The Ultimate Chick Trouble Thread

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any1 here ever had a rumour started about u that some 18 yr old (im 15) gave u head out of boredom, when really u just fooled around a little and happened to tell her friend who then told..oh i unno...the world? or anything like it. holy crap its annoying.
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Ok..... No. Never let HER friends know. A womans friends will always gossip. When possible, you stay away. Otherwise you are doomed.

Yes Corinne was first mentioned in GTP5. I'm sorry if this next answer doesn't relate, but d00d....... Your writing got a little hard to understand. No she is not my girl. I wish she were.
 
If any place, I don't think a public forum with well over 35,000 members is the best spot to be pooring your heart out to a girl.

I'm not a very big fan of Jay Z, although I got 99 problems, but a ***** ain't one.
 
Drift4ever- why don't you just go and ask her out. Trust me, no matter how imbarassing it may seem know going over in your head it isn't going to be that bad. She is going to more imbarassed than you are anyway. Take it from me, you can like a girl all you want but if you never do anything to tell her, and frankly writing it in a forum for GT is not the answer, then it will never become anything more than just an desire. Just wing it, take her to dinner or something, hell just invite her over to your house and just tell her right to her face without covering it in BS how you feel and then you will know how she feels. You aparently care about her alot, much more than the bare minimum needed fore a relationship, so I just can't even fathom why you just don't tell her, IN PERSON!!!!
 
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Ok..... No. Never let HER friends know. A womans friends will always gossip. When possible, you stay away. Otherwise you are doomed.

Yes Corinne was first mentioned in GTP5. I'm sorry if this next answer doesn't relate, but d00d....... Your writing got a little hard to understand. No she is not my girl. I wish she were.
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#1. she wasnt her close friend, just someone she knew who also happened to be my friend. they went to music class or something together, and she goes to a different school anyway. She knows nothing about it. But if she was my friend, why would she go and tell my other friend (whom i havent told) after i specifically told her not to. I know for sure that at least 20 people know about it now...it sucks. all that cuz she told 1 person. and my then my other friend has the audacity to asl me "why dont u trust me?" .....ah duh.
 
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#1. she wasnt her close friend, just someone she knew who also happened to be my friend. they went to music class or something together, and she goes to a different school anyway. She knows nothing about it. But if she was my friend, why would she go and tell my other friend (whom i havent told) after i specifically told her not to. I know for sure that at least 20 people know about it now...it sucks. all that cuz she told 1 person. and my then my other friend has the audacity to asl me "why dont u trust me?" .....ah duh.
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Ah, duh??


Seriously though DRIFT4EVA, I'd be pretty pissed if I found out someone was posting crap about me online.
 
If you were to split a womans brain, you'd find 4 sections. 1) Money and Jewellery 2) Attitude(My way or the highway) 3) OMG What the hell are you doing to me (When her guy does something wrong) and 4) GOSSIP!!

It doesn't matter wether they are best friends or are just aware of eachother. A small piece of gossip, will turn them into best friends. I mean Why else do you think chicks go to the rest room at the exact same time? It's a fact of life. Women gossip. About ANYTHING!!!

I suppose the only thing that you can do is just ignore them. Ofcourse it sucks. We've got your back though d00d. It's never good.

It is a stupid question though :lol: "Why don't you trust me?" As you said ........... Ah Duh!!! :lol:👍

Obviously I'm not a Jay Z fan. I didn't even know about that saying.

sn00pie - I'm not pouring my heart out to her........... Much. I'm looking for help and advice

T100 - I am a "push over". If I asked her to go anywhere and she got upset. I'd be her biatch. I'd just be getting whipped (NO kinky **** intended). That's why I tried to refrain from doing that. Now I'm getting tougher and meaner and I've realised that sometimes you have to be mean, to be nice. Right now though, I've put my "desire" to be with her, on hold. I've got very, very important exams comming up and the last thing I want to be doing is. Looking into space, thinking about her.
 
That is a pretty good way of avoiding the truth that you are just scared Drift4ever. No excuses just do what you have to do to get the job done.
 
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That is a pretty good way of avoiding the truth that you are just scared Drift4ever. No excuses just do what you have to do to get the job done.
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Nah Seriously d00d. I've got something like 2 weeks before my first exam. :scared: I'll admit. I am scared too...... But mark my words. After exams, I'll be going for gold.
 
Dude - why make another thread and mention her again? I'm dead serious when I say that you talking about her on the internet is not a good thing.
 
I wanna see a pic, I really really need to see what all the fuss is about, first post a pic of her and then a pic of you just for reference.
 
Your signature looks like one cheesy proclamation of love. Seriously, you obsess over her too much. If you got turned down one time, chances are, she isint going to say yes. Just give it up.

Either that, or she just can't stand the thought of of you asking her out. Just assume that, and give it up. Don't bother reading whatever I said above.
 
I read it, and it doesn't change what I said in the least. You want my advice? Get over her. With these sorts of things the faster you get over her the happier you will be, and chances are your relationship with her will perk up because of how you aren't obsessing over her and you care less. Honestly, this whole pouring your heart out on the internet thing sure as hell won't make things better, because a) it just keeps you attached to her, and b) if she found all this stuff the *poo* would hit the fan considering that you are giving information and pictures of her to strangers on the internet (besides the fact that it would make you look more pathetically desperate, rather than passionately heart-breakingly in love). NO NO NO BAD BAD BAD. The faster you get over her the faster you get happy. Comprende?
 
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Your signature looks like one cheesy proclamation of love. Seriously, you obsess over her too much. If you got turned down one time, chances are, she isint going to say yes. Just give it up.

