Thats 3 different questions there...so 3 answers from me:
1. How do I like my racing? Well I enjoy a wide variety so quite simply if its a motorsport and has an element of interesting competition in it, its all good. I enjoy both contact and reduced-contact motorsports. For the poll, I prefer rubbing. Anything goes is a destruction derby and no contact is normally very dull. Most motorsport governing bodies allow rubbing contacts, even F1.
^Well, with Webber it was less rubbing and more bashing
But yeah, point taken, the ruling in F1 until this year has been a bit random. Fortunately, they've changed the rules and allowed ex-F1 drivers to be stewards, so hopefully we'll have better decisions from now on and quicker too....less political decisions.