Need help, not on GT3 but on a serious thing

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Ok, I dont know. Few of u contributed to a post about Mazkid love's problem. And I said my things too. I talked about a girl that I liked. The thing is now a friend helped me, and he got her phone number, address&email.

Here comes the thing that made me think. He said something about him expecting me to use her phone number before her email address. I mean talking to her in the phone is going to take a lot of balls. I havent seen her in three years.

A email should be something nice too. So, what should I do, talk to her from a phone or email something to her. If u think email is the way to go then give me some help, or if u think phone is ten times better , share me some advice.


I am just :eek:
 
Ahh.

Did you happen to read Brett's thread, "Embarrassing Situation?"

Well, my advice to you would be to use the E-mail method first. That is an unobtrusive method of communication. From there if your lucky, she might invite you to call her. But I would not call her first off and I would not mention that you have her phone number either.

Could you please include some more background information as to how you know this girl. Evidently you do know her because you mentioned that you haven't seen her in about 3 years.

By giving us some more info, we could help you out in tailoring a porper e-mail for you.

Peace,

Boom
 
I'd say, either send her an online greeting, or an E-mail letter. That way she won't feel threatened or forced to talk to you. If she responds to it, then E-mail her again and ask if you could call her sometime. Is she doesn't respond, but is still online, try to either talk to her on IM or in a chat, or last resort E-mail her again. If she responds with something bad, or just says that she doesn't like you or she has a guy already, give up, she probably won't change her mind, but just ask if you could be her freind, then just maybe something will work.

Take this any way you want, I know I'm not the best person for this advice, but at the time I did everything right that I could, it's just who I am that screwed it up, and her freinds.

Hope that helps.
 
You know, I've been there, and tough as it is, I'd use the phone, especially if you have spoken with her before (even a long time ago).

If you go into the call with no expectations, you won't be nervous about being dissapointed. Just say, "Hi, remember me? I happened to be talking to so-and-so, and that got me thinking about you. I realized how long it's been since I've seen you, and I just wondered what you'd been doing lately."

That way you can get the conversation flowing. Don't even think about asking her for a date until after the first call. Good luck!
 
Alright I am gonna provide the info.

This thing started in 1998. This girl was a year off me. I am a senior, she is a junior, u get it? Alright.

At first . I liked her but I didnt know about what she felt for me. After like a month, I tried at least to get some eye contact. Nothing happened, so I gave it up.

That weekend I just forgot her, tried to clear my mind. Everything went good. I did put her out of my mind. U know if u are just trying to forget her, but u are there thinking, u will never do it. The thing was that I passed a really good evening on my aunt's house.

Next day I go to school, normal day, I go sit, and then I turn towards her, and she is looking at me. At first I thought it was some $hitty coincidence. But the thing continued the next day, a week, a month, and it went on after 1999. A year of lots of indirects, just eye contact. I tried to talk to her, but she refused. Like the time I tried to talk with her, it was like the last class, and she had to go, u know. There was no time for me. That was the thing.


Then on 1999 I had to leave my country, leaving her in the way.

Three years have passed and here I am, sitting and thinking if I should call her first or email her. U know
 
If I were you I'd take neon's advice and just call
I know that I've never really hooked up w/ a girl over e-mail, Phone would be a lot more personal if you know her, and if she did like you, would benefit much more than an e-mail
 
From the way it sounds, you have never spoken to her over the phone. Is that a correct assumption?

If you have never had a phone conversation with her, I still think that the e-mail would be the least shocking. Plus, that would give you time to compose yourself and not act like a fool like most men tend to do when in a situation like that.

Do you live in the same country as her?
 
Plus, that would give you time to compose yourself and not act like a fool like most men tend to do when in a situation like that
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Yah, very d@mn true.


I used to live in the same country as her(Peru). Problem is I moved and came here to the United States while she stood there.

I am just gonna take the same strategy Mazkid described.

I mean, I just want to begin with some conversation with her.


That was the reason why phone was going to be the hardest approach to her.
 
Nah, e-mail. That opens the door without being pushy or "stalker-y". :thatsodd:

I mean, you haven't seen her in three years. Could be a touch awkward on the phone.
 

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