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:( see im in love with this gurl right.. but she doesnt seem to know .. all she knoes is that i like her.. but she hugs alot of other guys and it gets e depressed.. and i wanna D8 her but when i wanna talk to her the words get tangled in my mouth anyhelp?:(

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- Cobraking
 
Ok, First thing. You have probably heard it a thousand times.Be yourself.
Remember she is just a person and take her off the pedestal. We all have a tendancy to put them on a pedestal when we first fall in love with them. Try and be relaxed and never never seem desperate.
I always seemed to have really good luck when I didn't care one way or another whether they were interested. I know when I didn't care I was relaxed and was myself.
When you don't care you don't seem desperate and you are more confident.
I know it's easier said than done.
Good luck.
 
well i would recommend just going up to her and telling her face to face, but it sounds like your not to good at that, so i would just say write her an e-mail or a note or something....... cuz no matter how you go about it, i think you should let her know how you feel :D
 
yah, i guess so, but truthfully .. like i just cant say it because i have no guts!!,, lol.. and like sheeeees so hott that when i looks at her im basically speechless.. and when i see her hugging som1 it just hurts.. and i know if i ask her its probably a no.. :(
 
See..That's what I mean. Take her off the pedastal. You are thinking that she is better than you and she isn't. She is just a girl. Don't let yourself see her as someone you can't get.
I'm serious about this. As soon as you see her as unobtainable then she will be.
 
Well, I'd put my advice in here, but DGB454 already has it covered.

The thing to remember is that at 13 or 15 or 17 it may seem like you'll never get a date, but you will. You'll probably be married in 10 years or at least thinking about it. So don't be nervous and tiptoe around the shallow end of the pool - dive on in! You know that sooner or later you're going to get a date so with that off your mind, just be yourself and think this might be the one.

Even if they say no, most girls have the class to be nice about it. And if she isn't nice about it, just thank her for sparing you the agony of an evening putting up with her.

Good luck!
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
Well, I'd put my advice in here, but DGB454 already has it covered.

The thing to remember is that at 13 or 15 or 17 it may seem like you'll never get a date, but you will. You'll probably be married in 10 years or at least thinking about it. So don't be nervous and tiptoe around the shallow end of the pool - dive on in! You know that sooner or later you're going to get a date so with that off your mind, just be yourself and think this might be the one.

Even if they say no, most girls have the class to be nice about it. And if she isn't nice about it, just thank her for sparing you the agony of an evening putting up with her.

Good luck!
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Thanks Neon_Duke that one really helped just like all of them other so should i wait for her and him to break up? or should i just say it now?:confused:

[EDIT] another reason why i didnt wanna acutally ask her out was because if she said no it would break my heart.. and when i found out today about her geting hereslef a new b/f it just hurt me badlyy, and i was getting emoticonal but i got a grip of myself..
 
well, try to be friends with her @ least. when yu look back in the future, yu can say that @ least yu talked to her about stuff :)
 
Were Freinds and stuff.. but i wanna take it too the next level but for now im not gonna think about it she got her bf now.. and ill wait..
 
sorta reminds me of smallville [TV show on WB bout Clark Kent's high school life] "don't wait too long" :)

random fact: kristin kreuk's in it :drool:
 
If it was me I would hold off a bit to see how the relationship goes with her new B/F. When you are young relationships usually are shortlived. Stay around and be friends. If the opportunity comes up when you are alone with her and the mood feels right let her know you may be available and are still interested if things don't work out with her current B/F. In the mean time look around. There might be someone agonizing over you and you don't know it because you have been focusing on her.
 
I don't have a lot of experience with this stuff, but I don't know what the hell are you saying with. What do you mean, by d8ing her?, If it is what I am thinking, then you won't get really far. I mean, the last thing I think when I like a girl is that. I like a girl who is pretty (obviously), but it has to be balanced by her intelligence or common sense about things. You wouldnt like to be with someone that all she does is party and go to mall isnt it?

Just get near her, begin by talking, have an excuse to talk to her. Like dont go and make a fool of yourself by being silent. Normally if she stays quiet more than you during a conversation, it means, she doesnt care about you, or you can just keep trying until you see that she actually cares about what you say.
 
