The second incident was a car serving a penalty. I know this because I yelled at him in a psn message and that's what he said.
I do agree I can be a bit aggressive, but not everything I did was aggressive. The only thing I did aggressive IMO was the first incident, (which i would like the record to state I've done a million times before, and never had anything bad happen until the incident in question).
I've got a friend who up til recently had a similar DR to me. He tends to qualify really well, but he is so passive that he often finishes much worse than he qualified. I tend to be the opposite, and qualify poorly but finish well. I attribute this to being aggressive (but clean) and smooth (I don't go off or crash much. The video in question is a strong outlier, which is why I wanted discussion on it)
When my friend and I had a similar DR there were numerous cases where he would qualify like 5th while I started 12th. By the end of the race, I would finish around where he started and he would finish where I started.
I can be aggressive, but I get results, and as my Sr shows, I do it with the utmost respect.