How do you initiate conversation with women?

[Duke]

Boys, this is key. Eye contact. If a conversation ensues, regardless of what you did to initiate it, above all, maintain the eye contact, and look interested. Be amused by her quips. If she says something startling, be startled. But stay locked into those peepers.

Word up from a playa yo. Ogle her bod all you want from across the room, but once you make contact with her, pretend she's wearing a hockey jersey. If you pass the "Is he looking at my chest" test your stock goes wayyyy up.

 

[kennythebomb]

This is one tip for success, that I am an advocate of.

At the 2007 Detroit Auto Show my friend was intrigued as to why I kept chit-chatting with the lovely women adorning the concepts, you know the female reps/models.

My reasoning is simple. These are beautiful woman I don't have a chance with (they are older, better looking, I won't see them again). The fact that I'll never see them again means that I don't worry if I mess up and say something stupid.

Basically, I just pick a cute girl and start talking with her. I ask her random questions about the car, and then I get a bit more personal, for instance "which car would you drive out of all of these?" "oh so you're a dangerous sporty woman aren't you" or whatever. Just a slight bit of flirting, nothing to earn a slap.

The whole premise behind this is that I am comfortable talking with women who are stunningly gorgeous, so when I meet another woman in a situation much more promising to my chances of success, I'll be well trained in the art of conversation/bull****.

So find a public place where hot women abound, and just talk with them, do your best to keep the conversation going.

Another tip is to ask them about themselves. Most women love talking about themselves and will be bored if you go on and on about how great you are and how much money you earn. This opens the door for a one-liner or a cute joke, once you know something about them.

For instance one time I met a girl at a bible study, and so I asked her what her major is. When she said that she is going to school for (I believe) preoptometry, I got her laughing good when I pretended that she is the lady who takes down your information holding a clipboard before you see the actual optician.

 

[Blake]

At the 2007 Detroit Auto Show my friend was intrigued as to why I kept chit-chatting with the lovely women adorning the concepts, you know the female reps/models.

They would leave but they’re being paid to stand around the cars.

 

[kennythebomb]

They would leave but they’re being paid to stand around the cars.

True, I can't pay them nearly the same.

Word up from a playa yo. Ogle her bod all you want from across the room, but once you make contact with her, pretend she's wearing a hockey jersey. If you pass the "Is he looking at my chest" test your stock goes wayyyy up.

High-sticking is also strictly prohibited....

 

[turboash78]

Personally, I used to start out with a firm, open-handed slap on their rear-ends.

That, or just "Hello, I'm Hugh... Hugh G. Rection. How are you tonight?"

What a great help I am!

 

[Mrs. Famine]

It'd be nice if blokes spoke to me once in a while but as it is, i'm sad and lonely and destined to die alone.

 

[Specialized]

It'd be nice if blokes spoke to me once in a while but as it is, i'm sad and lonely and destined to die alone.

Said in my bestist joey voice - "How you doing?"

In all seriousness though, just go and say hi. Confidence is, according to my ex gf anyway and yes im well aware of the irony, something women like so approaching them to start with is a good thing. Just be yourself and you should be fine. If she got a smile on her face and looking at you not everywhere but at you then your doing the right thing and remember to be a gentleman.

If that fails just drink lots of beer and throw yourself at women (preferably in a non violent way) in a club, odds are that one of them will be equally drunk and you should be in with a chance 👍

Spec....

 

[kennythebomb]

It'd be nice if blokes spoke to me once in a while but as it is, i'm sad and lonely and destined to die alone.

You'll find plenty of blokes on this forum.

 

[Queen Bee]

I'm a Lady, and the way for me is to always keep eye contact, The first place i look is the eyes, to see where they are looking, although if i do catch them looking at me chest etc, then it makes me smile you know lol.

Also yes it's true that if you are surrounded by chicks - not too many though lol, 2/3 is enough - then you leave them and go talk to another girl you notice is looking at you then it makes her think she is speacial, even if she isn't

You'll find plenty of blokes on this forum.

This forum is full of blokes!!

Not that i complain. Haha.

 

[Mrs. Famine]

So, how do I score me someone nice from this forum then

I like it when a guy makes the first move, just being yourself really is the best strategy because it saves embarrassment later if you're discovered to be something you're not. And if someone catches my eye and doesn't seem to be making a move, i'll go and talk to them. I'm not shy!

edited to say
Oh and make sure you talk to her face and NOT her breasts, guys...

 

[Sakiale]

High-sticking is also strictly prohibited....

Aw... I'll never get a girlfriend.

Oh and make sure you talk to her face and NOT her breasts, guys...

At least I'm good at that... when they're wearing a shirt that doesn't expose half of them...

