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TarnishedAngel5

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OK, so I've been going out with my boyfriend for about, oh let's say 2 months. Only last night did he make any move to kiss me at all. (Just on the cheek) Don't get me wrong, that's not a bad thing, but do any of you think that it would be wise If I made the next move? I figured I could get a pretty good Idea on how he feels since there are mostly men on gtplanet.

What do ya think?
 
some guys feel intimidated by pretty girls...so they won't be the ones making the first move. you should be in control of the relationship anyway, so yeah..make the first move...but remember it will only go as far as you let it go (unless he's a psycho..:odd: )
 
Originally posted by LanEvo
some guys feel intimidated by pretty girls...so they won't be the ones making the first move. you should be in control of the relationship anyway, so yeah..make the first move...but remember it will only go as far as you let it go (unless he's a psycho..:odd: )
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I should hope he's not! I truly don't think so anyway...we've talked about that and we both agree that we'll be virgins till marriage. :)
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
I should hope he's not! I truly don't think so anyway...we've talked about that and we both agree that we'll be virgins till marriage. :)
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ouch, sucks to be him :lol:
 
There is absolutly nothing wrong with the girl taking the first step. This way you'll be in control and can decide how far you want to go.

Maybe he is just shy.
 
Originally posted by LanEvo
ouch, sucks to be him :lol:
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Oh sure...you may say that but at least I know he has some morals!:mad:

But I know that you're a guy and sometimes guys can go to automatic and think through their zippers...:trouble: :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
Originally posted by made in holland
There is absolutly nothing wrong with the girl taking the first step. This way you'll be in control and can decide how far you want to go.

Maybe he is just shy.
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Lots of people have told me this, but I even resulted to asking my mom and she says to wait...so I'm pulled between to ways here...and was looking for a talley mark of yays and Nays
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
Oh sure...you may say that but at least I know he has some morals!:mad:

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Having some morals, and lacking cajones are two totally different things.:D
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
But I know that you're a guy and sometimes guys can go to automatic and think through their zippers...:trouble: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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naa, just a lot more open on the net. as you'll see with most people...i probably wouldn't make the first move in real life either :lol: but you go right ahead! the world would be a better place if the girl made the first step.
 
Originally posted by LanEvo
naa, just a lot more open on the net. as you'll see with most people...i probably wouldn't make the first move in real life either :lol: but you go right ahead! the world would be a better place if the girl made the first step.
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Why do you say that? Or is that some male secret I'm not allowed to know? LOL:lol:
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
Why do you say that? Or is that some male secret I'm not allowed to know? LOL:lol:
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OHHHHH CRAP *edits post quickly*



*edit* j/k :lol:
 
There's more about him that makes me want to make the first move. For starters, he plays the Violin, He's a major gamer, and I'm his first girlfriend ever.
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
*sigh* Men...:rolleyes:
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*sigh* Girls...
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gamer...k...first timer..k..got that....violen..:irked: err umm..whatever floats yer boat :p
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
He's never been kissed on the lips either. (See why he's a virgin? lol)
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Another reason why he is afraid to kiss you.

He doesn't know how to do it, and he is afraid he might look like a fool.
 
Originally posted by made in holland
Another reason why he is afraid to kiss you.

He doesn't know how to do it, and he is afraid he might look like a fool.
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Actually, that may be very true...only makes my job harder...
 
Colleen...let's face it. Our mother's will always say "Wait for him to make the first move." Most of the guys will say "You make the move." Your poor Bobby is probably terrified to death. And if you haven't told him yet about WHY you were not in class 3rd period...he'll probably have a nervous break down. :lol:
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
Actually, that may be very true...only makes my job harder...
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Actually, it makes it a lot easier.

He doesn't know what a good kiss is yet, so you can teach him the stuff you like best.
 
Originally posted by TarnishedAngel5
Actually, that may be very true...only makes my job harder...
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Your job? Wrong approach!

Don't worry, just kiss him, and it'll be awesome. Everything will be awesome. But... if you don't. Everything won't be awesome.

Awesome > Not Awesome (How's your math?)
 
yeah it's kinda like a parrot. you wouldn't want one that somebody already had and taught it stuff and it sits around and cusses all the time, if you had a baby one and raised it, it could talk the way you want it to ;)
 
Originally posted by M5Power
Sheesh - we need to start limiting the number of girls that can join
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Yeah, but Jordan was all "No, I like girls." and "Girls are awesome!" and crap...

:odd:

(Oh, and use periods.)
 
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