The game isn't perfect to me, but I've enjoyed it more than any game I've played for quite some time. Going to bed at 5am every morning since I bought the game is proof enough of that.
I too don't care about a bunch of extras that have nothing to really do with the actual gameplay. There is some stuff I would like to see implemented for sure, but they're not game breakers by any means.
The best way to put it, I've yet to turn off my PS3 disappointed.
Honestly, if the game hadn't taken so long it wouldn't of received nearly the amount of criticism. People expect perfection from a long development but it's just not going to happen with any dev team. Some people have acted like they were personally funding PD by sending them monthly checks and wonder where their money went.
They could of made the game better and it had an extremely long development, we get it. The game is still good. I have an extremely good time going down the track which is why I bought the game.