Some of you really need to work on your manners. Calling someone an idiot because they don't happen to like the same product you do is just plain rude.
I think you should just use the DFP for a while. I too had problems with it at first, especially since I shift manually using the stick and the 900 degree rotation means that in city courses I have often need both hands on the wheel. For most vehicles, that is very realistic of course, even if it is a little more difficult.
After a couple of days adjustment to the DFP I couldn't imagine using anything else. The level of realism it produces is astonishing. Cars feel lighter or heavier as appropriate to the model. Steering is more or less difficult based on tire compound. You can feel, through the wheel, if you're running over something with the left or right side of the car, and whether you are doing it with the front or rear wheels. You can feel when the car starts to lift while topping a rise! You can feel when the rear of the car starts to break loose and come around on you (very handy with the Yellowbird etc.)
Despite the problems the wheel has (like the pedal bug, the inability to program the butterfly switches, and truly horrible button placement - they are way to hard to reach while actually driving), it does make the whole experience much more immersive.
You can go into the options for the wheel and turn the feedback down to mild, turn the adaptive steering and the power assist ON, and learn to use it that way first (it is much easier to use that way). Once I got used to it I turned the adaptive steering back off and the feedback to strong, and prefer it that way now, but in the beginning I needed those aids to adapt to the wheel.
Keep it a few days and you'll probably start to love it!