Well you should learn to speak their language... if you catch my drift. Eg, there were these 3 girls from China who talked quietly in Chinese by themselves, completely ignoring me who was right next to them. Well, I didn't want them to reveal anything that they didn't want to... or tbh I did, but resisted the temptation... not that I could hear them whispering anyway. So I told them I speak Chinese. Suddenly, they started talking...

Works for me, usually. Also I show off in front of them... writing rap songs has helped too, but those are just slutty girls who like me cause of the songs. At least their kind of hot...

Or, you know, I just sit next to them and use a combination of any of the good advice in this thread and my first piece of advice. Lucky for me I usually only like Asian girls...

 

[Famine]

So, how do I score me someone nice from this forum then

UKGTP7!

Though you might have to drop the "nice" part. No sense in being choosy...

And don't draw any conclusions from the fact it's mainly single men attending the event. No siree.

 

[Touring Mars]

Oh and make sure you talk to her face and NOT her breasts, guys...

At least I'm good at that... when they're wearing a shirt that doesn't expose half of them...

What, one boob only? I tried that once myself, but I ended up looking like a right tit...

 

[daan]

Well you should learn to speak their language...

So if I'm sitting at a bar and 3 stunning Bulgarian girls come in, do I have to say, "Hold it right there. I'm off to learn Bulgarian. I'll be back shortly, don't go away"?

Though you might have to drop the "nice" part. No sense in being choosy...

Hoi, you speak for yourself....

What, one boob only? I tried that once myself, but I ended up looking like a right tit...

Nice to see you're keeping abreast of things.

 

[Danny]

Just be yourself, readers.

Sum fake-ass playa ain't fly, so don't be up in that girl grill with yo custy ass.

 

[Sakiale]

What, one boob only? I tried that once myself, but I ended up looking like a right tit...

I meant the top half of both... as is so popular in America nowadays...

So if I'm sitting at a bar and 3 stunning Bulgarian girls come in, do I have to say, "Hold it right there. I'm off to learn Bulgarian. I'll be back shortly, don't go away"?

Well, knowing Bulgarian might give them a reason to talk to you. Otherwise, use any other method.

 

[kennythebomb]

So, how do I score me someone nice from this forum then

You're a woman I'm sure you know how to lure geeky men like putting a worm in a river, connected to a giant rod.

Aw... I'll never get a girlfriend.

Or, you know, I just sit next to them and use a combination of any of the good advice in this thread and my first piece of advice. Lucky for me I usually only like Asian girls...

Seeing as how you are only 13, I'm not sure if you understood the pun I made?

Hey man there's nothing wrong with Asian girls... most of the Chinese and especially Japanese ones are absolutely smoking!

 

[Omnis]

most of the Chinese and especially Japanese ones are absolutely smoking!

Was that sarcastic? There are a lot of asians, you know.



No disrespect, but I wouldn't say they're all smokin'.

 

[kennythebomb]

Was that sarcastic? There are a lot of asians, you know.

No disrespect, but I wouldn't say they're all smokin'.

I'm a strong believer in using 'most' which eliminates the absolute option.

I'm a white guy and besides girls of European descent, certain Asian types are the only other types I usually find to be really consistently gorgeous. Outside of being European or Asian a girl is more likely to be hit or miss for me.

 

[Sakiale]

Yes, I understood the pun...

But I mainly only like Asian girls cause I am half Taiwanese and therefore speak Chinese. And yeah, they're hot. Although I'm not of high enough social status to date hot girls. As my friend said once: "Hot catches your attention but cute, quiet ones are the ones you end up crushing on". Although I do seem to be having a little more luck lately...

 

[franz]

I love asian girls too because they are more skinny in general
back to the topic, just pick something around you as the topic when you approaching the girl, try something weird to make yourself an idiot, let the girl laughing at you better than being a sad little loser. Works for me sometimes

However, try to be more agreeable during conversation even you are not particularly agree on what she said. Bad idea but it is a shortcut to relationship

 

[Specialized]

So, how do I score me someone nice from this forum then

Bah your playing hard to get. I pulled out my best "How you doing" and if that doesnt work then nothing will

Spec....

 

[kennythebomb]

Yes, I understood the pun...

But I mainly only like Asian girls cause I am half Taiwanese and therefore speak Chinese. And yeah, they're hot. Although I'm not of high enough social status to date hot girls. As my friend said once: "Hot catches your attention but cute, quiet ones are the ones you end up crushing on". Although I do seem to be having a little more luck lately...

And the hot girls are like my car... lots of miles and lots of owners.

The cute, quiet ones will stay with you and are more willing to put up with your idosyncracies.

 

[Sakiale]

+rep.