Love is in Danger

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well good news....
i talked to her last night, and it came down to one question. she asked me what i see in the future...and i said i wasnt sure....and she said, well, nothings gonna happen, cuz i see you with me. and then this morning she called me over to tim hortons and we had brakfast and she told me she loved me and everythings back to normal.
thanks to all you guys for your input. its good too see people here dont hate me enough to take a cheap shot at me while im down. thanks again!
 
It seems like your entire existence is hanging on this girls whim. Not good. You have been owned, controlled, if you will. But hey, that's what some people are into. Are you?
 
Originally posted by milefile
It seems like your entire existence is hanging on this girls whim. Not good. You have been owned, controlled, if you will. But hey, that's what some people are into. Are you?
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im not being controlled at all... its just that whenever i have something good with someone, i dont see the logic in ending it. it just dosent make sence to me. and she makes me happier than ive ever been, and i know i make her equally happy, i know for sure... shes just really careless(right word?)with how she deals with her feelings at any one time. and by the way, i have tried picturing myself without her....and i can, but to me, its the same thing as trying to picture myself not existing. try it, you see black right?...but even then you still are there. its just dosent feel right.
 
..Not to sound like an ass, but stop being such a sissy. :odd: You said everynow and then you 'break down'.. Wtf? I love my girl, too, but I dont think I'd 'break down' if this happen. Just.. uh, wait, I'd say. Wait to see what happens. Or just talk to her? Seems reasonable..
 
Good for you man. ;)👍 Just remember to show her constantly how much she does mean to you. Oh yea. GET OUT OF THAT STUPID ROUTINE!!! That doesn't help anything. That's what married couples do when they're 80 or 90.

There's some pretty inspiring stuff in here. I'll have to try that out on the girl I love to see if that works. :D

Congrats man. Hope you do stay together
 
Good luck this time 'round man. And please, for your own sake, if she does this again, end it...
 
Yes, but on the plus side if she gets too naggy he can always deflate her and put her back in the box.

Or wake up.
 
Originally posted by F.Zamataki
Today is not a good day for me....even just now i had this whole thing typed out and i hit backspace when it misteriously highlighted the whole page.

..........im gonna keep it short. or try to.

Mal(my girl) calls me today, everything is normal, untill she reveals that she is not sure if she wants to be with me much longer...
Now usually she says little things like this, but it always turns out OK because she realises she was just stressed at the time r whatever. but this time she sounded serious.
She told me that she couldnt think of a single reason for us seperating, she even went on to say she wouldnt know who to call all the time and who to think about all day.
But she said things were becoming "routine".
anyways....the kind of person i am, i freak out even on the littlest of things....and right now, im a complete wreck. I keep breaking down every now and then, and i cant stop thinking about her.
I cant imagine not being with her.

She said that things are ok now...but not sure for the future. and this time...she didnt come back and say everything was ok....she means it this time. its going downhill for me...from here on.
she told me to pray that God would give her something....some reason to love me again....a sign, and im praying in my mind even as i type this.

Just the other week i was in heaven....now i feel like i have nothing left. i know somethings wrong with me, because i clearly can tell im freaking out too much over her, but she said nothing was wrong with me...

only fate can decide what happens now.
if she leaves me...i fear what might happen to me. i get completely wrecked just thinking about how much i love her, and how devastated id be if she left me, so i dont want to imagine what ill be like if it DOES happen.

has anyone out there been through this? does anyone know what im going through. im freaking out and the only thing preventing me from breaking down is typing this out, because as soon as i stop reality will kick in. i dont know what to do....
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if it was me you are asking i would say you are asking the wrong guy, but!!
tell me one thing how old are you, and how old is she.....................do you think you are at an age to love and love back, this is the time for you to experiment. go out there and meet other people girls and socialize. i'm telling you man, you are a man don't act all girly now. there are so many girls out there just pick one and always be open to critisism. there is nothing wrong with that. but most of all "be yourself". in order for you to find, as they say "you other half", by the way i personally don't beleieve that BS. if she accepts you for who you are then she is the one, if she starts coming up with excuses for not being able to be with you, i have 3 words for you"dump that biatch"she does not deserve you:D
 
Originally posted by Famine
Yes, but on the plus side if she gets too naggy he can always deflate her and put her back in the box.

Or wake up.
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Dont they come in a little bag nowadays? Either way, my best laugh today. Good advice. :lol: 👍
 
Originally posted by Famine
Yes, but on the plus side if she gets too naggy he can always deflate her and put her back in the box.
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I thought we decided you'd say something nice or nothing at all.
 
