An Embarrassing Situation

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Since Zero refuses to post a pic of the girl he met online, I'll go ahead and post one...
 
Josh you stupid ass homo, that aint her and you know it. Email me if you want pics.
 
Zero reminds me of...
 

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Originally posted by Brett
This has nothing to do with anything on this forum, but I need help. Please don't ignore me because I am a newbie.

Here's the whole story:
I was looking for a friend on MSN Messenger Profiles who just got a new computer, as I was looking, I found a profile of some girl that lives in my suburb.
Since then, I have gone crazy, I haven't stopped thinking about her since I saw her picture and the stuff she likes.
But the problem is that I can't get her e-mail because of MSN's privacy policy (they don't share your e-mail) but I can send e-mails that are cloaked with some MSN **** that you would just ignore.
Another thing is that her surname is the same as a friend of mine, so I looked his number up and found out that it wasn't his sister or any relation, but what I did find out was that she is the only person with that surname in my suburb.

So what would you do?
I have her number and her address from the phonebook, which I have been bagged countless times by my friends about me being a stalker and stuff.
I really want to meet this girl, she is a dream to me, I have never felt like this for a girl before.

Please don't rip on me, just an honest opinion or advice would help.

I have written a letter that I am planning to send to her, but I wanted some advice before I went ahead with it.
Letter is attached.

Thanks,
Brett.
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Brett, I am responding to this without reading the replies so you will know my opinion is both worthless as well as blinded. I would have, prior to reading your letter, suggested that you may need professional help as you seem a bit tense to me. Since reading your letter I have learned more about your state, and age, and have come to believe that you should send that letter to Erin. She will most likely receive it. Positively, she will contact you and will be willing to meet with you and you are off and running as they say.... Negatively, she will not respond. Or, she will respond with a letter suggesting that you get lost and that will be that. As I see it the the positive out-weighs the negatives.
 
Very interesting Voltron,
That is just about the complete opposite of which everyone else has told me.

I have decided now to wait until Sunday, and if I don't have a chance to talk to her before then, I will send a smaller, less desperate letter. Keeping everything the truth.

Thanks.
 
hi Bret,
slip2rocks girlfriend here!
seems you've had lots of advice, mainly male advice. From a female point of view...DON'T send that letter
1. it will scare the poor girl senseless, she will think you are complete crazy gimboid and all your chances are out of the window. Remember she is only 13! ...which leads to..
2. if that letter fell in to the hands of her dad or big brother(s), you will probably be getting a not so friendly reply/visit from them.

Mmmmm, i think best thing to do is maybe chill out and bide your time and try and get her online chatting, don't come over all full-on , just check out if you really have so much in common, as a profile doesn't really give away so much about a person.
If you still like what you see/hear then pm her and see how the ground lies, she may already have a boyfriend!!
And if all else fails, send the post card ....a good harmless idea with just a 'hi' and friendly chat : nothing heavy.
good luck!

;)
 
She is definitely single, and it is impossible for me to "pm" her.

So what if her dad or whoever did read it?
I don't think a little under 2 years is that bad.

Thanks.
 
Sorry for this post being a little off the subject but I would like to extend a warm GTP welcome to bird2rock ;)
bird2rock is slip2rocks girlfriend! She must be an amazing woman to be attached to a fine gentleman (I use that term loosely :D ) as Slip! ;)

I hope that we will see you around in more than just this one thread as there are subjects that tend to surface in here that could certainly use some "womanly" advice and points of view. :D

Hope to see you around bird2rock!

Boombexus
An "ex-colonial" (Slip knows what I mean) :D
 
as bird2rock said, the letter is a BAD idea, for the fact that this girl's father or brothers could easily read it. i'd wait until you get her online. if that doesn't work, then send a post card.(GOOD idea) After you send it, go do something you really like doing, and that has absolutely nothing to do with women. then, wether or not she replies, you'll feel better. plus, it'll relieve some of your painfully obvious tension.
 
Originally posted by Brett
She is definitely single, and it is impossible for me to "pm" her.

So what if her dad or whoever did read it?
I don't think a little under 2 years is that bad.

Thanks.
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Haha, you haven't met any of your girlfriends' dads before, am I right? :lol:
 
Brett, you should just loosen up, be your own charming self and go talk to her!
 
Dude! I know from experience. Letters can make a girl hate you, even if you know them. I knew this one girl for a bout a year and I liked her so much so I sent her a letter kinda similar to yours, and now she hates me. I was the same age as you when I sent it too.

I think the casually walk by thing sounds kinda good.
 
I don't know if you last couple of people read the first couple of replies or not....

But there is no way I would just "walk by her place"
I don't know her and she has never heard of me.
And I shouldn't have her address if you read the letter.

I'm going to stick with a smaller letter if I can't get in touch with her over the net in the next few days.
 
Why won't you walk by her house? What's wrong with that? People take walks - I do every night with my dog. So what if she sees you (which she won't)? She'll never know.
 
Well what is the point in walking by her place then?
If she won't see me, then I don't reckon I would see her.

Again, I am not supposed to have her address, that sort of thing is given when you trust the person you are seeing, I haven't even talked to her.

I think the first couple of replies were good, these last couple are making me think that you people are just turning it into a joke.
 
But Brett that's the point - just walk by her place to have a look around and see who she really is.

Who cares if you're not supposed to have her address? What can she do?
 
It's not stalking! Just a stroll! I think sending a letter to her would be a lot more forward than just walking by her home!
 
I'm sorry, but I consider that stalking.

Even if it isn't, what is the point of it?
It won't teach me more about her, and it won't make us become friends.

Probably the only thing it will do, if I see her, will make me want to talk to her and meet her properly more!
Or she would see me and think nothing at first. But if we ever did meet one day or something, she would remember that I was the weird guy that walked by her place just to check her out.

This is getting really confusing.

Thanks anyway,
Brett.
 
Sure it'll teach you more about her!

It'll teach you all sorts of stuff...her parents cars, their bumper stickers, how well-cut their lawn is, if their house is in need of repair, if it's a big house...

And you consider walking down the block stalking? How about writing a desperate letter to someone you've never met!!

You're thinking it through too much. Loosen, man!
 
It's all about impulse. If you want to do something, do it - don't stand around thinking of all the things that could go bad from it. 'Cos there's always more to gain than to lose.

'The greatest risk is not taking one.'
 
It doesn't really interest me how rich or poor she is, and just say that I find out something that she really likes, it would be a little strange if I knew a lot about her when she has never heard of me.

This situation is not one where it requires "guts". It is just really awkward.

I would much rather a girl to write me a letter, like I have done for Erin, than to find some weird girl snooping around my house looking at everything that I have or whatever.
 

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