how many girl frends have u had

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how many girls have u had or have

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Strange thing - I have WinAmp playing away in the background. As I read the thread Enigma's Principles of Lust comes on. :reallyodd

Just one. Sorta. (It was long distance).

Every now and then I get to thinking that it might be nice to have a girlfriend. Then I realize it would take up enormous amounts of time and money with which I am not willing to part. :lol:
 
Originally posted by risingson77
Strange thing - I have WinAmp playing away in the background. As I read the thread Enigma's Principles of Lust comes on. :reallyodd

Just one. Sorta. (It was long distance).

Every now and then I get to thinking that it might be nice to have a girlfriend. Then I realize it would take up enormous amounts of time and money with which I am not willing to part. :lol:

Well, speaking from sudo-experience, if she's worth it, she's worth it. The hard part is finding a girl that's worth it.

~LoudMusic
 
Not so my dear risingson ... not so. I have female friends that I have spent nearly no money on, and I know for a FACT that if given the opportunety they could be one of the best girlfriends a guy could ever have. But they are extremely rare individuals.

~LoudMusic
 
i agree with Loudmusic

I spent a grand total of $25 on the last girlfriend i had. The only reason we broke up was because we were moving apart for college.
 
Ive spent about 5$ thus far into my relationship with my lady.. Since wednesday, anyway...
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Ive spent about 5$ thus far into my relationship with my lady.. Since wednesday, anyway...

You're just $15 away from a bj in the backseat.

Spend carefully, or your boys will be look'n like this..... :cry: :cry:


:)
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Ive spent about 5$ thus far into my relationship with my lady.. Since wednesday, anyway...

i'd say i've got about 2,5k invested in her, if i can put it that way... love can make you do some crazy things... ;)
 
Originally posted by PunkRock


... love can make you do some crazy things... ;)


Oh so true PR, so true!

Yeah, I invested about the same if not more into my last girl. Platinum this and diamond that. But on the other hand, she did the same for me too.
But guess what? After 2 1/2 years and thousands of dollars later, were not together any more. But, the reason that I dropped the cash on her is because I knew it would make her happy which in turn makes me happy.

But buying the expensive gift isn't the only way to go, I get a better reaction when I just simply made something with my own two hands for her. That's the ticket! ;)
 
Originally posted by AltF8
Second one, whew boy. Where to start? She was the chick you see in the horror movies (no not the ones in the rubber masks with the oversized lobster claws), you know the one, the one that is the nicest, funniest girl you ever met until she eats your heart while it's still beating? Turned out (after 2 years) to be a complete slut, sleeping with too many others to count. Worst thing I ever did in my life was date her. Best thing ever was getting rid of her. Well, second best.
I hope we weren't with the same woman? Although not 2 years, but only 6 months...it was a learning experience, let's just say that. It also proved that what I wanted then, wasn't exactly what I wanted later. So in hindsight, the inevitable breakup would probably be the best thng that ever happened to me.

Of course it looks that way now; back then (1994), it drove me (literally) mad.
 
Originally posted by boombexus
But buying the expensive gift isn't the only way to go, I get a better reaction when I just simply made something with my own two hands for her. That's the ticket! ;)
A free surprise will work for almost any occasion, I've noticed...except when it comes to an engagement ring. You can't exactly put a bread twist-tie on her finger unless you're 8 years old!

But it's true, a drawing or dinner or card or a single flower always works out alright in the end.
 
I'm not even going to guess how much money I've spent on the missus. It'd probably make me sad...Although it has been well invested (if you can call it that).

I'll reiterate what Boom said. You'd be amazed at how happy she can be when she finds a card sitting on the seat of her car.

Guys in school, try stuffing a card into her locker so that she finds it with all of her friends around. Making her look good in front of her friends is an important thing.

and a final word of advice...A campfire is romantic, a bon fire is not.

AO
 
Originally posted by Option2



...well, that, and your avatar doesn't help your case.

;)

Ha ha ha, well for your information that's a picture of a fractal. Yeah, it's pretty, almost girly, but it's mathematical in design. So it's not 'wholey' girly - it's actually highly intellectual in nature.

~LoudMusic
 
Originally posted by vat_man


Heh - that would be why I refer to my other half as 'partner', and not 'wife'. We'll get around to it eventually.

Man, that's a really slick idea...I wonder if my wife will mind trading titles? ;)
 
Originally posted by Der Alta
I'm not even going to guess how much money I've spent on the missus. It'd probably make me sad...Although it has been well invested (if you can call it that).

I'll reiterate what Boom said. You'd be amazed at how happy she can be when she finds a card sitting on the seat of her car.

Guys in school, try stuffing a card into her locker so that she finds it with all of her friends around. Making her look good in front of her friends is an important thing.

and a final word of advice...A campfire is romantic, a bon fire is not.

AO

Heh heh! This is all so true! My wife and I have been a partnership for so long now that it doesn't feel like I'm spending money on her when I buy her gifts. I don't buy her much outside of Christmas/holidays etc, but we do, with our combined finances, allow each other to buy expensive stuff, which is almost like gifts.

One thing I have learned about girls though is that where boys seem able to monetarily value a gift and rate it accordingly, girls rate gifts in a completely different manner. Cost has almost nothing to do with it.

Der Alta's ABSOLUTELY on the button with the social-group thing. If you can get your girl to receive a gift (i.e. by leaving it, or having it delivered) so that she's with her mates, and they all coo and say 'He's soooo nice', then you're laughing.
 
You guys seem to have a good grip on the whole giving gifts thing. My boyfriend draws me pictures all the time and writes me poems and that means a lot more to me than things he could buy for me.
 
Originally posted by TATINEE
You guys seem to have a good grip on the whole giving gifts thing. My boyfriend draws me pictures all the time and writes me poems and that means a lot more to me than things he could buy for me.

That's something I think a lot of my friends just don't get. Giving your personal time is so much more important than anything you can purchase. I think my parents have a firm grasp on this, though - at least ... they never buy ME anything ... (:

~LoudMusic
 
Originally posted by TATINEE
You guys seem to have a good grip on the whole giving gifts thing. My boyfriend draws me pictures all the time and writes me poems and that means a lot more to me than things he could buy for me.

i'd say it depends on the woman. i know i'm not good enough with my two hands to draw things, and poetry is not exactly what i excell in... ;) so instead i buy her gifts. At least it shows her i really care about her, even if i'm not the most romantic guy ever!
 
Yeah, and then you have kids, house payments, car payments, insurance, food, daycare, etc. and you can't afford gifts for each other. ;)
 
Originally posted by AltF8
Yeah, and then you have kids, house payments, car payments, insurance, food, daycare, etc.

Shocker!!

Dude. I'm eating, do you mind!?
 
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