Understanding a Female.

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Ignore her like you did this thread, look how much interest you've stirred up.

I've been in similar situations, including one I posted about here, and it never ends good. Chances are you may start to like her too, and that's when bad things happen. You'll be left empty, overpassing so many other chances that could've worked, it's just not a great place to be. Don't forget she has a current boyfriend, if she breaks up with him and starts going out with you right after, you will have to watch your windows every time you come home from school.
 
tlowr4
Stay friends. Don't try anything unless she does something. Listen to Famine. That is all.

EDIT: For all you pervvy's that have been saying "Do her!", why has no one come up with the idea of getting the other boyfriend in on the act as well, if you know what I mean. ;)

However, this is clearly the worst course of action... in my semi-experienced opinion, but by all means if you're a male (can I say the 'S' world that sounds like 'butt' on here?) then go for it! However I doubt you're that type.
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If her boyfriend was providing her with everything she wants from a relationship, she wouldn't be putting out feelers. It's not as if the OP has been hounding her, she's made the first movement towards him.

Women, more so than men, are more likely to go from relationship to relationship with no perceivable gap in between. With the evidence supplied, it's not inconceivable that this girl's current relationship is on it's last legs, whether the boyfriend is aware of this or not is another matter. Why shouldn't the OP be next in line? I presume he likes this girl back?

He is, however, lining himself up for a pasting from the current boyfriend if he does go down this route, but those are choices you make. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
 
Ok, summarizing the facts:

She has a boyfriend, every time she fight, argue or even feel disgusted within her relationship(and she most certainly will, this is how young couples behave), she'll come to you searching for something... A refuge for confession, a shoulder to cry on... Whatever. That's OK, just dont get your hopes up, you're in friend zone.

If you actually intend to have her, just walk away. If she likes you to the extent of breaking up her current relationship, she'll do it and then go for you. Otherwise don't even get started, you'll hurt yourself and end up without the girl and without the friend. Walk away and keep your self-respect intact.
 
tlowr4
Listen to Famine. That is all.
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I've spent the past five years trying NOT to listen to him :lol:

(Just kidding darling, love you :sly: )

We're not that difficult to understand, although teenage girls/women are usually a bit more complicated to suss out than those who have matured a bit.

However, I'm sure there's a document somewhere on t'internet about what women say and what they *really* mean... ;)
 
BubbleBelly542
I am so confused right now. Maybe (probably) it's just me being young and dumb, but I don't know what to do. It's rare that I find a girl who wants to talk to, and this is the first time a girls has ever told me she "likes" me. Sounds so elementary...

Anyways, she said she likes me but, she also has a boyfriend. How does that work? I don't think she intends on breaking up with him. Just makes no sense. And what can I do? I don't want to just sit back and do nothing. She said if she wasn't with him she would want to be with me.

Pardon if this is in the wrong place or if there is some thread pertaining to this. I couldn't find any.
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Ooops, that sounds a complex question for me... But what you ought to keep in mind is not to breach the relationship with the girl and the boyfriend she has been going with. Or else she'll just end up losing all the property(friends, good terms with people etc) uneasy to take back for her, Just walk away until she decides what she does ultimately herself. Try not to solve everything rashly as once you take a wrong action to settle the awkward situation, it might only make the matter worse. Even if you regret having missed that opportunity, many other similar chances will come around you sometimes making you falter what to do for that. And you must behave appropriately whenever you're put in the same situation not solely in that example.
 
Pfff what a load of old rubbish this is!

No man will EVER understand a Woman, it's science!

Iv'e been married 4 years and still have no idea what my wife is thinking/doing half the time :lol:

Women depend on the fact us men don't understand them so they can exploit us :lol:
 
Driving Park
You know...the OP never stated that he likes/wants to be with the girl back. He could simply be wondering why she would tell him when she's already with someone.
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I was in a similar situation, she's just messing with you.

If she'll like you when she's with him, then she'll like someone else when she's with you. ;)

Driving Park
You can be an Alfa male sometimes, but other times you've got to be Romeo.

