In general, are you a happy person?

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Being on the outside of cars sucks, anyway...
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
Being on the outside of cars sucks, anyway...

Meh.

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Well, being on the inside of a stupid or inattentive brain is teh suck, too.
 
So double teh suck for me? :D
 
Depends! Did you jaywalk, or was it the assclown driver's fault?
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
Depends! Did you jaywalk, or was it the assclown driver's fault?

It was a one-way-car-two-way-bike (eh...) road, I was oncoming traffic on a narrow road. And the driver miscalculated the width of his/her car, or something.
 
Mostly, it depends on when you talk to me. In general, yes.

There is one major thing that I'd like to get resolved but it's too personal to get in to.
 
I am a content person. . . I don't believe I will truly be "happy" for in order to become happy you must also be "sad". . . Being content there will be times where I am unsettled. Currently I do not have many things to be "happy" about. . . My love is leaving for Five months to go Dance on a Cruise ship which is her pride and Joy. . . Along with her leaving, I have to watch over her house with the Wicked Witch of the West, her Roommate which owes my lady over 2 grand in back pay and Had the nerve to call my lady a "horrible person" last night because of some sideways twisted comment she mended to her own needs. To even consider saying that to someone that has fed and shelter you for a month is completely beyond me. . . "happy" what is this "happy" you talk about? Is it a feeling of euphoria which you are never brought down from? I truly believe you can never be happy for the 'Nature of Man' or "society" nowadays is getting the most toys. . . Strange how we react to everything. . .

Content, well I have nothing to be content about, but I am content if that makes sense.

Mopar Muscle - You are one funny Chaach!
 
Originally posted by spock
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you tell me.

There's nothing wrong with a little sadism here and there.

Apple even formed an acronym after it. It's good to see they have a sense of humor.

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Originally posted by sn00pie
It was a one-way-car-two-way-bike (eh...) road, I was oncoming traffic on a narrow road. And the driver miscalculated the width of his/her car, or something.
Oh, they have those in Thailand too. Here, the building-roads-rules would probably keep such a road from existing.
 
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
Why not?

Be happy. There's no reason not to be.

its not that easy...what if someone suffers from depression?, that can have to do with chemical imbalances in the brain..
 
Yes.

They are not the end all and be all to stopping depression. Much the same way a nicotine patch doesn't stop you from smoking. It merely is a push in the right direction.
 
i am very happy. too happy.. there are too much good in my life, and its starting to scare me.. everything goes my way!
 
Oh sure....yeah! Pretty happy. It drives my wife nuts because I'm always happy. I tell her I'm just passive agressive.
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
Heck, yes. There's so much to be happy about! Plenty to be disappointed or confused about, too, but in general, life sure beats the pants off of the only alternative...

I'm not entirely sure how that's meant to work, though. That's like people who tell you to be thankful for life because imagine what it'd be like had you never been born, which means nothing. If you'd never existed, you frankly wouldn't know the difference. If you're dead, you don't know the difference either.

Not that I want to die, mind you, but there can really only be five post-death possibilities, generally speaking: nothing, exactly the same, different but no better no worse, better, worse. For the most part, most people in North America accept better and worse, or else nothing if they're atheists, like me. So then, apart from "worse" (which no one really believes is their fate), it frankly doesn't sound all that bad, IMO.

On the whole, life is a chore, punctuated only by the knowledge that it could and should be so much more. The generalities of it are childish and downright insulting, primarily for the fact that though everything may be a struggle, and we accept that as inevitable and even strengthening, we should at least be permitted even a minor victory or two every now and again.

Or at least a break.



My answer: no.
 
Originally posted by Atomic Wedgie
On the whole, life is a chore, punctuated only by the knowledge that it could and should be so much more. The generalities of it are childish and downright insulting, primarily for the fact that though everything may be a struggle, and we accept that as inevitable and even strengthening, we should at least be permitted even a minor victory or two every now and again.

Or at least a break.

My answer: no.
Well, not to be rude, but who pissed in your Corn Flakes™ this morning?

I find it interesting how you describe life, because it seems that your perception is what's degrading it, not life itself. Sure, there are a few problems – Life is sometimes unfair, life is sometimes stressful, life somtimes sucks. But for the most part, life is good.

