...

Mexicans have a big thing for girls 15 birthdays called a Ceceniera (or something) and its really stressfull because they have to show up they have to do certain things, and they cant do it wrong.. For the last few weeks we havent even been able to go out on a date because of it, and thats what the problem was. I think..

Her friend said today that she never even liked me when we got together.. I believed her, but after the way ive treated her im sure she likes me now, even if she didnt before.

So keep fingers crossed and hope that everything goes well and we can get back together after all this is over..
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whatever u gotta tell yourself, i don't wanna be mean or nothing but straight up i think u got played, and i know everyone i here thinks the same, thay just want to be nice

yeah i know a little to honest but i been with girls alot, and why she said yes is b/c girls always say yes, they're too nice to say no unless you're the ugliest thing in the world.
 
Puffy, not to take what you said wrong, but if a girl breaks up with you and they didnt like you in the first place, they would have broken up with you long before 2 weeks went in.. Also, they dont want to be friends and treat you like your still her boyfriend. ;)
 
nah dude it's all about popularity points, if they're *****es when u break up or while ur going out they'll be considered stuck up, same with guys if u r mean to them when u guys break up u'll be considered an asshole by the rest of your high school life, with me it's all bout being cool and having to make it nice for the fans, if i wasn't popular probably the chicks i got with would be nicer but not hotter.

what tha **** am i talking about, my life is over, i might have a kid **** girls, **** parties, **** getting on more girls, **** my dream of traveling, i'm ****ed for life.

don't ever listen to my advice, i'm a ****ing failure, damn dude i hadn't noticed how much i hate myself
 
:lol: Damn guy, calm down. Im sure youre cool.. You just need to learn to lighten up and maybe not go out having sex with random girls :rolleyes:

Best thing i can say, try to find one of the quieter girls, theres alot of those around. Alot of them are miraculously pretty, theyre usually really nice and sweet and will treat you nicely if you treat them nicely. The key to a good relationship is not thinking its just about sex. What you get into a relationship for is for companionship and you know just to be able to spend time with someone other than yourself/friends/family. If your looking for sex, just do what you did.. But be careful and wear a rubber :p

But yeah calm down man. Its all good.
 

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