That was the nicest thing I could think of. You should see the really crappy things I've got lined up.
 
hey Famine, go in your room, lay on your back, bend your legs over your head and open your mouth. thats the only action your worthy for.
 
*whip crack*

All bow-down to the razor sharp wit of the Zam!
 
Hahahaha! Gold!

All praise the F.Master of Mirth!


You actually ARE an alter-ego of Rumple Foreskin, aren't you? Go on, admit it.
 
Originally posted by F.Zamataki
thats the only action your worthy for.
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I had high hopes for you. Unfortunately, they seem to be unfounded. A sentence should always start with a capital letter.

Also, the "your" in your sentence should be "you're." "That is the only action you are worthy for."

Take care now
 
..In your Sig, Zamataki, you posted a link called "Weaklings". You said you were going to 'take my leave.... suckers" Why havent you left yet? Go on, shoo.
 
Originally posted by XzifT
..In your Sig, Zamataki, you posted a link called "Weaklings". You said you were going to 'take my leave.... suckers" Why havent you left yet? Go on, shoo.
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yeah, my leave from that stupid thread...
and Capt....way to diss me on my spelling.....im soo insulted.:rolleyes:
 
..Uh, you posted your leave from a certain thread in your sig? Why? Did you think you had a cool quote and thought it was worthy of showing your 'intellegence'? The quote was horrible, by the way. But I still don't get you. 90% of the people here think your girlfriend is made up, yet you still post threads about it. How much did she cost? Can't you just return it if you find any bugs or STDs?
 
that thread shows how weak some members here in gtp are....i enter their thread unwelcome....and instead of using words and comments and other ways to persuade me to leave.....they give up and ignore me. that is the weakest solution to a problem. there were many things they couldve said that possibly would have made me leave, but i guess they are too lazy, or maybe too dumb to pull it off. so i win, on that case.
and Xzift....quit it with the rubber GF thing....are we 10 years old?
do you think that someone would be soo pathetic as to post questions and struggles about an "imaginary" girlfreind....get real. use your brain next time one of you decide to throw the "inflatable" diss on me, because quite frankly im the one laughing at your "inflatability", by this i mean your head as it is hollow and can be blown up due to the lack of a brain.
 
Why should someone have to make you leave? The Ignore button is the right way to go, it stops arguments from happening. And about my 'jokes'. I am not 10, I am probably older than you are. And Yes I do think someone would post things about an 'imagineary' girlfriend just so they can get attentiuon and feel cool. Maybe if you do it enough, you'll start to belive she's yours.

PS- You said 'but i guess they are too lazy'. Is this coming from someone who is too lazy to hit the shift key every now and then? Is it coming from someone who uses 'gf' insted of girlfriend? Are the extra 9 letters too hard to type out? :odd:
 
Originally posted by XzifT
Why should someone have to make you leave? The Ignore button is the right way to go, it stops arguments from happening. And about my 'jokes'. I am not 10, I am probably older than you are. And Yes I do think someone would post things about an 'imagineary' girlfriend just so they can get attentiuon and feel cool. Maybe if you do it enough, you'll start to belive she's yours.

PS- You said 'but i guess they are too lazy'. Is this coming from someone who is too lazy to hit the shift key every now and then? Is it coming from someone who uses 'gf' insted of girlfriend? Are the extra 9 letters too hard to type out? :odd:
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ok, if you belive that i go out on a limb to try and make myself "look cool" while you guys obviously dont belive me, giving me no further incentive to "humiliate" myself...then belive it. i quite honestly could care less. you have no solid proof shes is imaginary and i have no proof to you that she is real. all i know is im the one that knows what the truth is and you're not.
and yes, an extra nine letters are too hard to type out, and hitting the shift key is annoying. or are you to mentally incapacitated for your brain to sense that it is the beginning of a sentence or not, and to decipher a punctuation mistake and make sense of it. so i ask you, are you too stupid to figure all that out?
 
Well there's an easy answer: Yes. You violate the AUP by using horrible grammar, for one, and two you should at least use decent grammar so people don't think you're 11 years old. Hell, theres 11 year olds here that probably type better than you do..
 
Originally posted by XzifT
Hell, theres 11 year olds here that probably type better than you do..
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There are 11 year olds that type better then me. . . sheesh. . .
 
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