The only thing useless/redundant I find with a lot of cars is the steering wheel audio controls. On the E320B, for instance, the volume control toggle on the steering wheel is literally 2-3 inches away from the main volume control knob on the dash. I mean, put the volume knob on the right side of the dash if you're going to do that. This way I, as the passenger, can adjust it without having to reach over in front of the wheel.
I have to admit I am addicted to that feature on my Scion (I unconsciously press the left part of the steering wheel on her CR-V, which is unfortunately close to the horn button), although some cars take it a bit too far, with more than 10 buttons on the wheel, and 10 more surrounding the gaps between the spokes. It's far safer, and quite a lot easier when you're driving a manual transmission, since the volume/track/mode controls are on the left side of the steering wheel at the 9-o'clock position.
I think some of you are missing the point that automakers are trying to one-up each other with new technology, since a 0.3-second gap in 0-60 times (between competitors for the same type of car) is a wash for most consumers. Also, while one technology debuts from one automaker, in 2-3 years, version 2.0 or 3.0 usually supplants it nicely, potentially without all the initial cost of research and development.
I think many of you think that these technologies are creating a less-involving automobile, yet they are gadgets that people generally ask for in the name of safety and convenience, not because they want to nap while driving drunk. They are only distractions when the owners attempt to learn them while driving in congested environments, or when other stimuli like musics, cellphones, food/drink, screaming children are distracting them. And many owners give up after a while on many of these options, since they're usually used for just a few occasions.
Lastly, since cars are becoming more and more "maintenance-free" and generally more reliable, the service departments are still eager for your business (even if it's warranty work).
Many of these owners who buy luxury cars are over 30+ years old, and have been driving for quite a while now. They do not all need lessons on how to drive again, despite the pandering of our 20-somethings here. The 16-year-old just getting a license, or the 90-year-old that may need an eye-test is more an issue.