When do you do though, make sure it's an 8C, that'll do the trick. :D
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:lol:!
 
shmogt
Screw it man you gotta seduce her to wanting you more than ever. Have her break up with her bf and be with you. Show the world who the real Alfa male is.
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D.E.N.N.I.S system?

Then the
M.A.C system
but serious, don't stress too much about it. ( been previous tree'd ) Enjoy life 👍
 
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Famine
But she is with him.

Walk away. Don't do anything to drive a wedge in someone else's relationship. Besides, chances are that if she'll play about behind his back, she'll do the same to you down the line.

Walk. Away.
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This. I also do think shes trolling. Women like those games.
 
Walk away its a trap!Don't get involved with someone who is already in a relationship.


For future knowledge.

1.You'll never understand a woman.

2.They are full of crap just like we are.Don't let them fool you saying they aren't.
 
nk4e
D.E.N.N.I.S system?
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7u391z5l6WY">YouTube Link</a>
Then the
M.A.C system
but serious, don't stress too much about it. ( been previous tree'd ) Enjoy life 👍
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Ahhaha there you go OP this will lay it all out for you. You are now using a calculated system to win her. No way her loser bf can beat it.
 
motortrend
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Chapter 2 is due out this winter!


Jerome
 
Impossible to understand women, just smile and nod your head and take it from there. If she smiles back, prepare for argument in 10 seconds, if she doesn't, get out of there, argument now!
 
akmuq
Impossible to understand women, just smile and nod your head and take it from there. If she smiles back, prepare for argument in 10 seconds, if she doesn't, get out of there, argument now!
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Ahah sums it up. We gotta get a woman's advice in this. I guarantee they will say she likes you a lot and you should be super nice and sweet to the girl always being there for her. Do that and you'll end up just like her bf where she's going out hitting on other dudes.
 
BubbleBelly542
She said if she wasn't with him she would want to be with me.
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This is an easy one. Give me something challenging (not that you're reading this thread anymore, but other people are so what the heck).

There's nothing that some girls like more than a guy who is into them that can't have them. That's what you are. You're a dude she can string along with comments like this, who will adore her, who she can tease, who will make her feel good about herself, but who can't have her. That's your function in this relationship - to make her feel good about herself. Some girls also like to have a "backup" in case their current BF doesn't work out. You don't want either of these scenarios or a girl who does this to people.

Someone intelligent in this thread said it already... "walk away".
 
Is this a trick thread?

Women are mystical beings of eternal wonderment, bringers of life and suffering to men.

Never do the dirty mate, the fallout can be immense.
 
Danoff
This is an easy one. Give me something challenging (not that you're reading this thread anymore, but other people are so what the heck).

There's nothing that some girls like more than a guy who is into them that can't have them. That's what you are. You're a dude she can string along with comments like this, who will adore her, who she can tease, who will make her feel good about herself, but who can't have her. That's your function in this relationship - to make her feel good about herself. Some girls also like to have a "backup" in case their current BF doesn't work out. You don't want either of these scenarios or a girl who does this to people.

Someone intelligent in this thread said it already... "walk away".
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I could not have said it any better.... To the OP ... WALK AWAY!!!!
 
Biggamehit
Friend Zone equals danger zone.

Don't search for girls man.... let them come to you enjoy your life. Don't be like the thousands of guys who have no life because they are afraid to be themselves. This doesn't require you to be a man sl*t but ..... just dont rush it bro there are alot of them available.

PS

The first question you need to ask her is " how man sandwiches per minute can you prepare"
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Err what? You talking bout a three way? jk, jk :sly:
 
They're very interesting creatures indeed, from what I've seen in the internet. I don't know what it feels like to actually talk to one, though.





:sly:





Understanding them? Umm... I recommend rather trying to swim over the Atlantic :)
 
In your situation just walk away, don't push for any type of relationship with that girl. I agree with what the others have said here.

Women are a utter mystery to me now again, I thought I had them sussed (well my ex-girlfriend anyway) but nope it certainly seems not.

I don't think us guys will ever understand them fully. The only way to understand a woman is to be a woman unfortunately.
 

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