@ otakukid96 ... and anybody really.
Sometimes it pays to compromise a bit.
I've had to compromise and give in a bit to popular interests to find racing pals. I won't do racing I don't like, obviously. But while there's things that don't matter to me, or things I'd prefer... Sometimes it's better to know what battles to pick or when to stand firm, and when to be a bit flexible, in order to have fun with other humans.
I fear that on the internet in general... and certainly applying to this forum, or any other... Too many times people have a mindset of "you're either with me or against me", with no middle ground to be seen. As if any differing of opinion, preference, or way about things, is seen and treated as a threat.
It doesn't have to be that way.
While I think that some people might take things in gt5 more than a tad too seriously. I mean the people who think they're the only ones who should play, with the top equipment, and believing that they're just like a real racer because they're not using aids or they're really fast... and everyone else is somehow the weird ones. When clearly, that's NOT the norm. It's rather lopsided in the balance department, because the fact is that most people don't devote bundles of money, bundles of time, and bundles of space, to playing gt5.
OTOH... to begrudge people who may have the resources, time, and/or inclination to become good enough with gt5 to want to turn the aids off, and get the fullest version of "real" that the game has to offer...
Well that's not reasonable either to deny others their pleasure, which the game offers.
But I think I can explain the connection between aids off and fair play...
It's NOT that there are not fair racing clean players who race with driving aids.
There are, and probably many.
But there's 2 issues:
1) They're usually people who don't play all that often, and therefore probably can't get together with like minded people as often... so they have a harder time finding each other.
and
2) It's harder to police it and get to know who's like minded without wasting a lot of time with those who are NOT like minded.
The reason for #2, sadly, is because the driving aids and assists are too vulnerable to exploitation by savvy gamers who are not interested in a casual but proper & fair racing experience.
You put on SRF, and there's the yahoo that uses it to drive recklessly & still get ahead.

Boost is the biggest tragedy... in theory it should allow players of different ability & experience to have close fun races together... But then there's always the turkey who will exploit it, get a boost on to go bang bang!
And what's more is that even casual racers, if they give it a chance... will often find that if they stick to certain genres of cars... don't really need the aids to maintain control of their cars & have a fun gt5 experience.
That's why I do "Lo PP Shuffle". Aids off (except ABS & driving line).
LOTS of people can be competitive as well as CLEAN AND FAIR... in the lower power cars. No, they don't handle as well as a GT300, and they don't go as fast for sure. But it's a way that those of us who are NOT alien fast, and don't have gobs of time or patience to be practicing & practicing or tuning & tuning... can have fun, competitive, and clean fair races without aids, and a "handicap" system that's pretty fun, not really exploitable, and doesn't punish you for being cautious (like boost

)... and yet drive some very interesting road cars with a lot of character.
Not everyone's cup of tea, and it doesn't have to be.
But I'm not plugging my races (as they're usually full and I have no need to advertise).
I'm just using this as an example. I'm not the only game in town. There are
plenty of good hosts & organizers out there with a wide variety of aids or no aids, or the kind of cars you like to drive and can do well in...
The bottom line is - when you meet those other racers... Don't pooh-pooh one thing about their races you're skeptical about. Don't look for what they're doing that you don't like. Figure out
if you like MOST of what they're doing, and consider compromising, & give it a chance.
Like maybe they ban SRF, but allow the other aids?
Or maybe they allow just TC, but they race nicely handling performance cars...
You might find out eventually that you like all the settings they propose in the end!
But you'll never find out if you aren't willing to step out of the comfort zone and compromise a bit.