I 'spose I can rummage around in my pink matter for something you guys don't know about me...
1. I'm a sometimes-perfectionist. It depends what I'm doing, the mood I'm in, and the time or distinct lack of time I have to do it in. I tend to start a project with the very best intentions, and go about my work in great detail until I feel (or
if I feel) that it's run on too long. At that time I'll hastily finish up, or if possible, break from it entirely until such time that I can complete it to my satisfaction. For example, the downstairs bathroom in my house had never been finished - The walls never filled or painted, no trim installed. I started to fill and reconstruct it until such time that I had a deadline imposed - Some people looking to buy the house. I was able to continue a good quality of work until I was unable to afford time towards it, at which time my mother took over and immediately botched it by poorly sanding and painting it. Oh well.
2. I am non-confrontational. Often, I will go out of my way to avoid serious confrontations with family and coworkers. Part of this is my passive personality, and partly that I know I will have to continue to deal with said coworkers or family (to a lesser extent). No point in worsening the relations between myself and others unless I strongly believe it's worth it.
3. I show very few 'weak' emotions. I'm not sure why, but I just don't. I won't hesitate to show my anger (which admittedly is not often), but I have shown nary a sign of crying in a few years. I've seen relatives injured, my parents fight and divorce, conflicts between good friends, and more that I won't get into. But I've not cried in years. The last time I recall weeping was more than five years ago...
4. I'm a quiet person. Both emotionally (generally), and verbally I'm one of the quietest people I can think of. I'm somewhat socially akward, and I attribute this partly to completely uprooting and moving my life when I was in Grade 8. To make matters worse, I became friends with people similar to myself and had a limited network of friends a fair way through high school. I, fortunately, realised what was happening and began to make efforts through Grade 10 to socialise more and join a new group of people. I feel that I was well known and with a good network of friends by the end of school, although I, to this date, still won't open up any good portion of feelings or thoughts to friends or family (Which I'm sure my family suspects, but I won't confirm). I am quite introverted around people I am unfamiliar with, and fairly formal with people out of my peer group and age bracket.
5. I make a point to not follow many popular trends. It has been pointed out in this thread that in doing so, I am still reacting to trends. However, I have more reason to do this than just to be different. If my tastes happen to cross those of a popular trend, then great! But I try not to follow trends in a subtle attempt to show my disdain for pop culture. I think 98.5 per cent of new music (the stuff you hear on the radio, at least) is unoriginal and essentially sucks (as detailed in a
post I made in the Music subforum). Modern fashion sucks, although I personally prefer a clean-cut, casual or semi-formal look that can be easily found. Among dozens of other things I could pick out, I dislike most modern media and news agencies, as well as Hollywood (Although I still manage to choke down the odd movie that comes from them). Partly because of the over-hyping of the smallest issues, and partly because of the most superfluous BS becoming an issue.
I figure that I have enough to worry about with what I am doing and where I am going that I needn't concern myself with what others are doing.
Hmm... That went on longer than expected.