My day is completely ruined.

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Well - today I had plans to go to the autocross with my Dad and my Uncle. Well - thats didn't turn out so good.
It was about 5:30AM I think when my dad came in and I heard him tell me he will turn on the lights in 5 minutes. As so he did. About 5:45AM my Mom comes in a just messes everything up. She starts yelling at me. I'm not even wake... Just yelling. So now its a all out war... AGAIN... So its about 10 minutes till 7:00AM, until Dad leaves... and she is still pissing me off, now my Dad is pissed off, now we all are pissed. He leaves, that ruins my day, cause me and my Mom are fighting. I heard him gas the porsche down the street like he was WANTING to leave the area.
Now that he is gone, my mom continues to be a arsehole. So as she continues I'm telling her to shut the hell up. She walks around the house yelling like a immature 1st grader. It pissed me off, I start yelling, Now my mom says, "I want you out of the house."

Before I continue. Last time she said that she swore in god's name that she will never say that again. And that was the last fight.( I posted it on GTP. )

So now that my sister is up. Now my mom has pissed off my sister.
My mom is in the computer room playing on the computer like nothing happens. So - I tell her to call dad. She refuses and then starts acting like a damn child. I expect more from my mom, but I swore these therapy appointments I'm having had to go somewhere. Now I get the phone. I was gonna call my Aunt to talk to her, so then she says that sarcastic remake. "Oh this is gonna be good."
I turn around in the kitchen and I threw the phone o the ground as hard as I can. The phone is broken. And i'm glad it did.
I'm still pissed off that the fact, my mom ****ed up my ****'n day and today was a day, I looked forward too.

So now I go into the back of the house, and sit in the little bathroom. I'm ****'n pissed as hell, I've already blew some major swears everywere.
So I'm tensed. I mean I was ready to kick some ass.

So I stay in that little bathroom calm down. I think I was in there for about one hour and a half to two hours. My sister is yelling at my mom, my mom is yelling at my sister. Its all out chaos.

Today was ****ing ruined. And till 1 hour ago as of now, she finally said sorry. But I don't approve it. Since this has happened before. I will not accept it. I don't trust my mother. Its sad. Why do I have to deal with this bull****?

And - if you wanna know... My dad still hasn't returned...
 
Sorry to hear that. Every parents/ couple have fights. Sometime they are minor, and well other times they are not.

There is two hole in the hall way made by my dad's fist. What does that say about my parents? They argue at least once a week.

NEVER WORK WITH RELATIVES!
 
My two cents:

Man it sounds like your mom needs to get back on her meds.
You never said why she was yelling at you before 6 AM on a Saturday...
But, it sounds like the behaviour of a person that may be suffering from a chemical imbalance.
I don't have much of a background in Mental Health. But if she's going off for no good reason. She may need some "chemical intervention."
It sounds like she may be bipolar, and that can be treated.
She might even be likable with treatment.
 
Gil
You never said why she was yelling at you before 6 AM on a Saturday...
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I wish I knew that. She just started yelling at me.

I don't think she can be bipolar. If you read the last thread I made about these damn wars, she just launches words out of know were...
 
It won't excuse things, but it would clarify things to know why she yelled at you. Either you neglected to do something, was unable to, or she was using you as a proxy because her full wrath could not be put on the person she wanted to yell at initially, presumably your father. Worst of all was your aunt whom should have been in the presence of mind to know you are in pain and acted understandingly toward you. If you are wrong, she does not owe you agreement, but if she did not want to listen, she should have asked you not to invove her. Instead she was sarcastic. Of course, I cannot know how often you have tried to talk with her, and the necessity of each discussion, but, still, your parents were anything but calm. They had little capacity to reason with you, and, as they were the subjects of your problem, it may not have made sense to do so immediately. I think you are right to to accept your mother's apology right away. Sadly, people do not learn from their irrational behavior easily. When confronted you are made to feel as if you are a complacent lecturer who spouts on about "trivial things." Our society berates the tattle tale, the moral critic, everyone whoever attempts at changing their own world into something more civil, more peaceful. But if you say nothing, the fights happen again and again, so long so as to seem as the nearest thing to being perpetual. Stubbornity hinders people from seeing their faults. Each protest you withhold is a further nail in your coffin, more of them hammered down until you want to claw out maddeningly, not caring about the bloody disfiguration of your hands. All that is wanted is vengeance and freedom, but, before then, not so much as acceptance and compassion, even reason.
 
:eek: Oh My!
I really think she should seek the ministrations of a really good psychiatrist.
It might make her a lot easier to live with.
 