For example, right now, I'm typing this on my lovely little iBook. To the right of me, about 2 feet, is our old beige G3. Both computers use thte same generation processor, yet just several years separating them makes a world of difference – My iBook's 4 times more powerful, weighs close to nothing compared to that clunky thing, is infinitely more portable, much prettier, and most importantly, allows me to do a lot more than I could do on the G3. That's progress, and that's what makes life so damn cool. Look at the skyscrapers that we can build in a few years that weren't even imaginable a century ago (which is a small slice of time on the grand scale of things). Look at the books sitting on your shelf, which can be mass-produced these days and are relatively cheap, yet had to painstakingly made using type block thingies a few centuries ago. Look at what you can do with your printer... you can take a paragraph of information that someone halfway across the globe typed up and posted, retrieve it in a matter of seconds, then print it out into a nice hard copy. Look at transportation – We've come a long way from horse-drawn carriages and airplanes that could go no faster than the first automobiles. Because of the progress humans have made, I'll be able to go to bed tonight in a nice, cozy, soft bed in a very well sheltered house, instead of sleeping on a cold rock that's a little less bumpy than my neighbor's.

There's so much great stuff to be thankful and grateful for, and it doesn't make sense to me to put a negative spin on everything. There are simply too many awesome things that happen to not be happy about it.
 
Yes and no.

Got off to a bad start with my school work, my parents aren't helping me get back on track and are applying more and more pressure on me. The good thing is, I have met a girl I am interested in, we talk often which is good. It's a nice feeling when you know someone out there feels the same way about you as you do about them, it's nice to know that someone enjoys your company.

I quite often lull into stress/worry/panic attacks, but thats nothing that the equation 'Bassy stereo system + Tool + Fear Factory + APC' can't solve :D.

However, if you were ever to meet me in person you would think I'm a very pissed off person. I always walk along in a confident way (not a 'thuper!' gay way) with a big frown/staunch look on my face. I quite often think I put out a 'don't **** with me' look but I don't do it intentionally. I do have that attitude at school though, I demand respect from the younger idiots at school and they give it too :D.
 
Originally posted by Sage
Well, not to be rude, but who pissed in your Corn Flakes™ this morning?

There's so much great stuff to be thankful and grateful for, and it doesn't make sense to me to put a negative spin on everything. There are simply too many awesome things that happen to not be happy about it.
Yup, that's about it in a nutshell. You're right, when I'm dead, I won't know the difference since my conciousness will cease to exist...

But I'm not dead. I woke up next to another living, breathing person, I dropped my kids off at school, I drove here in a nice car, I'm looking forward to lunch and going home to my significant other person. So whether I'm aware of it or not when I'm dead, losing that experience would still be a loss.

So, yeah, I'm happy. Doing "chores" as you call it brings me pleasure out of all proportion to the pain or inconvenience.
 
Originally posted by Atomic Wedgie


On the whole, life is a chore, punctuated only by the knowledge that it could and should be so much more.

"Life should be more."

That's a good one.
 
Yes. Almost always. Lots to be happy about, from the simple to the grand.

I learned a long time ago that you may as well enjoy yourself for the short time you're on this earth. Otherwise, what's the point?

Yeah, I went through a troubled, angry young man phase just like a lot of people. Disillusioned, disenfranchised, disinterested whatever you want to call it, I thought that was me. One day I realized that what I was was a cynical, whiny little punk that needed to get his act together. So I did. Haven't looked back since.


Originally posted by milefile
I am joyfull everyday because of my son, Alex. It would be difficult to describe the happiness his smile gives me, and the way he has taught me to love.

Well said 👍


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Originally posted by ///M-Spec
One day what I realized that what I was was a cynical, whiny little punk that needed to get his act together. So I did. Haven't looked back since.

Also well said 👍
 
I think you can be a cynical whiny little punk and still be happy.

It would be great to hate everything and still be happy. But only because it would probably piss other people off. And what greater feeling is there than knowing you pissed someone off for no good reason? :)
 
Yes, if that sort of thing pisses you off. The only smiley that irratates me is the rolleyes smiley. I despise it.

Here's my preemptive response to the person who posts the rolleyes smiley: I hate your face.

limelife: I checked out Stereolab (I don't know why I hadn't before; I had heard of them) and I was quite pleased. They have been added to my Wish List.

Good music alone makes life worthwhile.
 
I try to be happy. But things like major hardware failures at work tend to bring me down (:
 
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