*sigh* ugh... this is gonna suck

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:irked: Well I need to tell this somewhere, and I suppose this is the best place I got :p

Well, I have this friend named Ashley and I used to like her a lot and we was going to go out, but she went on vacation for a week and when she came back she had decided she like this guy named Daniel and it annoyed me a good bit, but I got over it quick enough. Well Ashley had a friend she thought would be perfect for me and told me a lot about her and told her a lot about me. Well we agreed to meet and we met on Jan 4th and we had fun talking and so we talked some more over the next week and I asked her out Jan 12th and she said yes and was like really happy and so was I and it's been going pretty good.

Then tonight I was talking to Ashley and she said that Vanessa told her a lot of what I had said and that I had said some of the same stuff to her when I had liked her, which when I think about it I did, but I don't do it on purpose. Well, I think that Ashley is going to tell Vanessa that I had told her some of the same things and that I didn't mean it. I meant everything I said. I like this girl a lot, and she makes me happier than anyone ever has and I don't want to loose her. It can't end so fast and so soon.
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I'm scared of what I'd do if this gets messed up. Not to anyone else, I couldn't harm anyone else unless I had to, but to myself.
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Well, if something falls over because of something as silly as that, then it probably wasn't going to happen.
 
Eh, just dont do anything stupid.

Edit: Oh, also, dont get yourself overly worried. If you get too worried she will eventually notice and.. Yeah, things will get screwed..

Just relax and trust your ex (Hate to say it, but its the only way to keep your cool.)

Anywho.. Keep your head up.
 
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I'm scared of what I'd do if this gets messed up. Not to anyone else, I couldn't harm anyone else unless I had to, but to myself.
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:( No girl is worth anything like that. I didn't meet my wife until I was 28. All those "wasted" relationships were not really wasted. It's called growing up... which ends when you do. There's a boat load of girls out there and you'll find one who won't play petty games with you like this girl is... and have some fun doing it, too :D
 
Well, not to be mean or anything but.. the things you told to the one girl must not have meant anything to her if she's not with you any longer. Just try not to say the same things to this one. I had a problem like this before also, but mine involved poems and junk, I wrote this one girl a poem and gave it to her, than few months later we broke up and I gave this other girl the same poem, not knowing THE TWO GIRLS WERE COUSINS. Oh man did I get it for that.. those were the days..

But like milefile said, it's just growing up. So if something goes wrong, live and remember your mistakes so you don't make them again. Or you can always Lie :lol:
 
:lol: well, i didn't mean to say the same things, it just came out that way lol.

the girl i'm with now (Vanessa) actually appreciates and likes the things I say and stuff, or at least she says so and I beleive her. :p
 
Are there really more things to say to a girl that you are going out with? As far as I can remember, there are only a few things that you can say to one girl, and not say to another.. am I correct?
 
as far as I know, but the one seems to think that it means that its all just lines, which sometimes it is, but it never was with either of them. Ashley and Vanessa are like best friends, so idk who nessa would beleive more.
 
Well, put yourself in her shoes, would you rather believe, your bestfriend or some girl you havent known as long as your bestfriend that you are going out with?.

But then again, sometimes people dont discuss personal things like that to anyone. Time for me to make a thread. Good luck to ya and your girl.
 
I had another read about it - I doubt anything will happen. You haven't really done anything wrong - I wouldn't worry about it until something happens.

Something I've often done with some success in these sort of situations is 'get on the front foot' and actually mention it first.

Good luck.
 
How would you go about explaining something like that vat_man? I've always wondered to, did you mean to type vat_man as your username or was it a typo? Sorry, its always been a wonder to me.
 
It was intentional - if you've heard of an old role-playing game called Paranoia, it's from that - it's a pisstake on Batman. Old gag.

Just be honest - the good thing about telling the truth is you don't have to make it up, and you don't have to remember all of it.

It's difficult - if she didn't mention she was going to say anything, she probably won't - probably best to just let it lie. Try to vary what you say, though!
 
I'd give you some advice, but I can't really say I've ever had a girlfriend. I ended asking this one chick if she wanted to go see a movie this weekend(since we have 3 day weekend this weekend, I figured the odds of her having time off from skating and stuff were pretty good), so she said "Um, yeah, I'll call- I'll email you!" So I pretty much said to my self after she left "It's not going to happen"

Just make sure she respects you for personality and you respect her for hers. If all you care about is the figure, you're going to run into problems.
 
i do respect her personality, thats why I like her so much. Shes a great girl and she likes me for the inside me (no normal girl would like me just for my outside :lol: ).

Anyway, I talked to her today and Ashley had told her that, and Vanessa thinks there's only so much to say too! :D heh.. Well I worried for nothing (and wasted a lil web space) but at least it wasn't a long worry.
 
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I'm scared of what I'd do if this gets messed up. Not to anyone else, I couldn't harm anyone else unless I had to, but to myself.
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Are you mentally unstable? Are you John?
 

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