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It won't excuse things, but it would clarify things to know why she yelled at you. Either you neglected to do something, was unable to or she was using you as a proxy because her full wrath could not be pt on the person she wanted to yell at initially, presumably your father. Worst of all was your aunt whom should have been in the presence of mind to know you are in pain and acted understandingly toward you. If you are wrong, she does not owe you agreement, but if she did not want to listen, she should have asked you not to invove her. Instead she was sarcastic. Of course, I cannot know how often you have tried to talk with her, and the necessity of each discussion, but, still, your parents were anything but calm. They had little capacity to reason with you, and, as they were the subjects of your problem, it may not have made sense to do so immediately. I think you are right to to accept your mother's apology right away. Sadly, people do not learn from their irrational behavior easily. When confronted you are made to feel as if you are a complacent lecturer who spouts on about "trivial things." Our society berates the tattle tale, the moral critic, everyone whoever attempts at changing their own world into something more civil, more peaceful. But if you say nothing, the fights happen again and again, so long so as to seem as the nearest thing to being perpetual. Stubbornity hinders people from seeing their faults. Each protest you withhold is a further nail in your coffin, more hammered down until you want to claw out maddeningly, not caring about the bloody disfiguration of your hands. All that is wanted is vengeance and freedom, but not so much as acceptance and compassion, even reason.
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I coulda sayed something in my sleep when she tried to wake me up maybe. But rather that that. I really don't know why.
 
Bahbo
I wish we had a porsche one of us could speed off in after every arguement.
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my thoughts EXACTLY.

was your dad on your side? if he was, then **** him. actually, **** him anyways. what kind of a man ditches his family. i would never do that to mine.
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my story...
im always yelling with my mom and ****. we yell at each other. but its all cool. my dad hasnt been around for years. but i dont hold a grudge against him or anything... nobody does. i just learned a lot from it. i know to never do to my family and children, what he has done to me. its his problem anyhow. he missed out more on me than i did him. my mom and I are way too nice, even when we seem agrivated.

but, on the flipside, my mom is annoying as hellllllllllllllll. i always make sure to remind her about that, to which she replies with even mmmmmmoooooorrrreeeee annoying talking.

women.......****. :crazy:

i need a girlfriend or something. lmao. :lol:
 
I think some of you guys may be looking at the fact thta his dad left a little too far. He was pissed so he had to get out. Im sure that he wouldnt be leaving forever becuase of one argument, even though thats how it happens. But put it this way. Your with your gf, she pisses you off, You leave becuase you need time to think... Thta all im saying.
 
Whoa Darin - I hope things have gotten a little better since you posted - I never knew you had this crap to deal with at home. Hope you are OK my friend - I'll MSN whenever I can. Chin up
 
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I know how you feel...I am VERY glad that my grandparents are moving out in the middle of September. Now I don't need them to poke their nose into my business or into everyone's business.
 
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I know how you feel...I am VERY glad that my grandparents are moving out in the middle of September. Now I don't need them to poke their nose into my business or into everyone's business.
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That's exactly what my dad does, although he's not moving out (I could be in a year though). He used to be a good person, but over the past year he's turned into a total *sshole, because he can't deal with numerous problems in his life. Now whenever he has anything meaningful to say at all, it's normally questioning me on various aspects of my life, such as school, drivers ed, etc. Normally I'd be fine with that, but he makes it feel more like an interrogation.

Bummer about the autox Darin, your dad is a douche for taking off, unless tensions were so high he didn't have 5 minutes to wait for you to get ready. But can you see any reason for your mom being so pissed at everyone? Did you do anything to her recently that you might not have realized? Or is she just plain nuts? Hope everything simmers down there, family fights are pure hell.
 
Darin, it sounds like your mom is in need of some hormone pills. My mom used to take them, and her attitude and behaviour changed completely around. But, this cancer scare with these hormone pills has caused her new doctor to change her medication. Now, she is back to her rude, quick to anger, annoying, b*tchy self, and I, and the rest of my family, don't want anything to do with her. But, we still try to see her, though I don't care to. I had enough of her at 4th of July.
 
My parents would never treat me that way, simply because they know that I'm going to be their sole source of income when they're old and feeble. And I'd totally cut 'em off, too.
 
D**m. She sounds like a real *****. My aunt (I have no parents, do not ask me why) has been like that twice but to my sister, and then me and my sister.
 
My mom does this all the f'ing time, which is why I start locking my door whenever I am in my room. She doesnt want to listen, but she wants me to stand still and take the b!tching, so I go and crank the tunes. Shes cooled down recently, but I know my parents are insane (everyone in my family belongs in an asylum) so it WILL happen again.

Fnck parents, Ive only got one year before I can move out. I will live in my car if I have too, but no amount of money will keep me living with these lunatics.

Just remember, it wont always be like this. One day you will die, and then you wont have to deal with anyones **** anymore.
 

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