That's funny, I
stiffen the rear shocks, particularly on rebound, in order to get the weight transferred forward again ASAP when accelerating. I typically soften the fronts a little.
EDIT: I haven't really fooled with spring rates much. I'm usually able to get the handling where I want it using the default spring rates, especially on the race or semi-race suspension. I don't believe in slamming the car down onto the bumpstops (except on the speedways), so I don't need to run incredibly high spring rates.
In general, for anything with an understeer problem, I set the front suspension to 25% firm, and the rear suspension to 75% firm. This keeps the weight on the front wheels, and allows them a little more compliance, for better grip.
Also, try 100% on the rear swaybar, and 50% on the front. HTH!
EDIT: This is for anything that understeers under acceleration.
FURTHER EDIT: Vat_man, that's a very well written website. Thanks for the link! Here is my contribution to the handling discussion:
Suspension/handling tips from the Neon FAQ.