Originally posted by DGB454
If it was me I would hold off a bit to see how the relationship goes with her new B/F. When you are young relationships usually are shortlived. Stay around and be friends. If the opportunity comes up when you are alone with her and the mood feels right let her know you may be available and are still interested if things don't work out with her current B/F. In the mean time look around. There might be someone agonizing over you and you don't know it because you have been focusing on her.
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ill tell u guys somtin beginging of the year she got a b/f and she dumped him after 2 months, then she got a b/f who dumped her, and now shes with a guy that she asked out again..
and well i think i will tell her at the right moment.. and im thinking when she and him r not going out anymore.. and i think she noes cuze yesterday she told me to tell her bf because hes in my class she told me to ask him if she kisses good and she knoes about me likeing her and stuff .. and its sounded so on porpuse..
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Cobra, ok here is the deal. I am assuming you are somewhere in high school or college. so here it is. You have plenty of heart-breaks to come. The first one is always the hardest. If I was in that situation that you are in, I would now step back from it. In the past, I did not and regretted it so much. But, that is with the experience of going through that. Now, the deal is you don't wanna be the one that she goes to to cry on, because there is very little chance that she'll recognize how good of a person you are that way. There is a very slim chance for one of those movie realationships happening. Also, you don't want to be void in her life either. Listen to her and give her advice. Now, if the guy she is dating is your friend, lay-off totally. Bro's before hoe's. That is a good rule. If not, and she comes to you for advice, put it into words like, "If I was in this relationship, I would do this. . . " My Best Friend in High School, Carolyn, was dating my buddy Chris. Similiar situation of what I am explaining here. It took her a full year and half to realize and recognize me. She had broken up with Chris half a year before hand. Carolyn and I would go to clubs all the time. I was her reliable shoulder to lean her head on when she needed it for anything. I was there for her no matter what. Finally I kissed her one night in the middle of a two lane road blocking off traffic. After that I was on Cloud 9. It went downhill very fast from there. She stopped calling and hanging out with me. I tried to stay in touch but it didn't work. So a month later, I met the true first love. I ran into Carolyn again six months into the realationship and we had lunch. It was ackward, I still had some feeling for her, but I was in love with someone else. She showed hints that she was still thinking about me, but she didn't make that apparent. We run into each other one more time after that. When I told her how my realationship was going and talked about it for a couple of minutes she started to have a few tears in her eyes. She did a good job of trying not to let them show, but I caught them. I felt bad about it, but she had her chance. To this day, I have not seen her and that was like 4 to 5 years ago. There is still a little hope in me that I would run into her, but I moved from where we lived. Maybe I'll bump into her and end up marrying her - 707. But the point of this story is to show you how a situation like this can end up. :) - ps sorry for the epic story of blabbering
 
just be close to her man, and her friend. I also have a story like Miatas... I was just falling for this girl (wich by an amazing coincidende is also called Caroline... well, sort of) and I just told her... she was like, you know O_O WTF? but.. that same afternoon, she said yes to someone else. oh, broke me in pieces, but I continued to be at her side for most of highschoool. I just... I always said I loved her (DONT do that if the girl dont feel the same) and... well, we were friends... like that (me telling her I loved her) for about one year and a half. I ended up deeply hurt and lost interest on it... I mean, I was just hurting myself... and she seemed to love the other guy so I just quit and started to treat her like evryother friend. she went sad because of that and well... we ended up almost separated... but we were still friends. anyway, she hurt me deeply. but then, I met the love of my life, Aura, in an internet anime forum, then in real life. we fell absolutely in love. this is like... 1 year later. one afternoon Caroline calls me and tells me she had a baby!!!! I just couldnt believe it. I went to see her. then i kenw this dude would punch her and that he left her after he knew she was pregnant. ooh, that hurted me deeeeply too, but fortunately I had Aura with me at the time, so I didnt commit a stupidity ( I loved her so much I would had married her, child and all... really)... Aura was by my side and... altough I has loved Caroline, I didnt feel anything for her at the time. and so it has been. but, man, if you really want to get to a girls heart, be her friend and stay close to her and be loyal... help her, be with her. dont mess with her, and be special with her. and abobe all and as many people have said... be yourself, there is no better gift that sincerity... with yer heart.
stay with her my friend.

Cano

and I am sorry too for the extension and all that... hahaha :rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
The thing to remember is that at 13 or 15 or 17 it may seem like you'll never get a date, but you will.
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Does that still apply to 20 year olds?
 
Originally posted by Cano
just be close to her man, and her friend. I also have a story like Miatas... I was just falling for this girl (wich by an amazing coincidende is also called Caroline... well, sort of) and I just told her... she was like, you know O_O WTF? but.. that same afternoon, she said yes to someone else. oh, broke me in pieces, but I continued to be at her side for most of highschoool. I just... I always said I loved her (DONT do that if the girl dont feel the same) and... well, we were friends... like that (me telling her I loved her) for about one year and a half. I ended up deeply hurt and lost interest on it... I mean, I was just hurting myself... and she seemed to love the other guy so I just quit and started to treat her like evryother friend. she went sad because of that and well... we ended up almost separated... but we were still friends. anyway, she hurt me deeply. but then, I met the love of my life, Aura, in an internet anime forum, then in real life. we fell absolutely in love. this is like... 1 year later. one afternoon Caroline calls me and tells me she had a baby!!!! I just couldnt believe it. I went to see her. then i kenw this dude would punch her and that he left her after he knew she was pregnant. ooh, that hurted me deeeeply too, but
fortunately I had Aura with me at the time, so I didnt commit a stupidity ( I loved her so much I would had married her, child and all... really)... Aura was by my side and... altough I has loved Caroline, I didnt feel anything for her at the time. and so it has been. but, man, if you really want to get to a girls heart, be her friend and stay close to her and be loyal... help her, be with her. dont mess with her, and be special with her. and abobe all and as many people have said... be yourself, there is no better gift that sincerity... with yer heart.
stay with her my friend.

Cano

and I am sorry too for the extension and all that... hahaha :rolleyes:
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thanks Cano, man.. well ya im gonna be her freind for now. and i will ask her out when she is single. Som1 else posted that there mabe som1 else who has those feelings toward me, and im not 100% sure but i know there is another gurl and i talk to her alot and she has been helping me and etc. she even takes to the gurl im in love with for me .. and etc. and well yah .. she's been on my side for the whole year because im new to this skool .. and yah shes a really nice person.. :D
 

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