Pain is a good motivator to go to the dentist
I had a very irrational fear of dentists
It's very rational. There are some shady and greedy dentist out there.
I had a nervless tooth that split in two after eating porkmeat. A girlfriend with serious tooth problem gave me an appointement at a dentist that was labeled as very good (makes lots of implants,...)
First everything was ok. Than he took the nerv out of an other molar. Then the problem started. Infection, which was treated, but I now have a kist under the tooth. He suggested to get rid of 6 teeth.
1 was a kist under a teeth I had a long time already, then 1 wisedom tooth to get to the one he messed up (he never said it was his fault, they never do, it's always your fault :S). And as 1 wisedom tooth is out, the other could go too, due to symmetry. ??? really? Oh and yes he wanted me to sell 1-2 implants, depending on how the removal goes. That's 10000€ and a lot of pain and great risk of infection.
I stood up, asked for my file, and quit the office with a banging door.
Did go to an other dentist. No, no need to do that. As long as I don't get heart sugery and the kist does not open and spread on the jaw, absolutly no worries to have. And dental surgery is still in the infant shoes, there will be huge advancement in the years to come (cold plasma cutter, better treatement of infections and kist under the teeth,...)
Kist under a tooth: 80's : removal of the tooth - 90's: opening of the tooth and then closing it again - 2000's : removal and implant.
People fear of dentist usally comes from things like this whether it was in the childhood or adulthood.