ping is basically just the distance/speed you are from the "server" or whatever device you're connecting to. if i ping something here in atlanta i get a 15ms speed, but if i ping something in california it will be around 100ms or more. since we dont all live in the same state, its inevitable that some of us are going to have higher pings than others (see pipi).
i think we're nit picking here to be honest, although having a host with a fast connection and in a central US location would be ideal
Yes, PING is affected by distance travelled. However, it shouldn't be affected by a huge margin. Gatrs ping is about average for around cross country travel. It uses the ICMP (Internet Control Message Protocol) protocol (very different than UDP or TCP) mainly used for diagnostics. But now we're getting off topic here.
I've also run some tests here:
EDIT: Just ran some tests of my own.
ISP Verizon (DSL Services)
Local Testing (from source to Boston Server Comcast).
Cross Country Testing (from source to San Francisco Server Monkey Brains).
International Testing 1 (from source to Montreal Server Fibrenoire Internet)
International Testing 2 (from source to Nuremburg Sever ratiokontakt)
International Testing 3 (from source to Tokyo Server World's Fastest Indian)
The Average of 5 tests:
Download: 1.88 MB/s
Upload: 684 KB/s
PING: 131.2 ms
This is actually decent for DSL. The host should typically have a good internet speed, but it really doesn't matter as all networks should synchronise with each other (speed wise). Location really shouldn't be a problem either, as may recall we have people here from over seas as well!