Either that, or she just can't stand the thought of of you asking her out. Just assume that, and give it up. Don't bother reading whatever I said above.
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She knows about GTP. Which means, she probably knows who I am. Which means she probably knows about this thread. What's the point in trying to hide it? I'm just making it easier for her to access it.
 
sn00pie
If any place, I don't think a public forum with well over 35,000 members is the best spot to be pooring your heart out to a girl.
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Neither. I think it's okay that you value our opinions, etc, but just do whatever you think is right. You have to get through some things on your own, but I suppose it's up to you.

"Tute on, son!"
 
TREAT WOMEN LIKE GOLD. THEY ARE BETTER THAN YOU. THEY ARE RIGHT, YOU ARE WRONG. THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE NOT.
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This is bad advice. Treat a woman like she's better than you and she'll start to agree with you. Then she'll be looking for someone who is more on her level.

No.

Don't go after a woman who you don't consider to be your equal or better. Women do not like to be treated badly for any length of time.

But they also don't like to be worshipped for very long either. Find a woman you respect and treat her with respect, but don't disrespect yourself in the process. Women like to know they have a strong man that they can count on and respect. They like to know that their man is worthy of them. If you're too pathetic, and listen to this carefully because it is so true, if you're too pathetic and worship them too much they will leave you every time.

Women like to be reminded periodically why they feel in love with you in the first place. That usually means some measure of confidence and humor. Women like to be worshipped too but not constantly.

This is a common mistake because men DO like to be worshipped constantly and think that if they treat women the way they like to be treated then they will be happy. It's wrong, men and women are different.
 
danoff- you know way to much about women......Are you gay? :lol: jk your post seems to make sense.
 
Nothing to do with Corrianne bud, but just wandering slight random off topicness here, but how much younger would you guys go for a woman and what age are ya? Where would you draw the line?
 
Well if your over 18 and in you live in a first world country I would say stick to other people over 18 and that is it. If you are legal I don't find a problem with a large age difference. I'm only 16 and I only date people older than I am....I feel guilty about.........with younger girls.
 
danoff
This is bad advice. Treat a woman like she's better than you and she'll start to agree with you. Then she'll be looking for someone who is more on her level.

No.

Don't go after a woman who you don't consider to be your equal or better. Women do not like to be treated badly for any length of time.

But they also don't like to be worshipped for very long either. Find a woman you respect and treat her with respect, but don't disrespect yourself in the process. Women like to know they have a strong man that they can count on and respect. They like to know that their man is worthy of them. If you're too pathetic, and listen to this carefully because it is so true, if you're too pathetic and worship them too much they will leave you every time.

Women like to be reminded periodically why they feel in love with you in the first place. That usually means some measure of confidence and humor. Women like to be worshipped too but not constantly.

This is a common mistake because men DO like to be worshipped constantly and think that if they treat women the way they like to be treated then they will be happy. It's wrong, men and women are different.
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Top notch advice d00d. I'm thinking long and hard now. I know that I've made every single mistake in the book and I feel really bad about that. There's nothing I can do though. I've never been shown "the ropes" of dating. I've been thrown in the deep end, with people expecting me to be able to swim. That's not right. I know that there are many others like me, but you have to play the hand you've been dealt. Right now all I've got is a handfull of 2's and 3's. The problem is. I'm playing a game, which I've never heard of before. I don't know if my hand of 2's and 3's are good or bad. Confused?.............. I am.

5 years is a maximum for me. I'd never go higher than that, but...... Every girl I've liked (7) or loved (1. Corinne) have been my age.
 
Oh come on, you expect her to pop in here and actually read that if she wouldn't even listen to you?

This is NOT the way to solve your issue .... :rolleyes:

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danoff- you know way to much about women......Are you gay?
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No. Married :)

If you're too pathetic, and listen to this carefully because it is so true, if you're too pathetic and worship them too much they will leave you every time.
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I just realized this sounds a little sexist. It wasn't intended that way though. I think it makes perfect sense for women to not want to be with a whiny pathetic worshipping guy. It's just that you have to be very careful what you say because people listen.

If you're constantly telling someone that you don't deserve them and mean it (now this doesn't include the sort of off the cuff remark) perhaps you even supply them with evidence to solidify your argument - you're actually convincing them to leave you. You do it (I know because I have done this in the past) because you want them to know how much you respect and appreciate them. But in the end, if you're convincing enough, they'll go find someone that does deserve them.

Same thing goes with telling them you're fat or ugly or whatever your particular insecurity is.

Getting into a relationship has a tendancy to change the way people would normally act. This is counterproductive because she got into the relationship in the first place because of the way you normally act - so try to hang on to that... even if she tries to change you.

One of the most important things in a relationship is respect. You have to respect her and yourself - she has to do the same. Without that you'll fight with each other or convince each other that you're not a good couple. This does not mean that you should try to force yourself to respect someone that you don't. It means you should try to find someone you respect in the first place.
 
*Goes and makes a username called Corrine to pull an evil prank*...

Jesus Christ Drift4eva, just ****en ask her to go to the movies instead of telling us all her life story...
 
Zembla - I actually do expect her to. I mean if she read my appology a few months back.....

danoff - I see where you are going with this. Yeah I think it's true too.

DODGE the VIPER - I'm suprised no one has done that yet, actually. I would've thought that someone would have been an evil bastige.
 
The mods obviously have some sort of respect for this thread because it hasn't been closed (or they could be reading it or laughing) so I expect anyone that makes a username may get punished for it...
 
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